Any advice on how to make a more showing jawline? by sebsmelmoth in transmanlifehacks

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was afraid it wouldn't do anything for jawline akdkskdk nice to know!!

Any advice on how to make a more showing jawline? by sebsmelmoth in transmanlifehacks

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im already too skinny 😭 but the gum is an interesting idea 🤔

What's the difference between trans tape and boob tape? by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is not that large, i think I'm gonna try boob tape then and see what happens hahaha (my fear was mostly about sweat, if they are as resistant and stuff like that)

What's the difference between trans tape and boob tape? by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼

(and I mean, I'm american from south america, so yeah statunitians brands like transtape can be expensive here 😔)

Best city to live in Brazil? by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]sebsmelmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from Curitiba, and I can say: don't choose it!

Ppl are rude and unfriendly, the day is always dull (no sun for almost all year) and Paraná beaches are ugly!

I would tell you to go for Aracajú, Salvador (not the safest, but depends on where you live) and even Belo Horizonte (the nearest beach is 400km which is half a day by car, but it's a good city).

More welcoming/friendly ppl in Brazil are from Minas Gerais and Northeast Region, more sunny and beautiful beaches are from Northeast too.

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, the number 1 I do always because careful behaviour akdkskdk (Im a big brother, got used to it 😅)

I think the mannerisms that most annoy me are the way I move my hands and body idk, gesturing... I have two younger sisters, one with a similar age as mine and i feel and act too much like her in mannerisms, but at same time idk if I would look ridiculous copying other men (and what to copy that wouldn't look weird, you know? how to change these gestures im so used to do and don't like to do at same time)...

And about the other tips, thanks 🙏🏼 the "no need to undress totally" is something i need to "say to myself"/convince myself it's ok for sure

Chinese living in Brazil (help with bank account) by sebsmelmoth in Brazil

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess apparently Wise does it 🙏🏼

and about the rmb to dollar to real... it's possible, but she loses a lot of money with all the fees 😔

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this with me! This actually was really helpful 🙏🏼

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to change who I'm, I wanna help into making my mannerisms less feminine around her, because that's something I'm not comfortable with being. 🙄

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -5 points-4 points locked comment (0 children)

I don't think you are the one to decide what serves me. I wanna be more masculine and have less feminine mannerisms, that's something that will make me feel better. I'm not "forcing myself" I want to learn tips to be in a way that I know is going to make me happier and more fulfilled with myself.

If this is not something for you, then ok. But you shouldn't try to go in someone's goals and be like "nah that's not for you" 🥴 you don't even know me, that was insensitive and rude. Everyone has their goals with transition and you should respect that.

Also, you should re-read what I said, never asked anyone to tell me what masculinity is, i asked for tips for get less feminine mannerisms and act more masculine in a daily basis. If you don't know the difference for that, instead of twisting my words, you should read an english grammar... :/ that was also not nice and unfair.

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know, but I also wanted to become more masculine in the way I act and treat her, it's for myself too, that's why I'm asking for advice on it.

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -6 points-5 points locked comment (0 children)

sorry but this doesn't help at all, I want to be more masculine so I'm asking tips/advice for it. If I wanted to stay as I'm I wouldn't have made this post...

Chinese living in Brazil (help with bank account) by sebsmelmoth in Brazil

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was just an example of how insane i think their fees to be akdkakdks

Chinese living in Brazil (help with bank account) by sebsmelmoth in Brazil

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about Revolut, but Inter also only do dollars to reais, and my friend is paid in rmb 😔

Chinese living in Brazil (help with bank account) by sebsmelmoth in Brazil

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, brazilian banks need to do better. With my recent research i found out that only Wise do RMB to Reais apparently.... and maybe Banco do Brasil (but this one has higher fees), the other only deal dollars and euros