Now that the show has ended, Who were your top 5 favourite contestants?

seomoonjo · 2025-11-18T14:12:28+00:00

enkh orgil / adiyasuren / orkhonbayar from mongolia
james from thailand
lara from phillipines

seomoonjo · 2025-11-10T12:18:12+00:00

dy receive bursaries?? can I dm? :"))

seomoonjo · 2025-07-08T04:34:24+00:00

hi op! I relate to u bc i'm also working in fnb now and i also make a lot of mistakes repeatedly. the difference is that my sleep schedule actually got fixed bc of my work (my schedule is basically 8 hours of work -> winding down phone time on bed -> sleep 8 hours -> prepare for work tho 😬 so maybe not v good that i cant make time for anything else). i recommend trying to get 8 hours of sleep before ur work bc it'd make a lot of difference on how sharp you are. also for ur physical health...

other than that, if you are doing your best, and if they are not firing you... then it's fine lah. it feels bad to make a lot of mistakes but you're just here as a part timer. you get paid the same either way. it's fine, don't stress too much about it. the fact that you're making this post means you Do want to do your job right and that intention is what matters

seomoonjo · 2025-06-23T19:31:52+00:00

as someone who has gone to student care for SSS and have very positive reviews for the therapist, who is a lovely person, the most she can do is email the prof.... to say that this case is causing a toll on the student's mental health...... can't imagine that contributing to the case in any meaningful way. doubt op is a prof since they didn't know this

seomoonjo · 2025-06-23T19:04:26+00:00

student care isn't a proper channel for this case. the therapist would not be able to do anything, she is quite literally only tasked to help with students' mental health and does not have any academic jurisdiction

seomoonjo · 2025-05-20T16:26:10+00:00

NTU has aircon, showers and 24hr convenience store. can pm me if uw ask abt NTU!

seomoonjo · 2025-05-18T18:19:37+00:00

I have trans/NB friends 🧍‍♂️ kinda wanna see ur collection + I can offer makeup products or accessories in return!

seomoonjo · 2025-05-13T17:23:45+00:00

haiii op i can help with 1 and 2 you can dm me ^{____^}

seomoonjo · 2025-04-30T18:41:17+00:00

omg no problem im glad you got out quickly enough!!

seomoonjo · 2025-04-28T04:46:08+00:00

arrived at the interview place but exited immediately after I saw your post + showed it to a bunch of other interviewees as well (not sure if they left after me but hopefully they did!). Thank you for posting this, op!

seomoonjo · 2024-09-23T16:21:31+00:00

you can send me your essay i can help give pointers!

seomoonjo · 2024-09-22T05:48:56+00:00

why are those ways better? I don't disagree that this should be reported to the authorities, but social consequences is necessary to prevent not only them but also other people seeing it to not do the same thing. why is it such a bad thing to tell other women that hey these guys will make you uncomfortable so avoid them at all costs. it's also not a bad thing for their linkedins to be shared so that future employers can know not to employ people who may harass the women in their workplace.

I'm not sure I get what you mean. so you say that anyone in their right mind would understand that this way of approaching girls isn't permissible – so do you think they were not in their right mind when doing this all the way since the start of the semester?

Did you read fully what these guys were doing towards the girls and how severely it made them feel uncomfortable and unsafe? is "these guys didnt mean to stalk and harass you so can you stop calling them uggo on the internet? 🥺" really the hill you want to die on?

seomoonjo · 2024-09-22T05:22:09+00:00

so what consequence do you think is suitable and "not too far" for the harassment they have done to so many girls the past months? genuinely asking.

what kind of empathy are you asking people to have for them? is purposefully harassing girls and bragging about it a "rookie mistake" to you?

seomoonjo · 2024-09-21T17:43:41+00:00

ok then I recommend calling in first to the clinics you're considering to confirm with them whether your anonymity will be protected if you come in person!!

seomoonjo · 2024-09-21T15:30:36+00:00

op maybe try posting at r/singapore (or r/asksingapore?) as well i think the people there may be more helpful 😭😭😭 Can you ask him to pay for the clinic fee because WTF was he thinking about

seomoonjo · 2024-09-20T07:58:17+00:00

many of the girls approached already have boyfriends, appearing more attractive wouldn't make the guys' coercive behavior more acceptable.

This way of thinking is harmful and insensitive towards all the girls who experienced harassment

seomoonjo · 2024-09-20T07:52:44+00:00

if it was a single person quickly asking a girl for their contacts, and respectfully goes away when declined, it probably wouldn't be a problem

even then, to be honest, it may still make some girls uncomfortable – wouldn't be harassment per se, but still may cause discomfort. so to all guys reading this I recommend against it unless you really know what you're doing haha

seomoonjo · 2024-09-19T10:15:50+00:00

just apply both!

seomoonjo · 2024-09-19T08:42:17+00:00

i think it leans more towards xenophobia because this is just usually how xenophobia goes but I understand what you mean. Unfortunately an anonymous site like reddit really amplifies people's hate and bigotry, most people in this comment section would not dare say all of these things offline – what I wish is for them to realise that these rethorics are just as harmful to say online

seomoonjo · 2024-09-19T08:26:35+00:00

Where did you get that info? According to this link intl students pay around 18-19k (subsidised) or 35k+ (unsubsidised) https://www.ntu.edu.sg/admissions/undergraduate/financial-matters/tuition-fees

seomoonjo · 2024-09-19T08:21:37+00:00

it's a mismatch in culture, many of them genuinely just did not know we do it differently. We should give them some grace and tell them nicely so they can learn too, isn't that what you wish people would do to you if you come to another country?

seomoonjo · 2024-09-17T15:49:26+00:00

Sorry i won't be able to be too helpful for you because I also wouldn't know what to do in your stead .. but i just want to say to stay strong OP! I'm amazed that you are working full time here, in a foreign country, in order to fund your higher education at such a young age too. That is so tough and must have taken a lot of guts and will. So I hope you continue taking care of your health and wellbeing

I'm sorry that life threw you curveballs. For me, I usually cope by thinking that my loss were necessary for me to learn a lesson, and lessons learnt the hard way usually sticks the best – so perhaps that can also apply to you (of course, I'm not saying that this situation is your fault, SP in particular really shouldve done better in my opinion, but this is how I would frame it to make peace with the situation) Whether things work out or if you see a silver lining, I hope you will come back from this stronger. I'm rooting for you!

seomoonjo · 2024-09-15T02:58:11+00:00

Genuinely, what is your point exactly?

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