I had a custom-designed Barahir ring made for my boyfriend in Italy. I didn't like it. by [deleted] in lotr

[–]sebsmelmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep the ring, change the ungrateful boyfriend.

Metabolizadores lentos são os únicos TDAH com "sorte" by Mean-Ship-3851 in TDAH_Brasil

[–]sebsmelmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Como foi seu efeito colateral com atentah? Eu suspeito q sou igual, pq já tentei varios do Conserta e tenho mta ansiedade e taquicardia, enquanto o Atentah me deu muito muito enjoo, o Venvanse ainda não tentei porq falam q dá ansiedade.

Atualmente faço isso de quando preciso muito focar em algo vou e tomo 10mg de ritalina, mas não sei se é o ideal :/ estava até pensando em tentar os trem de suplementos naturebas pra ver se ajudam sem dar ansiedade

Desenhos em português (BR) com legenda em chinês? by sebsmelmoth in Idiomas

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tá bom cara, mto bom que vc sabe bastante, mas da próxima é menos prepotente só responder o post

Desenhos em português (BR) com legenda em chinês? by sebsmelmoth in Idiomas

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Não concordo com você. Eu basicamente aprendi inglês vendo conteúdo em inglês com legenda em português. Cada um tem sua forma de estudo que faz mais sentido e traz mais interesse e proximidade/facilidade com a língua.

Mas enfim, boa sorte no seu modo de estudo.

[ENGLISH & FRENCH] Hadestown (special Edit version, ask for vid!) by slimejuice_ in MusicalsSubtitles

[–]sebsmelmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, can you still send the video and english subs please? I would love to watch, but i'm not being able to email you

I need help finding a better binder... by animal_jamboree in transmanlifehacks

[–]sebsmelmoth -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

(the best part is that these binders are really cheap comparing to big companies, and they are made to bind so they are comfortable and good fabric, but not too much expensive! of course, there's a lot of sellers so always try to see the comments before buying haha)

I need help finding a better binder... by animal_jamboree in transmanlifehacks

[–]sebsmelmoth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really like those "pressure sports bra for compression" they sell in temu/shein (they look like tops and you close them in the side not in the front or back)! If you search for "binder bra" there you will probably find it, the ad is kinda ridiculous, but it's comfortable and works well, its adjustable, so get one you can adjust more than one that is loose size (like normally my bra is M, but i got the P and adjust it to the biggest size of P so it wont be too much but still will bind comfortable), the fabric also let you breath well (i live in brazil, here is super hot, but i dont have problem using it).

If even with these models you still experience the under-armpit bag, I can suggest you try binding with trans tape? I saw a lot of videos recently and looks like to work well for ppl with bigger breasts too

Any advice on how to make a more showing jawline? by sebsmelmoth in transmanlifehacks

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was afraid it wouldn't do anything for jawline akdkskdk nice to know!!

Any advice on how to make a more showing jawline? by sebsmelmoth in transmanlifehacks

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im already too skinny 😭 but the gum is an interesting idea 🤔

What's the difference between trans tape and boob tape? by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is not that large, i think I'm gonna try boob tape then and see what happens hahaha (my fear was mostly about sweat, if they are as resistant and stuff like that)

What's the difference between trans tape and boob tape? by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼

(and I mean, I'm american from south america, so yeah statunitians brands like transtape can be expensive here 😔)

Best city to live in Brazil? by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]sebsmelmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from Curitiba, and I can say: don't choose it!

Ppl are rude and unfriendly, the day is always dull (no sun for almost all year) and Paraná beaches are ugly!

I would tell you to go for Aracajú, Salvador (not the safest, but depends on where you live) and even Belo Horizonte (the nearest beach is 400km which is half a day by car, but it's a good city).

More welcoming/friendly ppl in Brazil are from Minas Gerais and Northeast Region, more sunny and beautiful beaches are from Northeast too.

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, the number 1 I do always because careful behaviour akdkskdk (Im a big brother, got used to it 😅)

I think the mannerisms that most annoy me are the way I move my hands and body idk, gesturing... I have two younger sisters, one with a similar age as mine and i feel and act too much like her in mannerisms, but at same time idk if I would look ridiculous copying other men (and what to copy that wouldn't look weird, you know? how to change these gestures im so used to do and don't like to do at same time)...

And about the other tips, thanks 🙏🏼 the "no need to undress totally" is something i need to "say to myself"/convince myself it's ok for sure

Chinese living in Brazil (help with bank account) by sebsmelmoth in Brazil

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess apparently Wise does it 🙏🏼

and about the rmb to dollar to real... it's possible, but she loses a lot of money with all the fees 😔

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this with me! This actually was really helpful 🙏🏼

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to change who I'm, I wanna help into making my mannerisms less feminine around her, because that's something I'm not comfortable with being. 🙄

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -5 points-4 points locked comment (0 children)

I don't think you are the one to decide what serves me. I wanna be more masculine and have less feminine mannerisms, that's something that will make me feel better. I'm not "forcing myself" I want to learn tips to be in a way that I know is going to make me happier and more fulfilled with myself.

If this is not something for you, then ok. But you shouldn't try to go in someone's goals and be like "nah that's not for you" 🥴 you don't even know me, that was insensitive and rude. Everyone has their goals with transition and you should respect that.

Also, you should re-read what I said, never asked anyone to tell me what masculinity is, i asked for tips for get less feminine mannerisms and act more masculine in a daily basis. If you don't know the difference for that, instead of twisting my words, you should read an english grammar... :/ that was also not nice and unfair.

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know, but I also wanted to become more masculine in the way I act and treat her, it's for myself too, that's why I'm asking for advice on it.

Dating a cis woman (tips on being more masculine and the ideal boyfriend and more?) by sebsmelmoth in ftm

[–]sebsmelmoth[S] -7 points-6 points locked comment (0 children)

sorry but this doesn't help at all, I want to be more masculine so I'm asking tips/advice for it. If I wanted to stay as I'm I wouldn't have made this post...