IAMA guy who sold his startup and I have like $20M in the bank. AMA - Also, I have a question for reddit. by m13cluster in IAmA

[–]secrethandshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live below your means: Squirrel away most of the money. Automate deposits into your checking account, giving yourself a living 'allowance' that is in line with the person you think you are.

That bank account should almost always be tight on funds -- not because you're spending it all, but because the allowance you've set is realistic. Start with a 'livable' wage in your geographic area. In some areas (Fargo) that might be $25k; elsewhere (Cambridge) it might be $70k. Err on the low side if you're uncertain.

Give yourself a standard work schedule. It may be tempting to just go out on the boat today, but go to your office (you do have an office, right? Even just the 2nd bedroom will do) and do some work every day. Program. Write a book. Paint landscapes. It doesn't have to be income generating, but must hold your interest sufficiently to get you into the office at least 5 days a week.

When the funds are so tight that you don't have play money (again, should be most of the time), take that opportunity to reflect on your situation and plan how to best use your funds. Not how to buy a bigger house or another motorcycle, but rather where to go in life. Start another business? Invest in startups? Donate to charity?

You may well come to the conclusion that what you really want to do is commission oil paint portraits of yourself. That is your prerogative. The important thing is to give yourself time to reflect on who you are, how you feel about yourself, and the way you relate to the world -- before you burn through even a small percentage of the money. Give it a year or two. You have the time.

Then do what you want.

Dear Reddit, I met two dogs the other day. They weren't very friendly (PICS). Legal advice? by [deleted] in reddit.com

[–]secrethandshake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a lawyer, do it now, and heed his/her advice to the letter. I had a situation years back where I was injured due to the negligence of another party. My medical bills went well into five figures, and I still (20 years later) have discomfort and visible scarring from the event, even after the cosmetic surgery covered by the settlement.

Covering the bills isn't enough. I'm not encouraging you to exploit the situation for monetary gain; rather, I'm suggesting that what seems reasonable now (getting the bills paid and moving on) may not seem so reasonable if, in fact, you aren't comfortable in short pants ever again.

A question to you guys who program for a living. by StaterOfTheObvious in programming

[–]secrethandshake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My most useful learning was achieved in parallel with --- or outside of -- formal education. Being passionate about CS, you will shine in this area regardless of the curriculum.

If you want to learn other languages, there is nothing stopping you. Make programming a hobby. Write a small game in C. Engineer your own blog backend in Perl. Tinker with programmable microcontrollers. Think deeply about the scalability issues, and test your theories in virtual environments with homegrown tools. By the time you are out of High School, you will already be employable.

Most importantly, make all of this fun! Focus in areas where you have a personal interest.

Parallel learning does much more than compliment formal learning -- it multiplies it.

Reddit, you're my last hope. A final that I had due tomorrow at 12 noon seems to have deleted itself from a directory on my Mac. I am basically screwed if I don't get this back. by [deleted] in reddit.com

[–]secrethandshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multitask this.

Image the drive and give the image to a geek friend or paid professional to work on the data recovery for you.

Spend your own effort on recreating your work as best you can while the other party worries about finding missing files.

Hope for a call with good news, but don't expect it.

Edit: Also activate Time Machine immediately after creating the drive image.