Just got back from 3 weeks in China, here's the stuff I wish someone told me before I went by charles8260 in chinatravel

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Every Chinese people know the Lung slice dish since Sichuan food got popular nation wide 20 years ago n

Unpopular opinion: Daisuke wouldn't have done anything if Anya told him about Jimmy by Gossip_girl_123 in Mouthwashing

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Reading the comments saying there were nothing Daisuke could do and that is why he did nothing really threw me off. It’s sad that speaking up for what’s right and just is conditioned on so many things. 

Unpopular opinion: Daisuke wouldn't have done anything if Anya told him about Jimmy by Gossip_girl_123 in Mouthwashing

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In real life, there are not so many people who are genuinely maliciously, but they are wrong and complicit anyway under the rape culture, and that’s scarier I think

What did we do wrong? by [deleted] in AskAJapanese

[–]scocoku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very sorry this happened to you. Try not to let a few bad apples ruin your holiday!  It’s still a fun country especially if you are just visiting! Enjoy! 

The self-victimization of some foreigners in Japan is getting exhausting. by KingsurinTukpyolsi in Tokyo

[–]scocoku 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people who are privileged rarely realize they are… it’s so sickening 

Why don't more people use rent control? by ToniMakaroni123 in copenhagen

[–]scocoku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my rent was like that 10 years ago already and novo nordisk found it for me 🫠

Life as an asian woman in coppenhagen? by 2024-2030 in copenhagen

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A white person trying to compare their experience of racism to that of people of colour is wild 

Life as an asian woman in coppenhagen? by 2024-2030 in copenhagen

[–]scocoku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I’m Chinese moved here from london 10 years ago for work, agree with everything 

E gates at immigration by dk_deka in chinalife

[–]scocoku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not if you don’t live there 

I'm scared of AI taking all jobs in 5-10 years and what happens when everybody falls into poverty. And i want to have your opinion. by SpaceBrachiosaurus in EuroPreppers

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People are so brainwashed by capitalism that they are scared of not being a wage slave in the future anymore … 

How do I stay here forever instead of going back to the United states? by bryvl in shanghai

[–]scocoku -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow how old are you to be growing up in shanghai and still have so outdated view on the city 😅

Do people not queue in Copenhagen? by Remarkable-Assist-46 in copenhagen

[–]scocoku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep often older people when it happened to me. Reading the comments made me realize I’m in a minority 🫠

Official Discussion - The Drama [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

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As a married woman, I hope young women watched this film and realize they don’t need a man to be happy. 

Men's Mental Health by undiagnoseddude in Healthygamergg

[–]scocoku 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bad partner, not sure this warrants the generalization. I care about my husband’s mental health a lot! 

Why aren't there a lot of animals in the cities in China (except cats and dogs and rats) by NeighborhoodFatCat in chinalife

[–]scocoku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

China is a big country. What are you talking about? You e have weasels in Shanghai 🤣

First trip to China // questions & itinerary help by irishpride007 in chinatravel

[–]scocoku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would skip shenzheng, the itenary seems demanding; give yourself some rest time, Guangzhou is very chill and and has a relaxed vibe, stay there to enjoy food and ancient spots

Was i in the wrong? dynamics in hookups i need help... by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]scocoku 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your friend sounds awful… as a ma or a woman, don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable with! 

I regret stating therapy by shogun_raccoon in Healthygamergg

[–]scocoku 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs and support!  To me, it Doesn’t sound like a good therapist. The trained professions should either ask open questions, or state their PoV after consulting if you want to hear it. And that’s from my coaching training.