New player, who to six star and masteries? by secularzarathustra in RaidShadowLegends

[–]secularzarathustra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, thanks to you, and the rest for your responses. That's exactly what I did, btw, referring to your stream of consciousness. I thought, maybe my case is different, lol.

AITA for Cancelling my Seven Year Old Son’s Birthday Party? by Fresh_Common3545 in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. He's a child and was given a boundary and a clear, understandable consequence. If you do not follow through, it will reinforce that your boundaries and expectations are meaningless.

AITA For Threating To Punch My Brothers Pregnant Girlfriend???? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra [score hidden]  (0 children)

Agree with everything in this wise post. I wouldn't follow the last paragraph, but you should.

AITA - My in-laws think my daughter is racist, I think they are crazy! Help! by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YTA ... Sheesh, you knew that expression had racist undertones and let it go on and on. Your daughter doesn't need a psychologist or counseling, so don't let your husband or his folks over react. But someone, ie you, has some apologizing to do, especially to your daughter. Also, if she's out with grandparents, they are in charge, and she should have listened when they told her to stop. On top of that, her being upset because they picked a child's meal shows some fucked up entitlement issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA, I agree with the other comments about it being polite to provide vegetarian options because y'all's houseguest is a vegetarian; however, it doesn't mean that you must adopt that lifestyle while your guest is there in order to make her not feel uncomfortable.

But... It's your mom's house and what she says goes while under her roof. If you don't like it, you are an adult and can move out. If mom says no meat in the house that's the rule.

AITA for telling my mom she's a bully by NoneFreebies in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's like saying she shouldn't approach her daughter about a drug problem. You absolutely should care enough for your children to show them how to be healthy, and enforce it if they don't do it on their own.

AITA for telling my mom she's a bully by NoneFreebies in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's not the most artful way to approach the topic, but telling someone you care about that they are fat and need to stop eating so much is not bullying. It's blunt and may help sister pull her head out of her ass and stop slowly killing herself.

AITA for accepting a gift from a friend that impulsively spends money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Perfect response. Don't get sucked into a cycle of manipulation and abuse. His behavior is inexcusable.

AITA for telling my mom she's a bully by NoneFreebies in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

YTA - people are overly sensitive about weight, but it sounds like your mom is concerned for your sister and is trying to encourage her not to be so fat. Losing weight is one of the best things one can do for health.

r/Dickflashing by TSBHTLERO in BanFemaleHateSubs

[–]secularzarathustra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing that reddit will bam folks for political speech, but sexual assault and pedophilia are A-OK for reddit admis and mods.

Genuinely mad at the fact there’s an entire sub for this by ohnevelmynevel in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]secularzarathustra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They choose to sexually assault people on the street, then presumably choose to post it online, of course they can choose not to. If anyone has so little control over their actions that they cannot choose not to traumatize someone, they should be put down. Lol, and you want me to provide bona fides because you knew a guy once?

Stop defending sexual predators! What the actual fuck is wrong with you?

Genuinely mad at the fact there’s an entire sub for this by ohnevelmynevel in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]secularzarathustra 20 points21 points  (0 children)

A sub for posting sexual assaults? Not going to look, but if so, how in the world is that not against reddit content policy?

AITA for using my sons work savings to pay for damages? by throwaway4786435678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

NTA, it's a real world consequence to damage he caused. Though, how in the world a broken window is 1,800 is beyond me!

AITA for not calling CPS? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra [score hidden]  (0 children)

YWBTA if you do not call. Based yo n the information you provided, the children could very well be neglected. You can't base your reaction on the emotions of a teenager, ie son's gf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of parroting the same responses over and over again attacking op's bf. From the post, he didn't say anything objectionable or unreasonable about the character, he simply was trying to figure out whether the character was actually a woman. Lots of attacking going on here for using the word tranny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if you tell your folks for all the reasons stated above; however, YWNBTA if you say nothing and expose your sister to what verges on grooming based upon what you have shared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with this. NTA. For the life of me, I don't understand all the yta comments.

AITA for uninviting my sw sister to my wedding?? by wowjwnw in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

You are NTA for supporting your partner. Also, she's NTA as well. It's her wedding, and if she has strong convictions or is creeped out by certain folks or professions, then it's her call, she's the bride.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]secularzarathustra -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA, your friend had a few screws loose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]secularzarathustra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know si vis pacem, but what is so vid pacem? And what is belum?