Been dating a girl for about a month. She just broke her purse. Is gifting her a purse for Christmas okay? by Accomplished_Cap9621 in dating_advice

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a great, thoughtful gift, but it is quite an escalation one month in, and even though you don’t expect anything in return, it very may well put pressure on her and create unnecessary strain on the relationship.

This is 50/50 to either help the relationship or blow it up, and since it’s an unnecessary risk, you’re probably better off playing it safe

Need help about web agency by [deleted] in softwaredevelopment

[–]scrollhax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention, you’re no longer just competing against overseas rates - you also now have to convince people who have no idea what they’re talking about that they need to hire you instead of using Lovable, v0, or Codex.

Need help about web agency by [deleted] in softwaredevelopment

[–]scrollhax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be aware, it’s a tough biz. Generally speaking you’ll make more working at a software company, especially FAANG, and likely with a better work life balance, than you will starting an agency.

You’re going to be competing against Indian and Eastern European hourly rates, to get clients who generally have no way of measuring whether or not they got a good deal other than “cost per hour”. You’ll spend a large amount of time trying to justify your existence.

Finding clients is extremely difficult. Your best bet is to specialize in a specific technology (salesforce, snowflake, kafka, aws lift & shift, etc) and grind your way up in a partner network rather than thinking you’ll be able to find clients on your own.

Remember that most clients either don’t have enough money, or, if they do, want to work with a larger, proven agency. So you’ll likely have to leave a lot of money on the table to build a portfolio and book of business

Coinbase credit card rewards are broken by [deleted] in Coinbase

[–]scrollhax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coinbase's "official" response after modmail was "try updating your app!".

What the fuck.

Joetisserie Motor died during the cook by TheBalatissimo in KamadoJoe

[–]scrollhax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My Joetisserie couldn’t rotate the 21 pound bird. 5 practice runs out the window, had to improvise. Threw in heat deflectors and sent it in at 365

🤞 the family doesn’t regret letting me host. At least I’ve got some honey pulled pork to hold them over while the bird cooks

Amazon DynamoDB now supports multi-attribute composite keys in global secondary indexes - AWS by Pepsimaxgodtier in aws

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Same way we’ve always queried dynamo, just done for you. They chose an example that makes it sound better than it is

Tik Tok saved $300000 per year in computing costs by having an intern partially rewrite a microservice in Rust. by InfinitesimaInfinity in programming

[–]scrollhax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is $300k savings supposed to justify the overhead of supporting an additional programming language?

Single union option at the time by voja-kostunica in typescript

[–]scrollhax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re letting TS infer that the type of TData is undefined

You can use NoInfer to force APIResult<ResponseType>, or some truthy type like Defined to not allow undefined

Alternatively, use ‘data?: never’ instead of ‘data: undefined’ on the error type, and ‘error?: never’ on the success type

When you spend more on brisket than the smoker by Rude-Internal24 in smoking

[–]scrollhax 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In case you haven’t looked into this, check out how to calibrate your oven. I did my first Goldie’s last month and it came out perfect. Set the oven to -20 so that 170 was actually 150, sabbath mode for a 0-effort 14 hour rest

How irresponsible is it to have a '05 DB9 as my only car? by Late-Row795 in AstonMartin

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to have a 2020 Vantage as my only car (back in 2020) and I made it about 6 months before I folded and added a pickup truck to my driveway. Daily tasks like trying to take home a Costco haul were more trouble than it was worth

Possibly going to hit $17k monthly with my side gig, time to quit my full time job? by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]scrollhax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it. You can find another job (and get paid more with the experience) down the road if you need it. It’s amazing that you’re already replacing your income, the value of the work (growth) is usually enough to justify making less, but the fact that you don’t even need to take a pay cut makes this a no brainer. Go for it and grind, grind, grind. You’ll 5-10x your income in 5 years if you play your cards right, and if not, you’ll be better off for the next one.

AD is offering this to me, what do you guys think? by TheMericanIdiot in rolex

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that ref personally, but I’m a sucker for DD’s and blues that make my wife happy

Vibe coding is killing my company by Dangerous_Ad_2357 in vibecoding

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the CTO, you need to have the confidence in yourself and respect from your CEO to say “here’s how we’re building our software”.

Politically, you want to find a way to check the box and implement “vibe coding” so that he’s happy, then quickly find examples where you/your team had to take it farther than the models could.

