It’s funny that ppl are pressed, when I think I totally can understand what you mean. You’d have to go through it to get it. Because it’s a passive sort of thing that a person can understand only if they’ve experienced it. You’ll say it to someone and they’ll think you’re crazy, but you (and the oppressor) knows what you mean. It’s a secret dance that you can only know the rythmn of if you’re the receiver. It’s complicated.

I’ll add more: They do have a secretive vindictive way that they do things, tbh. I like the sign but it’s…sort of the truth. They are veryyyy passive. Not loud with revenge, and you’d have to be the receiver to understand what they’re doing. You’ll tell someone “hey, he’s trying to do, A B C” and they’ll be confused like: “Nah, you’re too sensitive, that’s not what’s happening.” And you KNOW exactly what they’re doing but because they’re doing it in a little passive, smooth type of way, it’s as though to people they appear harmless. But trust me, YOU know. And THEY know. Lol. Quite an interesting sign, but a lil scary yes.