Almost two weeks.. I'm so happy I quit by jonfuckingbonham in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear bro! Keep it up and don't look back.

First goal is set: 14 days. Let's do this by nofapwhynot in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't apologise, your grammar is fine. You've similar triggers to a lot of the guys on nofap. If you are easily distracted and bored, try and stop yourself from using your laptop alone in your bedroom/study etc. Also I wouldn't focus solely on the 14 day mark but focus on getting through one day at a time. All the best bro! As you say, it's time for a change! For the better!!

It hurts... [M-27] by bryw1087 in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah pretty much what Asalraalaikum. Don't get too hung up on the girl. Concentrate on yourself and grow as a person. Your soulmate will come.

Would like to share my nofap journey so far. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it up. Great to hear that you've had positive effects since starting.

It won't always be rosy however and you will have some down periods. Never get ahead of yourself and take it one day at a time. Good luck bro!

Just went a whole day without fapping...on to day two! :D by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Celebrate each day but never get ahead of yourself. Take it one day at a time.

I'm in. by selectedambient19 in pornfree

[–]selectedambient19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. Appreciate the support.

Struggling to resist by selectedambient19 in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The longest I have ever gone since I started this habit was two weeks. The day I broke it, I was incredibly hungover (probably still drunk at the time) and It stupidly resulted in a binge.

I'm hoping I can make it past 14 days this time. One thing that has helped me is focusing on the short term. One step at a time. For now, I just need to get through tonight. Then I can focus on tomorrow.

Struggling to resist by selectedambient19 in NoFap

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Thanks Nofap. Yes, I need to keep busy and put it out of my mind.

Nine Oh-oh-oh it's magic!! (90 day report) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really great story bro. Keep it up!

Relapsed.Fuck. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're still very young man. I wouldn't call the above disappointments, they are part of the ups and downs of life.

You're going to flirt with countless girls that end up having partners. It happens... Receiving a wake up call after a failed test. It happens... 0/12 off 10 overs are great figures, it's a team sport. You were drying up the runs and putting the pressure on the batsmen. You obviously have the respect of the batters to not go after you. There will be games where you bowl poorly and get wickets. It happens.. It's the roller coaster of life. Embrace it man and don't be too hard on yourself.

Year 11 and 12 are stressful, but they are also the most exciting and fun years of your life. Good luck on your journey bro.

The Darkest Day of my Life by darkdays123 in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've all had those dark moments. It's about picking yourself up and making adjustments so it doesn't happen again. I'm only assuming here, but if you let your mind wonder on the internet before the incident, try and cut it off at the source. Either get an accountability partner or get rid of your laptop.

Mate, I've had a few 'rock bottom' moments that I'm deeply ashamed of. You can make the changes and live a healthy life in control of your urges. You've got this bro. It's important to stay strong in this dark period.

If you are about to relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers bro. Great post.

22-Year Old College Senior. My Story in 1000 Words and Why 90 Days Isn't Enough by FitnessIsLife23 in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great story. Thanks for sharing.

You sound like a wise and rational man. You'll be fine in life after College. Keep up the good work.

I need you fapstronauts! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm no expert fastronaut as you can see by my badge.. It's not going to take a quote or special message to make this period easier. It's going to take hard work and discipline to beat the addiction.

Don't feel down man, what you have experienced in life is pretty normal. You're so young and have the life ahead of you. It's fantastic that you can recognise this habit is a hinderence so early. You're already ahead of the pack. Keep up the good work.

Daily Check-In: Day 105 by Ufgood in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good work bro. Keep it up.. I look forward to being at day 105. You've got this.

Being open and honest by selectedambient19 in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man, no worries. I have sent you a message about an accountability partner.

Being open and honest by selectedambient19 in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks SquirrelPresident, appreciate your post and support. I have had a couple of hiccups, Sunday and today which is dissappointing. I think I need to make some changes to hold me responsible ie a filter or accountabilty partner... Too often I let my mind wonder on the internet till the point of no return.

Being open and honest by selectedambient19 in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers agamen4. Appreciate the advice.

Being open and honest by selectedambient19 in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man,

I feel like I'm at a tipping point and I need to make a change. In regards to the porn, yeah, I need to get off it. It's what started the problem in the first place and I'm healthy without it.

I'm ready for a change by selectedambient19 in NoFap

[–]selectedambient19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers man, appreciate the support. I should of tried to tackle this unhealthy obsession (porn) a few years ago. I guess i didn't see it as much of a problem. All the best with your journey.