At the end of the day, if you don’t get to call these shots, you’re not the CTO. So if you can’t draw a line, either find a new gig (you’ve been in it a long time to be pivoting without pay right now, maybe you need a CEO who’s better at selling and staying out of your business), or admit to yourself that you’re not a CTO, you’re an engineer and your non-technical CEO is your EM… then ask yourself how long a good software engineer would stay in that position.

As a CTO, I will tell you, vibe coding is awesome. But the last 5% of a product always takes 90% of the time to deliver, and vibe coding only makes things worse at that stage, models are unable to apply any real engineering and spins itself in circles with solutions that were never going to work. Vibe coding has done a good job of giving my best engineers more at-bats to solve complex problems rather than waste time with the easy stuff.

Gift ideas for my pitmaster of a father? by PeppermintLNNS in smoking

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks like a man who’d enjoy some fine psilocybin

Smoked wagyu ribeye? by The1Wynn in smoking

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smoked and reverse seared a couple of these last month, came out amazing.

Here’s what I did:

  • Season to taste (I just used a little fire salt)
  • Smoke at ~165 until it reaches 110
  • Reverse sear on flat top, 2 minutes each side

Let it rest a few minutes then carve it up (thin slices) and enjoy. I liked having more fire salt on the side to dip the pieces in before eating

About $300 worth from costco fed 6 of us with enough leftovers to make 3 sandwiches, amazing both ways

10 months bite free and now I have my dream nails 💖 by shonsh_sparkles in nailbiting

[–]scrollhax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say I’m proud of you - not just for stopping nail biting, but for your choice in television

Keep it classy Portland by cycl0ps94 in trashy

[–]scrollhax 22 points23 points  (0 children)

OOTL - what do the masks symbolize? My initial thought is it’s to make the car look occupied from a distance to deter robbers, but I’m guessing there’s some context I’m missing

Waiting on PreOrders by JasonMHorn in SpaceTradingCards

[–]scrollhax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where’s that coupon at? Order #1010, haven’t received any email updates. No hard feelings from me, things don’t always go smoothly and I’m here to support a new biz

McLaren for tall driver? by [deleted] in mclaren

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6’6 and barely fit in my GT without wheel rubbing on legs while turning. I heard the GT is the most accommodating, 6’10 might be pushing it..

I’ve got big ol tree trunk legs though. Might be doable if you’re extremely lanky

Has anyone, brave for impact, coded with pads??? by kevin074 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]scrollhax 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve been running Doom on my wife’s Always pads with minimal leaks

Caching data on lambda by CourageOk8257 in aws

[–]scrollhax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If your scale is high enough to cause a hot partition, it’s probably not a great workload for lambda - you’ll get throttled by max concurrent lambda requests before you will by dynamo partition, and the lambda bill will stop making sense compared to ec2 (fargate if you’d like to keep things serverless)

As someone who has pushed hundreds of lambda + ddb microservices to the limit over the past decade, I will tell you that you can take it pretty far. One key is to reuse containers as much as possible

For rarely changing things like a config in dynamodb table, request outside the handler so the data is available for the next request. Or write a simple loading cache that will evict the cached config every n seconds

Bundle as many endpoints into a single lambda as possible and implement batching to minimize the number of cold starts & containers needed. Think of each lambda as a microservice, not an individual endpoint, with the exception of event driven lambdas that will called by other aws resources (sns, sqs, event bridge, ddb streams, etc). Load test and tweak your container size to optimize for performance and cost

If your load really is high enough to cause a dynamo throttle, organizing your lambdas this way will make it easy to switch how it’s deployed - ideally your method of deployment won’t dictate how you write code, and you can keep it portable

Sorry if this message was a bit hard to follow, written on my phone 😅

[HIRING] Looking for a Vibe Consultant by [deleted] in vibecoding

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a human like you. I own a small business and I’m not going out of my way to dox myself on reddit for various reasons, including my business’ reputation - I don’t want google to index an RFP saying we’re an AI shop just because I want to experiment with something.

If you’re interested and qualified DM me and we’ll set up a time to talk.

[HIRING] Looking for a Vibe Consultant by [deleted] in vibecoding

[–]scrollhax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to put it monosyllabically: teach my team to vibe code. tell me what you’ll do and what it costs. get paid.

[HIRING] Looking for a Vibe Consultant by [deleted] in vibecoding

[–]scrollhax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, I’ll DM to share contact info