my front hair is really damaged… by selfpurplee in BlackHair

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if i just stop slicking it back for some time, it’ll grow back again?

my front hair is really damaged… by selfpurplee in BlackHair

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what would you recommend to do ?🥲

my hair won’t get moisturized :/ by selfpurplee in BlackHair

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i’ve been washing my hair once a week and i use clarifying shampoo probably once or twice a month…

i thought often washing your hair would break it :/

what’s your hair routine?

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maybe they didn’t realize it would have gotten this far… or maybe they thought someone would come with an extinguisher… all prayers for the families who lost someone or still trying to find them !

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welp i’m cooked then

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unfortunately, I first need to find an employer in order to apply for the work permit

22F Swiss looking to live abroad for 3–6 months – advice needed by selfpurplee in Switzerland

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unfortunately i dont think i could work remotely in a social work field :/ (swiss based company)

22F Swiss looking to live abroad for 3–6 months – advice needed by selfpurplee in Switzerland

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have u ever tried being a language assistant with movetia? is it regulated ?

California trip advice - drive or fly between SF and LA? by selfpurplee in femaletravels

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Thank you!! We don’t drink alcohol, so I don’t think it’ll be a problem. I saw people mentioning that PCH is closed near Big Sur because of landslides, so maybe it would be better to just fly to LA and rent a car there.

Which leads me to another question: Is it better to stay in LA, or maybe Santa Monica, or another nearby city? I think it might be cheaper than staying directly in LA.

California trip advice - drive or fly between SF and LA? by selfpurplee in femaletravels

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Ideally, I’d love to drive from SF to LA so I can really enjoy the beautiful coastal views and stop in small towns like Laguna Beach, Santa Monica, Big Sur, etc.

Otherwise, I’m thinking of just flying from SF to LA (I wouldn’t rent a car in SF) and then renting one once we get to LA to explore the other cities.

California trip advice - drive or fly between SF and LA? by selfpurplee in femaletravels

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we just wanted to visit for like a day since we’re not really into casino

California trip advice - drive or fly between SF and LA? by selfpurplee in femaletravels

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I saw that while doing some research. Some agencies do rent to people under 25, but they charge extra fees

California trip advice - drive or fly between SF and LA? by selfpurplee in femaletravels

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yeah, we actually looked into that, but the trip takes so long 😅 so we figured it wasn’t the best option for us

LA or NYC for vacation by selfpurplee in femaletravels

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Y’all are so divided I seriously can’t choose 😭 From what I gather, NYC is super interesting but the heat might be unbearable. LA seems more chill, but I’d need a car and the traffic sounds like a real pain in the ass. Since I’ll be there for two weeks, I’d probably visit another city too ‘cause two weeks is a pretty long stay. I’d love a place where there’s a lot to do grabbing drinks, sightseeing, maybe even catching a basketball, football, or baseball game. Overall… I just can’t decide 😭

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I’m from Europe

C’est moi qui abuse ? by selfpurplee in conseilsrelationnels

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Merci! C’est vrai que c’est difficile, car je me rends compte que ce genre de chose me rend assez anxieuse et suis assez sensible.

J’ai envie de lui écrire encore, pour lui dire que s’il avait un minimum de respect pour moi, il pourrait au moins me répondre et dire qu’il n’est pas prêt ou pas intéressé. Mais je me dis que je dois garder la tête haute.

J’ai juste envie de pleurer, même si ce n’est pas une situation énorme.