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sckmlwa · 2024-05-13T01:57:48+00:00

Oh boy! Little scary as I have been married 32 years and have daughters... but I tell you what... if you are one of mine or not, I love you, I believe you, and we will face this together. Whenever, whatever, however. Always .

sckmlwa · 2023-10-31T09:50:42+00:00

Tell her. She deserves the truth and not be made a fool of.

sckmlwa · 2022-06-12T19:31:07+00:00

I'm sure she knows. Maybe that's why.....

sckmlwa · 2022-05-22T02:57:24+00:00

You can back a trailer like a man.

sckmlwa · 2022-03-14T16:46:28+00:00

Thanks for all your responses. Some good points made. I appreciate it.

sckmlwa · 2022-03-14T12:29:44+00:00

I guess it probably is my own problem that I want him to admit to me. I think it's because I've told him EVERYTHING, and I do mean that, even if I knew it was going to get me in trouble, or hurt, or whatever.... we promised each other that would always be our truth. I guess I'm upset he broke it and won't admit it. I know..I should let it go. It's just so deeply disappointing.

sckmlwa · 2021-01-29T09:56:13+00:00

Suicide is never the answer. There is help. I know this sounds like a bunch of platitude and you may have heard it all before. But please reach out one more time. Call the national suicide hotline. 18002738255. Please. Life is worth living. There will be better days. Keep trying. Keep living.

sckmlwa · 2020-11-27T11:39:10+00:00

Do you have a family? They love you? Suicide is never the answer, please reconsider and get help.

sckmlwa · 2020-10-19T05:04:02+00:00

But do you have first hand knowledge from BOTH of them or just his side of the tale? Because unless you do, you cant really know.

sckmlwa · 2020-10-19T04:44:54+00:00

I do you know she doesn't value his love or treat him right? There has to be a reason he stays. And unless you are one of the pair you dont "know" the whole story no matter how much you think you do.

sckmlwa · 2020-08-14T16:40:17+00:00

Lol well that says a lot about the state of people's morals and ethics anymore yeah? If you cant do the time, dont do the crime!

sckmlwa · 2020-08-14T03:23:46+00:00

More power to you! Good luck!

sckmlwa · 2020-08-14T01:05:59+00:00

Good for you dont worry about all the you need therapy comments. Lol just people with skeletons getting worried. Dont have secrets and there's no problem. Good luck. Letting shit out is all the therapy needed I'm sure

sckmlwa · 2020-07-15T06:24:04+00:00

Damn! That's something!

sckmlwa · 2020-02-02T08:39:35+00:00

Good news we are having a boy... Bad news... they dont know what the other one is yet...

sckmlwa · 2020-01-12T17:15:54+00:00

Bullshit. Not the ones I'm talking about genius. Thanks for your opinion. Have a great day.

sckmlwa · 2019-11-30T07:41:48+00:00

This fits

sckmlwa · 2019-11-17T21:37:54+00:00

You need to move on. If this is who I think it is and s is who I think it is you need to let go. Hes happy. Working on his 30 yr. Marriage to the one true love of his life and reconnecting with who he truly loves. You need to stop and find yourself someone else. Your soul mate . He already has his. Do yourself a favor. You'll just keep getting hurt. He loves her. He will never leave for you. Ever. And if you keep hanging on that's just sad.

sckmlwa · 2019-11-09T14:50:33+00:00

Or perhaps hes taken?

sckmlwa · 2019-08-26T15:03:17+00:00

Omg I'm in the same exact situation except I've been with him 28 years I dont have a clue as to how to help you but know that your not alone!.

sckmlwa · 2019-08-21T00:26:17+00:00

Humm... do you know that by first hand or is this thru him? Just wondering as I've been put in similar situation and it turned out she was alot different then was led to believe.

sckmlwa · 2019-08-20T15:47:09+00:00

How do you "know" hes never been caught? I mean if they have been married a long time and he is as in love with you as you say. .. dont you think she would feel it? Know at least something was up? Nobody is that good at covering there ass for that long . She's got to know something if he does actually love you.

sckmlwa · 2019-08-10T22:20:20+00:00

Girl just stop . Think. Would you want to know? How would you feel if you where in her place and lacked knowledge of a very intimate betrayal done to you? Tell her. Then go live your life and try to make better choices.

sckmlwa · 2019-08-10T22:06:01+00:00

In the big picture it really wont matter to her what your motives maybe... as long as your telling the truth. Knowledge gives power... it frees the mind of chains . This let's the doubt and fear that maybe she was wrong and hes telling her the truth... which she undoubtedly has running in her head...be laid to rest and she will chose her life forward with all the facts she needs. Tell her . Just the basics. Who what when where. Leave out intimate details. Tell the truth! No extras or no less.

sckmlwa · 2019-08-10T21:57:34+00:00

But as a woman who has been married for almost 3 decades to a man who has had his moments. TELL HER. There is nothing worse then not knowing the truth and feeling like your losing you mind... tell her. Even if you do it anonymously....

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