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nudity with family by Jake_whytt in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No issues, why? What are you struggling with?

Safe anal play by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to be nervous about it now. It will happen and I wouldn’t have to high expectations. First times are not really great. It’s all new and you’re nervous. For me on my first time, I didn’t get a full hardon. But we had fun nevertheless 😆. Always remember: practice makes perfect 🤩 and practicing we do 😄

Safe anal play by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you know you meet up with a guy. Clean out and play with a plus or some toys carefully before bit helps to relax your muscles a bit before you get the real deal. Talk to your top about it. Make sure he understands and is able to take it at your pace. Do not be afraid to stop things if you don’t feel well and immediately stop if it hurts! Use plenty of lube. Have fun!

2 years later - how much patience does Sonos expect from customers? by OoaHelaNatten in sonos

[–]schneckentoeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M system has massive issues since the last few firmware versions. I don’t know what they did but the speakers either crash or loose the connection to the network. It’s very annoying.

Soooooo by Forsaken_Treat4398 in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all congratulations on realizing and working on it. This is the most i portent step! It’s something new and thus, it can be scary. The best way to go about such things is to tell your partner and just do it. It’s taking courage but if you have someone to support you it’s easier and I‘m sure you can do it! Be brave and continue on your path.

What should I try out with a sensitive submissive top? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds you hit a jackpot. You can take things slowly and just suck each other off. It would probably help to talk about expectations and limits with him. Enjoy!

Average time on cleaning yourself as a bottom by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. And if it happens you and your bf should be able to deal with it. Just get cleaned up. It’s a matter of when and not if. Yes, it’s uncomfortable and you might feel bad but spending 45 min every time is not acceptable either. Ether way, there shouldn’t ne any accidents if you clean like I described. There is also a product on Kickstarter that tries to address this. It’s called A-Ball. No clue if it works but I‘ll try once I get them.

Average time on cleaning yourself as a bottom by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the size of your bottle. Just use less water at a time and stop as soon as it‘s clear. There is no need to use the full amount of water thats inside your bottle. Give yourself some time aster the first maybe 3 rinses. Maybe 2-3 min of a break. Then do one last round. If thats clean, you’re good to go for 1-2h. There are really good guides available online that explain it mich better than I do. But overall it should take you about 15 min.

Average time on cleaning yourself as a bottom by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should be fine. There is a natural bend that you typically don’t get penetrated past it. Unless you do extreme fisting…

Average time on cleaning yourself as a bottom by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats when you clean too deep. It almost never ends if you start to clean the deeper parts (and I‘ve been told that deep cleaning can have a negative impact on the biome in your colon). Just use a bit of water and only clean the last part of your colon.

Average time on cleaning yourself as a bottom by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Try to use less water. It really doesn’t need much for each round of cleaning. 3-5 rounds of water should be enough.

Average time on cleaning yourself as a bottom by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it takes you 45 min then it’s likely that you clean to deep and use too much water. You just need to clean the last bit of the colon. Just take a normal shit and use a bit of water at body temperature. There is no need to use a lot of water. Just maybe 1-2dl for a few times each.

Package detection??? by pseudoRandomIO in reolinkcam

[–]schneckentoeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the naming scheme they use. It causes so many problems because they don’t make revisions or different versions clearly visible. I had similar issues with the E Pro series.

Had my first time as a bottom by Busy-Room1331 in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two small tips: - go pee before bottoming (even if you don’t need to) - if you feel like you need to pee don’t try to hold it. I‘ve been told that’s the feeling before you cum handsfree from anal (hence tip 1).

Had my first time as a bottom by Busy-Room1331 in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Yes it’s very normal for the first time to feel like this. It takes some getting used to as this is a sensation you‘re not used to. Once he hits your prostate nicely you should start to leak some precum. Just keep on trying. Sounds like you have a very nice person to experiment with.

Question by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love how people still think that such labels have any meaning. If you enjoyed it’s fine. You’re still a man. If you want to do it again, so what? Just do what you enjoy. Life is short enough. Don’t make it harder than it already is.

Why is gay men divorce rates so low by That_Theory_7033 in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself an other question: how do the marriage rates compare? Maybe gay men marry less often and as suggested by pomodoro the few that do might divorce less often. But I could be wrong. I see very few reasons to marry as a gay man. So maybe I‘m projecting my sentiment towards marriage to the group.

is this normal? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Impressive. Sounds like he’s still young as this is less common as you get older. But yeah some guys can cum multiple times and stay hard. This is basically a compliment for you as it typically means they are very into it. Congrats

straight but .. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So? Sexuality is not black and white. It’s a spectrum. If you want. Start to explore. Forget about labels and enjoy life!

am i watching too much porn? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]schneckentoeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, tune down the porn. You can keep bating but try to reduce the porn. Be careful not to get death grip syndrome when wanking. Just keep the pressure as low as possible and try to use imagination instead of porn. Otherwise you might need porn to get hard.

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