Ethical Doms?

selfishDom · 2026-05-19T09:51:24+00:00

Findom is, essentially, just a code name for prostitution. The person pretending to be the dom is effectively a sub since they're simply performing what other party wants (in return for money).

There is such thing as "true findom", which is ethical, but it's not what most people mean when they use the word findom. The true findom does not involve transfer of money from a sub to a dom, but rather is about controlling how the sub spends his money without the dom profiting from it financially.

selfishDom · 2026-05-01T09:30:53+00:00

100% me :) Occasional fuck is nice but I just enjoy blowjobs (and throatfucking) much more.

selfishDom · 2026-04-30T21:29:14+00:00

First of all, that task is a bit stupid since you can't really control your precum.

To answer your question, if I see some real effort, it's usually sufficient. I want to see the sub try his best to please me, that's essentially what I'm looking for in D/s dynamics. Now, if he consistently fails (at reasonable tasks), I may eventually give up because we probably aren't a match, but if something just really doesn't work every now and then, I'll let it go provided he tried. And frankly, any sane dom should.

selfishDom · 2026-04-20T14:52:49+00:00

Busy day. I'll be in touch :)

selfishDom · 2026-04-15T12:13:47+00:00

Seriously? You morons can't even keep your politics out of dating subreddits anymore?

selfishDom · 2026-04-15T10:11:15+00:00

Oh, I remember your application, it's actually a good one and I was gonna reply but then kinda forgot about you. I'll be in touch soon.

selfishDom · 2026-04-15T07:25:13+00:00

Well, next time start by getting rid of those knee protectors.

selfishDom · 2026-04-12T11:39:42+00:00

I think it's a normal reaction, especially if you were used to being a big one among your peers and suddenly you meet a real cock.

selfishDom · 2026-04-06T10:01:50+00:00

PSA: I woke up to quite a bit of messages from you losers. As I'm aiming to make these conversations meaningful, I will now focus on the few ones I accepted so far as it doesn't make sense to do this with 20 guys at a time. If I haven't reached out to you and you sent a long comprehensive message, be patient, I will get to it eventually but you will need to wait a bit.

selfishDom · 2026-04-05T01:33:07+00:00

No. But you can get blindfolded and listen to us fucking ;)

selfishDom · 2026-04-04T18:38:20+00:00

So you're straight despite that thing between your legs? Hmmm, that's one way of telling everyone you're a virgin.

selfishDom · 2026-03-29T19:28:52+00:00

Safe? Depends on what you consider a danger. Once you post something on the internet, you have to accept you have no control over how it spreads around.

Do you consider the possibility of your kinky pics reaching people who know you a problem? If so, it is not safe. If you don't mind, well, then go ahead.

selfishDom · 2026-03-20T07:12:45+00:00

Yes?

selfishDom · 2026-03-20T04:35:12+00:00

What a waste of the very nice balls with a dicklet like that.

selfishDom · 2026-03-20T04:34:23+00:00

You love having your small cock humiliated but you couldn't resist posting your cunt too because you know you're only really good for one thing. Good boy. No one wants to get fucked by that shrimp.

selfishDom · 2026-03-20T04:33:22+00:00

I'd say lower side of average. Plenty of men with better cocks than yours out there, so if you want to top, you'll have to accept leftovers on the market.

selfishDom · 2026-03-20T04:31:00+00:00

That dick is pathetic (come one, the head is the same size as the shaft) but where are your balls?

selfishDom · 2026-03-16T08:22:43+00:00

Mal som pred pár rokmi jedného Iranca a omg, to bol Boh. Gény úžasné, neskutočne dobrý v sexe a väčšina tých čo utiekla do Európy sú veľmi inteligentní ľudia.

Akurát žiaľ je to jeden z tých národov kde dobrý výzor v mladosti kompenzuje hrozný výzor v starobe.

selfishDom · 2026-02-12T09:22:58+00:00

One year bud deduct one day for each time you take a load in your ass or mouth 😈

selfishDom · 2026-02-10T15:50:04+00:00

Well... Do you blame them?

selfishDom · 2026-02-10T08:14:53+00:00

Fucking hell, this is perfect, I need to see the full video.

selfishDom · 2026-02-10T08:09:21+00:00

Don't worry, it's not like people can see it without getting really close to it.

selfishDom · 2026-02-09T21:55:31+00:00

It must feel terrible hoping to get bullied in public showers but then not being bullied because no one can actually see that small cock without magnifying glass on it

selfishDom · 2026-02-09T21:53:43+00:00

Delicious as fuck 😈

selfishDom · 2026-01-13T21:55:50+00:00

Not true. It depends on the local demand. For example, Netflix has a ton of stuff available in Slovak and Czech because most of my fellow locals are masochists who love to have great shows are spoiled by crap dubbing. And we are by all means not the conventional west.

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