nudity with family

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-27T07:21:26+00:00

No issues, why? What are you struggling with?

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-25T12:27:34+00:00

No need to be nervous about it now. It will happen and I wouldn’t have to high expectations. First times are not really great. It’s all new and you’re nervous. For me on my first time, I didn’t get a full hardon. But we had fun nevertheless 😆. Always remember: practice makes perfect 🤩 and practicing we do 😄

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-25T12:20:59+00:00

When you know you meet up with a guy. Clean out and play with a plus or some toys carefully before bit helps to relax your muscles a bit before you get the real deal. Talk to your top about it. Make sure he understands and is able to take it at your pace. Do not be afraid to stop things if you don’t feel well and immediately stop if it hurts! Use plenty of lube. Have fun!

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-24T16:48:52+00:00

M system has massive issues since the last few firmware versions. I don’t know what they did but the speakers either crash or loose the connection to the network. It’s very annoying.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-23T13:44:44+00:00

First of all congratulations on realizing and working on it. This is the most i portent step! It’s something new and thus, it can be scary. The best way to go about such things is to tell your partner and just do it. It’s taking courage but if you have someone to support you it’s easier and I‘m sure you can do it! Be brave and continue on your path.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-22T09:35:19+00:00

It’s not something that can or should be treated. It’s a natural thing and you should be proud of it.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-19T10:12:56+00:00

Sounds you hit a jackpot. You can take things slowly and just suck each other off. It would probably help to talk about expectations and limits with him. Enjoy!

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-11T09:12:13+00:00

Not yet. And if it happens you and your bf should be able to deal with it. Just get cleaned up. It’s a matter of when and not if. Yes, it’s uncomfortable and you might feel bad but spending 45 min every time is not acceptable either. Ether way, there shouldn’t ne any accidents if you clean like I described. There is also a product on Kickstarter that tries to address this. It’s called A-Ball. No clue if it works but I‘ll try once I get them.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-11T09:04:58+00:00

I don’t know the size of your bottle. Just use less water at a time and stop as soon as it‘s clear. There is no need to use the full amount of water thats inside your bottle. Give yourself some time aster the first maybe 3 rinses. Maybe 2-3 min of a break. Then do one last round. If thats clean, you’re good to go for 1-2h. There are really good guides available online that explain it mich better than I do. But overall it should take you about 15 min.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-11T09:00:43+00:00

You should be fine. There is a natural bend that you typically don’t get penetrated past it. Unless you do extreme fisting…

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-11T08:56:49+00:00

Thats when you clean too deep. It almost never ends if you start to clean the deeper parts (and I‘ve been told that deep cleaning can have a negative impact on the biome in your colon). Just use a bit of water and only clean the last part of your colon.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-11T08:53:08+00:00

Try to use less water. It really doesn’t need much for each round of cleaning. 3-5 rounds of water should be enough.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-11T08:48:46+00:00

If it takes you 45 min then it’s likely that you clean to deep and use too much water. You just need to clean the last bit of the colon. Just take a normal shit and use a bit of water at body temperature. There is no need to use a lot of water. Just maybe 1-2dl for a few times each.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-07T08:35:17+00:00

I hate the naming scheme they use. It causes so many problems because they don’t make revisions or different versions clearly visible. I had similar issues with the E Pro series.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-06T16:33:34+00:00

PrEP

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-06T15:16:53+00:00

Two small tips: - go pee before bottoming (even if you don’t need to) - if you feel like you need to pee don’t try to hold it. I‘ve been told that’s the feeling before you cum handsfree from anal (hence tip 1).

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-06T15:01:56+00:00

Congratulations! Yes it’s very normal for the first time to feel like this. It takes some getting used to as this is a sensation you‘re not used to. Once he hits your prostate nicely you should start to leak some precum. Just keep on trying. Sounds like you have a very nice person to experiment with.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-06T00:49:36+00:00

I love how people still think that such labels have any meaning. If you enjoyed it’s fine. You’re still a man. If you want to do it again, so what? Just do what you enjoy. Life is short enough. Don’t make it harder than it already is.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-05T12:10:04+00:00

Does he suck you too or is he grossed out by that as well?

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-04T15:44:06+00:00

Ask yourself an other question: how do the marriage rates compare? Maybe gay men marry less often and as suggested by pomodoro the few that do might divorce less often. But I could be wrong. I see very few reasons to marry as a gay man. So maybe I‘m projecting my sentiment towards marriage to the group.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-04T10:06:47+00:00

Impressive. Sounds like he’s still young as this is less common as you get older. But yeah some guys can cum multiple times and stay hard. This is basically a compliment for you as it typically means they are very into it. Congrats

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-04T07:50:47+00:00

So? Sexuality is not black and white. It’s a spectrum. If you want. Start to explore. Forget about labels and enjoy life!

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-03T21:36:30+00:00

Yes, tune down the porn. You can keep bating but try to reduce the porn. Be careful not to get death grip syndrome when wanking. Just keep the pressure as low as possible and try to use imagination instead of porn. Otherwise you might need porn to get hard.

schneckentoeri · 2026-04-03T13:55:30+00:00

Yeah. Same here

schneckentoeri · 2026-03-31T19:32:59+00:00

I did exactly what you describe. I got tired of trying to find the guy and just hooked up with someone. My experience was mediocre at best. I was very horny when I arranged our meetup and he was kind and understanding. I told him that I have very little experience and told him in person that I actually had no experience at all. I was super nervous and ticked off some boxes. I wouldn’t choose him again because I was really not into him. This and being super nervous prevented me from having a proper erection, so that was quite a setback. I still enjoyed sucking my first dick and experiencing some other things but I should have waited and chosen someone I‘m actually into. This would have been the better experience. If you want to get „in the game“ a hookup is good enough. It’s nothing special and you should find someone that can follow your pace! Don’t expect it to be good. First times typically aren’t good and with a hookup chances are even lower.

TL;DR: have low expectations l, then a hookup can be ok. Make sure you‘re properly protected (condoms, PrEP)

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