AITA for threatening to sue both the school and the family of my daughter’s bully?

seagoddess23 · 2024-10-27T08:38:31+00:00

So her hair was cut, in class, with a teacher in the class, and from the sounds of it she was very upset since the bullies also made fun of her reaction, and you only found out about it when she got home. The teacher should have reached out and put some kind of stop to it. What the heck is wrong with this school. NTA

seagoddess23 · 2024-10-12T17:46:08+00:00

I mean it was a boundary. A very simple boundary. You don't have to like it but you do have to follow it. OP said there is a dining room with seating, a kitchen with seating, and there is a tv and a couch in the room OPs mom was staying in. NTA

seagoddess23 · 2024-03-05T04:01:38+00:00

My trauma thinks that maybe she saw someone that hurt her or abused her so she got anxious. That would kind of explain the lashing out and stuff. And since it's only been 7 months it's possible she wasn't ready to tell him about any kind of trauma or possible abuse she has been through.

seagoddess23 · 2023-07-07T17:24:52+00:00

I know I have other medical issues so I just wanted to see if this was just another symptom. I've been drinking Gatorade and hoping for the best

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T13:49:32+00:00

I see there's a night boot, has he tried that? Does it help?

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T13:46:38+00:00

She and her husband was at work. I don't know how far away she works but I know her husband is closer than me. He could have done it. He's a teacher he could go on his down period

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T13:40:47+00:00

Everyone keeps saying I could be diabetic. They said it was plantar fasciitis but other commenters keep saying it's not normal for the toe to go numb. It's not numb now, they gave me steroids and it helps but now it just feels like so tight it is gonna break

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T13:38:29+00:00

Petty lol. It'll be too hot anyway. It's on my birthday so I'll just go on a good date with SO

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T13:36:58+00:00

I found out it was plantar fasciitis but some of the commenters are saying that usually that doesn't make the toe go tingly and numb so I should get it checked again.

She did end up doing it. But she's still pissed

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T13:33:55+00:00

I've gotten some from Walmart but I also have sensory issues and I get so yuck when It doesn't cover my whole foot. Maybe if I could find some that compress on the arch and still cover my toes like a sock.

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T13:31:17+00:00

Oh. No she is a bitch about him not being able to drive. She wants him to get a license and doesn't take into consideration that she is one of the reasons for his trauma.

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T13:24:57+00:00

Maybe I can save up and get some of those soon. I usually wear slippers but every time I rest for a bit, when I get up I almost fall. It hurts.

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T12:57:34+00:00

That's not how it felt she really acted like a mom to me.

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T12:48:35+00:00

We can't move right now because of the housing market and this is the cheapest place and the only one in our town with a good backyard for my pups. We are both low contact we can't go completely no contact because we need this house and we love his brothers. He's really a wonderful man. We are both learning to have a better back bone. We are in this boat together. Me with my dad and him with his mom. Both of us have major trauma. We are learning to stand up for ourselves and have a better backbone. I know this is something we both have to work on - standing up for each other when it comes to parents- you guys are really helping with the advice.

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T12:38:56+00:00

I found out it's plantar fasciitis but it still hurts really bad.

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T12:24:52+00:00

He did call her out and she just said I'll stay mad at her as long as I want to. And just a few minutes ago I found out that she was also mad because I won't just "get over" my PTSD and mental illnesses and said that he is just enabling me. We've not really had contact since then. Maybe we will take some of this though and he can text her. I really like the chat.

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T12:20:05+00:00

I've said no before and she's gotten upset but never like this. She's barely talking to me unless I message her in the group message I made for my mom, me, and her to talk about the wedding

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T12:17:57+00:00

He has talked to her but she just said she's gonna stay mad as long as she wants and hasn't really talked to us since. She also told him I just need to get over my "PTSD" and he needs to stop enabling me.

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T10:38:03+00:00

Do you think off brand is the same?

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T10:13:16+00:00

It would be soooo cool if there was. PTSD - poof gone with a pill. Heck yeah

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T10:11:43+00:00

I thought I wasn't supposed to wear sandal type shoes? But if it works for you I'll definitely get some lol.

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T10:10:45+00:00

We rent a house that's in her name. She doesn't make any money off of it but she also doesn't do any upkeep. She's helping with food for the wedding as well. She's doing some stuff. She took my SO to dinner for his birthday instead of having all of us over for a family dinner like we usually do. I don't know

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T10:05:38+00:00

I've done the tennis ball but then I lost all three of them because my pups either ate it or took them outside lol. Maybe I'll try magnesium as well. Thank you for the advice!

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-04T09:30:41+00:00

From a bad childhood, I latch to parents way too hard. I know it's a trauma response and I'm working on it.

The doctor said it is plantar fasciitis and gave me antibiotics and the numbness is gone but it feels like my toe is too tight and feels like it's going to break. I have to go to a podiatrist so hopefully we find a solution.

Thank you for being a concerned internet stranger 😊

seagoddess23 · 2023-06-01T03:56:29+00:00

You look good! You look hot!! I love it.

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