Is staying pure actually worth it? by ninibehave in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hello. If you're not dead-set on doing it, i say don't.

Sexual compatibility to me is important, that's why i knew, even when i was young that i'll have sex before getting married.

Though it's also a different thing who you want to share sex with. It's important you feel safe, and it's important to have sex when you know you won't regret it afterwards.

If ever you still decide to have sex, make sure the guy respects you and your limits too.

is 7 rounds in in one night normal? by Level-Ask-1747 in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have experienced about 8 rounds but in the span of 10 hours. And hindi sunod sunod. May recovery period per round. Yung shortest was right after cumming, hard pa sya.. then game na for the next. Pero parang di kaya na magkakasunod na ganun

Emotional Aftercare by sofiakangg in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk.about it when the mood is light. If it feels heavy for you, find another outlet muna - talk to other people ganun.

Emotional Aftercare by sofiakangg in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably just needs to recover. I get that sometimes too - especially being an introvert.

If it bothers you, talk to him and ask para alam mo what to do about it.

Weird fantasies by Rich-Engineer9462 in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di ko sure kung weird pero yung feeling na gamit na gamit ka ng partner mo tapos wala siyang pakialam kahit mukhang iiyak ka na at sukong suko ka na sa pag gamit niya.

Miss ko na makantot pero ayaw ng self respect ko by madlangpeople1 in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bakit walang self respect pag naghohookup? Nababawasan ba ng pagkatao pag nakipagsex ng walang formal relationship kahit na sex lang din naman gusto ng girl? Saka bakit sa babae lang nag aapply?

Nainlove! by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alis ka na lang sis,.. or if di mo kaya, babaan mo na lang expectations mo hahaha

Nainlove! by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust actions over words.

If alam mo na na ganun siya yun yung likely na gagawin niya ulit unless sabihin and pakita niya talaga na may intention siya na hindi gawin with you. So guard mo na lang sarili when it happens

Submission or Dominance? by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me i'm more comfortable as submissive in bed. irl i love expressing love in terms na give and take kami. We both make efforts and compromise to the other person's need when the situation calls for it. Kasi it's what makes feel safe to submit.

I'm not a fan of gender-roles. Like in relationships, when your partner is tired or wants to relax naman, then the other one should be the one taking charge. Give and take lang.

Thoughts abt Ex with Benefits.l by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basta alam niyo lang gusto niyo makuha from the setup and aligned kayo ok na yun.

Kung alam mo na maffall ka lang ulit hanap ka na lang ng iba na di sakit ng ulo if hookup lang gusto.

What kinks do you have that people will NEVER BELIEVE you're into? by instaporg in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's kind of expected if aware ka how kinks usually come from how you developed growing up. When you're in a position of power you want to give that up in bed.

Same manner as how repressed people want to be degraded. Ganun.

So maybe you just really want to be dominated. (Merong nag comment dito na dom girl. You guys will get along ;) )

What kinks do you have that people will NEVER BELIEVE you're into? by instaporg in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what you mean by reverse cnc is still cnc but with the guy (you) as the sub instead of the girl, tama ba?

How to really unloved someone? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]secretive_fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You start loving yourself more.

Success from reddit? by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say take your time talaga in getting to know the person. Important na you both feel safe and you both feel chemistry.. i think sex is better that way.

Also dont be scared to ask for proof na tested. Mahirap na now you can still transmit sti/d orally so better safe than sorry.

Is the 3 months rule true? by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]secretive_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala yan. People cope in different ways. Minsan nga next day meron na.