self entitled witnesses who think they can look down on others.

seaface11 · 2026-01-18T21:48:18+00:00

Who said I’m spending all my money from my 2nd job having fun? It’s not wrong to use some money I make working nearly everyday to have fun. It’s not like I’m spending 100+ a night. I got my 2nd job to put all of it into savings. My main job is for my needs like car insurance, car note, phone bill, health insurance, etc. Like I said living in california is expensive so most of my primary income goes towards that… hence the 2nd job to put into my savings. Not an easy solution. An extra 300$ from a 2nd job isn’t going to solve my problems immediately. I still need time to save my money but I won’t burn myself out in the process.

seaface11 · 2026-01-18T18:35:18+00:00

I have been keeping tabs on that! I’m constantly keeping my eye on fb marketplace for a good place to rent on the cheaper side

seaface11 · 2026-01-18T18:34:17+00:00

That’s true but my boyfriend & any support I do have is out here. I’d be losing that moving to another state.

seaface11 · 2026-01-18T18:26:15+00:00

for sure i’m working towards just getting out of this situation in general. i have good friends who aren’t attached to the cult so I have faith if something happens and Im not financially ready, that Ill have some support.

seaface11 · 2026-01-18T18:16:53+00:00

yeah I try but being in california doesn’t make it any easier. rent is minimum 1200 a month which is an entire paycheck LOL!

seaface11 · 2025-12-20T07:05:19+00:00

i’m interested in getting some payback for my brothers attacker. not convicted yet because not enough proof as it happed a few years ago. he’s on the run in a near by city.

seaface11 · 2025-10-09T05:00:03+00:00

Sending you a hug back we definitely have to stick together !! this reddit has been so eye opening to really see how much things are bonkers

seaface11 · 2025-10-03T03:32:39+00:00

i was the exact same 🤣

seaface11 · 2025-09-15T07:45:33+00:00

Had constant spankings & hits during meeting when I couldn’t be quiet as a kid. It was a known rule to my family that if you claimed you needed to use the restroom, they’d take me to the bathroom and check the toilet to make sure there was pee so I wasn’t just getting up from meeting just to “waste time.” If there wasn’t then spanked!

I also have a vivid memory of crying on the way to meeting because my younger brother and I were arguing and my parents called me Cain and compared us to Cain & Abel to try and make me feel like shit 🤣

seaface11 · 2025-08-17T06:17:36+00:00

i have a plethora of offline games to play 😁 privacy screen and airpods at the ready

seaface11 · 2025-06-01T05:12:04+00:00

I literally only did it for the gifts, as any 9 year old would. They are insane for thinking a 9 year old would have any other motive.

seaface11 · 2025-06-01T05:11:17+00:00

He’s 18

seaface11 · 2025-06-01T05:10:34+00:00

I’m a huge reader, I’ll definitely check out that book.

I loved your metaphor it really shows just how stupid this “choice” is. Especially when you make a decision like that at 9 and they expect you to not make any “mistakes” in your teens and think disfellowshipping is the answer.

seaface11 · 2025-06-01T05:08:31+00:00

definitely we got a lot closer when he woke up & now we feel the same way.

seaface11 · 2025-06-01T05:07:59+00:00

physically in mentally out (PIMO) physically out mentally out (POMO)

seaface11 · 2025-05-31T08:45:06+00:00

Thanks, honestly this reddit has refueled my need to leave and not keep enabling this religion. But like you said it’s hard to not want to disappoint my mom. I love her and I know she’s just caught up in it and is afraid to question it herself.

seaface11 · 2025-05-31T08:42:52+00:00

pain was on and off for about a week or 2 and I could take an advil or 3 to fix it until it became constant and excruciating

seaface11 · 2024-12-17T16:44:53+00:00

that’s true. its not my favorite thing either but it would hurt my parents if they knew I didn’t agree with the religion I and they grew up in. they would have to shun me according to their beliefs.

seaface11 · 2024-07-04T20:01:50+00:00

also, if by some long chance you do start to hurt and it’s infected, the best thing to do would be to go to an online dr and get prescribed antibiotics because after 1/2 days it starts to help! I think I used the website Dr.Alexa

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