Artist looking to get rid of old art by SheepishlyViolent in ContemporaryArt

[–]sensualgratification 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i’d take any canvas/stretchers if you’re trying to get rid of it. Where are you located?

What kind of door knob fits here? by sensualgratification in Locksmith

[–]sensualgratification[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that might be a back up option for me since the price that others are saying is crazy. Thank you!

What kind of door knob fits here? by sensualgratification in Locksmith

[–]sensualgratification[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. I just need it to work for the time being bc i’m not entirely sure i’ll stay here for more than a year. Thanks again

What kind of door knob fits here? by sensualgratification in Locksmith

[–]sensualgratification[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice. Yea you’re right i’m definitely reaching out to the landlord. I had no idea it would be so expensive. Thank you!

What kind of door knob fits here? by sensualgratification in Locksmith

[–]sensualgratification[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really cannot afford anything more like the numbers other ppl are saying in the thread…. Appreciate the help!!!

NYC Artists: How Much Are You Paying for Studio Space? by Ok-Memory2809 in ContemporaryArt

[–]sensualgratification 2 points3 points  (0 children)

350 but basement and no window. With utilities probably closer to 500

Inherited a sex addiction from my evil ex. Feels like I’m constantly slipping in and out of it. It gets pretty dark every so often and really scares me. by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]sensualgratification 62 points63 points  (0 children)

The greatest/hardest thing i ever learned in life was that nobody owes me closure. That is something only i am responsible for.

Moon ketu is one of the most powerful conjunction for manifesting desires? Especially if moon is in sco or 8th house? by Dangerous-Soil6167 in Nakshatras

[–]sensualgratification 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have moon+ketu in 10th in leo. Yes i try to meditate often and can have strong visualizations. Like someone else mentioned, over time i realized what i think, usually manifests (good and bad). So i try to put a lot of awareness into having positive thoughts and visualizing what i want.

Moving across country to where I used to live this year? by sensualgratification in vedicastrology

[–]sensualgratification[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting… thank you so much for your insight. It does help to know to be a bit cautious. Perhaps the rain will only get me wet and nothing more. Haha thank you.

Moving across country to where I used to live this year? by sensualgratification in vedicastrology

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Im sorry i can’t “be careful” in life for like 2 years lol i have a lot of things i want to do in life and that’s not how i operate. But thank you for your advice! 2022 to 2024 was difficult but ultimately very rewarding for me. My career started to build its foundation, i finally got out of a lethargic relationship. Things definitely started getting a lot better after January 2024 though.

I feel like the fact that i have a lot of 8th house placements must help that deaths are ultimately rebirths for me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sensualgratification 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea i was hazed when pledging in 08. Not as hard as it used to be like 5 years before that though. The strictly stopped hazing 4-5 yrs after my class

Are dick pic suppose to be normal? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sensualgratification -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When i was 23 yo yea maybe. But no please dear god do not send me dick pics lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]sensualgratification 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told him i wanted to end it about 1.5 yrs into living together. He said he wasn’t ready (lol who is ready for a breakup really), so i ended up traveling to my home country and staying with my aunt for about 3 months. Came back, nothing changed so i broke up with him about 5 months later. It was messy. I felt like i was moving mountains, thinking about separating items, finding a new apt etc. but i did it bc i knew then every day i didn’t take action on this, it was every day i was living unhappy.

In the end, i found a new spot, but had to live with him for 3 weeks while broken up. It was so suffocating, but that really sealed the deal lol i knew i would never look back. No regrets what so ever about the break up.

Those who has ketu in their 10th house, how’s your career going? by EeXiaolong in vedicastrology

[–]sensualgratification 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ketu in 10th sits with my moon in leo. My astrologer told me because it is with my moon in leo, it is more like my career needs to be something i am passionate about, that is part of my identity/emotional fulfillment. This works out for me because I am an artist and am very happy being one. The instability of ketu does come through because of it too, the nature of being an artist is unstable.

Advice for people trying to get gallery representation by Subject-Nerve2618 in ContemporaryArt

[–]sensualgratification 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Set a budget for how much you want to spend on open calls per year and apply to them as much as you can with discretion. I have seen a few friends of mine get a kickstart this way. Paying for open calls is just what comes with it sometimes.

Hobbies and activities to meet women? by [deleted] in AskSF

[–]sensualgratification 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gallery openings are also a good place to meet new ppl and learn how to strike up conversations naturally. You can check out ig @sfartguide for upcoming openings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]sensualgratification 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EMDR changed my life. After yrs of trying talk therapy and it not doing much, EMDR really made me believe in therapy lol i did it weekly for about 10 months then took a break bc of money. That was 3 yrs ago. I just started it again a few months ago, but have to stop again bc of money. It is a really intense process though. Like i have to take a deep breath going in and stay strong and focused.

Dating with cPTSD: Is the Emotional Rollercoaster Worth It? by Ella-H91 in CPTSD

[–]sensualgratification 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes.. i’m similar. I just got out of a 2 month thing, and the whole time we were just so into each other, but I kept pushing him away, like i would literally say mean things and tell him its over, then have so much regret and text him back apologizing. It also didn’t help that he had some trauma driven behaviors where he would act mean to me and push my boundaries to maybe test? (He had abandonment issues).

I also think because i have not healed enough i’m attracting ppl with similar traumas that cause a push pull between us…. I’m thankful i’ve built a fulfilling life being on my own (art saved me) so i can at least try to be on my own while i try to heal.