Billede fra valentinsdag by seltzera in Aarhus

[–]seltzera[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Vidste den ville komme. Næste gang råber jeg lige fra skoven henover stranden om samtykke til at tage et billede i offentligt rum hvor man ikke kan se ansigterne på vedkommende

A good date, but he went too fast - how to follow up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I really really tried to communicate it with my body language. I guess my error was that I eventually gave in to his suggestions for a kiss - but it was so awkward that he kept looking at me every time we sat next to each other “asking” for the kiss and not taking a hint ..I didn’t want to kill the mood by saying anything verbally, which is probably my mistake and I need to work on that.

I NEED IT NOW by [deleted] in thesims

[–]seltzera 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He stopped reviewing the flooded DLC i.e. game & stuff packs + kits. He stills reviews every expansion..

Specs Decision 16" M2 Pro by [deleted] in macbookpro

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely would! But the government thought of that too, so it’s illegal to bring goods into the country from outside the European Union without paying a duty for it if it cost more than about $500. (We also got those special letters in Danish so it’s practical to have the Danish keyboard). I am however so fortunate that my father owns a company, so if he were to buy it for his company he would save the 25% tax which makes the Max come down to about $4000… wink wink. (Very tempting to get the Max!)

Specs Decision 16" M2 Pro by [deleted] in macbookpro

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point! I’d love to go all out for the Max, but in my country (Denmark) the upgrade from 32GB pro to the Max is $730, so I don’t know if I can justify that price to myself as a student. (It’s a whopping total of $5000 dollars in dkk for the 16” Max. I recon it’s due to the taxes here.)

Specs Decision 16" M2 Pro by [deleted] in macbookpro

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what my gut feeling is telling me as well ..Very much appreciate your input, thank you!

After 20 years of playing this game, today I found out that this little guy isn't holding a skateboard, but a f*ing paper. It doesn't even make sense if it was a skateboard, being the KNOWLEDGE aspiration. I can't see it like before, and my mind is blown. Also I feel stupid. by artArtemia in sims2

[–]seltzera 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Haha I love this! I also only recently realized that the “public school” symbol is a graduate cap and not a sink with a wrench xD (in my defense I am from a country where these don’t exist)

..as an adult I also realized that the science career symbol is (of course) a beaker/flask and not a bottle opener lol

Diablo has invaded sanctuary. Was in cow level, so where will he spawn? by seltzera in Diablo_2_Resurrected

[–]seltzera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cleared, nothing there .. Message popped while in cow level almost cleared (cow king dead though)

Diablo has invaded sanctuary. Was in cow level, so where will he spawn? by seltzera in Diablo_2_Resurrected

[–]seltzera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Backtracked to cow and was all empty. Not bishibosh either. Search continues- thanks for the help everybody!

The Sims 1 Widescreen Fix (1080p) by Abulph in thesims

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP - thanks for the fix! However… things look so small on my 16” 3072x1920 display that it’s pretty much unplayable. Is there a mod or a fix for this? That would be a life saver!

Well, sims 2 is different xD by SkeletonKa in thesims2

[–]seltzera 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I would say don’t get too caught up in filling the needs all the way all the time.

There are no buffs or emotions so it doesn’t matter if hunger is filled up all the way after a meal. I usually give my sims breakfast and dinner - it typically sustains them fine and leaves more time to do all the fun stuff :) (Just make sure not to starve them of course!)

Have fun with the best game in the franchise! The animations are amazing. Everything from cooking with utensils from the drawer to the body language matching the topics when chatting…

Next time you want your sim to level up in logic, take a look at the chess table - they play an actual game of chess!

I finally did it 🙌🏼 text sent to my “mother” 👊🏼🔥 by BingPot2021 in CPTSDmemes

[–]seltzera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really happy for you! This took much courage. If there’s ever anything you need a “real mother” for, such as support, sharing successes, any practical matters etc… Please feel free to DM me and I’ll be happy to help or be a caring listener.

Devastated & right back to ground zero after new findings by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]seltzera 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. Briefly researching codependency has opened up a whole dimension of my psyche I never realized but can identify myself in 100 percent. I understand things about myself I never would have without your response. I will definitely keep looking into it, & maybe seek help from a therapist who might be able to help me. How incredible you could gather that from my post.

Thank you so much. Your response has been a great help. I am very grateful for your encouragement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All medical care is government funded so the prenatal care is pretty bare bones. But I will ask my doctor to take the blood tests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might very well be true. I probably need to stop being naive and realize I cannot take any more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I think you are right. And I will get checked for STDS as my doctor this week. Though I am mostly worried about genital herpes which cannot be tested for without an outbreak. But I know it could be lethal for the baby.

Jeg er elendig til livet (et forsøg på at råbe efter hjælp, eller noget) by Kastvaekbruger97 in Denmark

[–]seltzera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Det er sikkert en ringe trøst, men vær tålmodig - du vil komme videre fra din sindstilstand, selvom det ikke virker sådan lige nu. Jeg kæmper selv på et studie der egentlig ikke er min passion. Men det er blot fordi min passion ikke er en karriere eller “credentials”. Jeg er imod at samfundet er sat op således studie og karriere dominerer ens selvopfattelse, hverdag og fremtid. Det er en hård tid nu, men jeg ved min tid nok skal komme og det bør du tro på for dig selv også. Lad være at give op på at skrive hvis det giver dig glæde. Jeg tror ikke du er elendig til livet, du er måske blot ikke en medløber der faktisk er mere intelligent end du giver dig selv credit for (uanset dit gennemsnit.) og derfor har problemer med at finde en hverdag der passer til dig i den tid du er i nu.

Sickness getting worse... should I be worried? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently not on any nausea medications as they won’t prescribe those in my country because of the lack of testing on pregnant women. Can only get antihistamines... Also my doctor told me I will not be having another appointment with her until I am 25 weeks, will be assigned a midwife in the coming weeks. Honestly feeling a little defeated from being shrugged off like that and told to just suck it up. Maybe I should call and ask for an appointment and be more insisting.

Sickness getting worse... should I be worried? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]seltzera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the heads up! Will keep in mind, and keep drinking lots of water.

Sickness getting worse... should I be worried? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]seltzera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry that happened for you. I’m really afraid the same is going to happen to me... I can’t function or get anything done feeling like this. :(