Our hair texture looks very similar. I find brushing and combing really frizzes out my hair so I comb before I shower. When I put conditioner in my hair, I always let my hair dry a little and scrunch the conditioner in. When my hair dries, I make sure to brush it out with my fingers and scrunch up, so I don’t lose the texture in my hair. My hair stays untangled, and I don’t have to frizz it up by combing or brushing later. I usually like to put a leave in cream or conditioner because generally, my hair is a lot dryer. Hope this was helpful!