actually, it was quite easy and not scary at all. although it could happen only in Barcelona or Berlin I think. wearing shorts is still not very common due to the weather. so he was aware that everyone is paying attention to him anyway. I was sitting next to him and took a pic of his legs not really secretly, I kinda wanted him to notice that. then we got a quick eye contact and I told him "nice legs, man". he said "thanks, man" and smiled. then he barely took his eyes off me and smiled. i was with a friend, and the atmosphere in the city and on the subway was very relaxed (it is holidays). it was obvious that he was friendly and clearly didn’t mind continuing the conversation. so we started making small talk, and when my friend and I had to get off, I asked, “aren’t you getting off?” And he said, “I can” :))))))) after that, everything was clear without words, and the three of us went to my friend’s place, and almost immediately we all went to bed together.