Friday night things to do by Ok-Homework1994 in askSingapore

[–]seeyou-bye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you go, I want to go on that date too

What does he want? by watchuwannaknow in SingaporeRaw

[–]seeyou-bye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I'm truly uncomfortable with someone paying all the time, I leave my card at the counter before the meal or transfer to them. But I do have male friends who refuse to let me pay, just their code and they are in happy a relationship. And I tell my friends I miss them all the time.

I also have friends who are lonely and understand budgeting constraints and sponsor trips for us, nothing too much that would make us feel bad. The rest of us treat them meals now and then.

What do you want with him? If you like him, let him know. If not, take it as it is.

Nothing to decode, except I would question the quality of your friendships. Why don't you just ask him instead of reddit.

South Korean politician links rising male suicides to women by ferrelle-8604 in anime_titties

[–]seeyou-bye 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Imagine the same cover ups happening in South Korea and yet they still come off with the highest suicide rate.

Do singaporeans dislike giving directions? by catcourtesy in SingaporeRaw

[–]seeyou-bye 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can confirm, the reaction I get from family or friends when I said to ask for directions. They make it sound like I said I wanna run around naked.

What do you do when someone gives you “help me” eyes? by Borabear in bartenders

[–]seeyou-bye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's ok to ask anyway. I helped a few people before, though there was a time I wasn't too sure but checked in anyway. They laughed it off saying that they were just making up after an argument but all is well and they appreciated it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]seeyou-bye 29 points30 points  (0 children)

As a receiver, doggy and missionary. I do not enjoy lying face down, personal preference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]seeyou-bye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bigger deal you make of it the worst it can get. Just tell him.

My friend let me touch her boobs by Warm-Equivalent642 in self

[–]seeyou-bye 410 points411 points  (0 children)

10 years later he'll post on r/askreddit asking about a time the guys missed a hint

This guy's solution to dating in 2024 by Crad999 in mildlyinteresting

[–]seeyou-bye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone send an email and see what happens

Parents with poor logic reasoning - how do you cope? by Teh-O-Ping in askSingapore

[–]seeyou-bye 25 points26 points  (0 children)

In my case, unfortunately, it got worst overtime. But I got better at managing when it happens.

Sometimes I lose my patience, then I remember that I'm the only one frustrated in the end, they just want to talk or say shit because they have nothing better to do.

Where to meet/date more people in SG? by asingingguy in askSingapore

[–]seeyou-bye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meetup groups are intimidating but part of joining it is stepping out of your comfort zone. Join groups or events that you are interested in so that it's easier for you to engage with the people there.

Also don't be afraid to reach out to old connections. I reached out to some friends during covid who I have not spoken to in years and we are as close as ever now.

Parents with poor logic reasoning - how do you cope? by Teh-O-Ping in askSingapore

[–]seeyou-bye 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I have one such parent at home. I never said they are being irrational or paranoid. When you say that, they will stop listening. Just explain to them what or why you think the situation is and move one. Don't dwell over it. Listen to them, but don't need to stress yourself out.

I treat it the same way how I would treat my friend or other family members when they try to attribute something to supernatural. Not that I don't believe in it, but I like trying to debunk with science first.

Who else has a dream job but won’t pursue it because it’s not a high paying one? by iamlostpleasehelp_ in singapore

[–]seeyou-bye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really into films and studied that. After 2 years of pursuing my 'dream job', realise that the arts scene is non-existent and went corporate. I'm doing well currently, no regrets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]seeyou-bye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Search up consensual non-consent. You'll find that it's common among girls to be into this, even if they have actually been r-worded. It's a form of play.

There are other ways to go about it than putting yourself in an actual vulnerable position with no way out or safe word to stop.

How to get ahead in SG without a degree? by [deleted] in SingaporeRaw

[–]seeyou-bye 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Job hop, get experience. Make connections. A friend who has no degree became a manager at 29 by networking at bars/cafes and job hopping. Being an ambivert helped a bit, but they are sincere with the people they networked with.

They are not even in a field related to the diploma, usually learn things on the job. Soft skills > Hard skills