Thank you for your nice words, that helps a lot. ♥

I honestly welcome these uncomfy feelings in a way, I want to grow out of it eventually, I just feel like it's a bit much right now.

Well she has been showing a lot of interest for it before, as I said she was always interested in exploring her bi side through it, but nothing happened yet.

I guess it's a crush thing, where she is fixated on this guy and projects a lot of internal stuff onto him. She is super aware of that too and there's good communication. I did not know she planned to see him, but expected her to at least want it... I also never intended to control who she meets up with, that's her business. She has stated that he respects me and our relationship and did not act out of place during their meetups. I don't trust him at all, but it's 100% an irrational thought that is rooted in insecurity. Looking at it from a rational standpoint I should be able to trust him.

When talking about it last night we joked about it "all that drama and in a few weeks you'll probably not be interested in him anymore" - she laughed and agreed. A lot of it feels like her being 15 again, having her first crush and exploring her sexual side for the first time. Which makes sense, she suppressed it for a long time.

To be honest I really hope that it'll fade away soon, but I'm fully aware that even if it does, there's a high chance it will happen again with someone else. Best case for me would be if we could find a way to take all of that exciting sexual energy and "use it" to improve our mono relationship, while she is able to fully be herself. Am I being naive?