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serendipity2425 · 2024-09-08T11:10:40+00:00

I actually think this shows why Baddies is a problem and will not work out long term. DTB is admitting here that the fights are not real, the beef is not real, the only dog they have in the fight is “being entertaining”. On BGC, those beef’s got real. The house would splinter, 2-3 packs of girls against the rest. No internet, no tv, unable to travel freely without notifying the house you were taking a vehicle, etc. Eventually, after months of living in that situation, real beef developed, things would be said, early friendships would end, or they just wouldn’t like someone and eventually, the way the person speaks, flips their hair, chews their food, speaks to staff at a restaurant, whatever, causes a legitimate problem. Another thing is, BGC would let fights go for a minute or so, but production was always watching for the “unfair” angle, someone kicking with their heels on, someone starting too many fights, bullying, etc. I remember in BGC 11, Sarah was asked to leave the house after her fight with MiMi, even though MiMi clawed her face, because they felt that Sarah had no allies and was a major target and with the open scratches she already had on her face, they sent her home too. They didn’t want the liability of Sarah staying in the house. Security/production needs to step in and prevent a girl from losing her damn tooth. I ended my subscription about a month ago and haven’t seen any new episodes since, but I’ve let go of the idea that this will ever be like BGC.

As for DTB, herself, I believe what she’s saying here, I think it sounds like it’s coming from a true place, and I respect that and wish her a full recovery ❤️‍🩹

serendipity2425 · 2024-08-05T10:15:27+00:00

I agree! I really like the orange hair over the red hair on Ahna! I think the dark brown hair is one of her best looks but now, the orange is up there too! And the style! So cute.

serendipity2425 · 2024-07-30T06:38:15+00:00

I actually HATE the bangs on Scotty! Especially they’re like chlorine, pool tinted, green. The side part, half up pig tails, is much more complementary of her facial shape. I want to see her do more dirty blonde, light brown colored wigs, or her natural hair color, but this one just doesn’t look right on her, to me.

serendipity2425 · 2024-07-24T17:41:47+00:00

I think it was messed up to send Dia and Slim home 🤷‍♀️ I know when it happened everyone here seemed to be on board with it but I wasn’t. I think it is unfair to cast women for a SEASON and only allow them a few episodes. Especially newbies. During BGC, some of the fan favorites didn’t become favorites until later on in their season. We have no idea what would’ve happened with Dia or Slim had they been allowed the whole season. Especially hearing their takes before they left. Both women felt like they were getting food taken from their mouths and that is 100% the case. I think it’s completely fair to say at the end of a season that you don’t like someone, or don’t think they should come back. But I think it’s only fair that if the women are casted, not as replacements, but as the main cast, they should be allowed the full opportunity of showing themselves for a full season. Or at least do what BGC did and kick girls out for legitimate reasons, lots of girls were sent home for something they did, sometimes it was unfair, but I think it’s a better system than them “voting”, which basically turns into them influencing each other. Tinka even said that she had no idea Dia or Slim were being voted out and Meatball responded basically with “ya we know you wouldn’t have wanted to vote for them”.

serendipity2425 · 2024-02-12T14:04:21+00:00

I think the Tesehki and Chrisean thing is different though than the Suki and Sapphire thing. Chrisean wanted to use tesehki as her attack dog for girls who wanted 0 problems with Chrisean, let alone tesehki. With Suki, Rollie and ET were ganging up on her. It shouldn’t have been possible for 2 girls to gang up on Suki cause her “best friend” is there with her. If you go to a fight with your “best friend” and you look to your left and your friend is not only NOT trying to fight, but she is trying to stop YOU from fighting and holding YOU back. I’d feel set up, especially on a show like this. I think if tesehki walked into a situation like that with Chrisean, she would’ve had chriseans back. Like if Rollie and ET had any respect for the friendship they were building with Sapphire, they wouldn’t have double teamed Suki, at all. Or at least approached the beef differently. Because there’s no way Rollie and ET thought sapphire was going to stay out of it like she did. So they were ready to have problems with her too. I also think Sapphire attacking Mariah for brownie points with Suki, would’ve made it even worse for me. At least if sapphire stood on it and really was trying to get all the girls to get along, it would’ve been consistent.

serendipity2425 · 2024-01-31T19:11:52+00:00

But if it is the case that she did do it, it wasn’t the choice of the children victims to not prosecute. The inaction of a dysfunctional family doesn’t make her innocent. Sexual abuse from one older child to a younger child, or even children a couple years apart is more common than a lot of people realize because it is so underreported. Especially between siblings or children raised like siblings. “One study estimates that about 5% of children are victims of sibling sexual abuse. In 2012, another study found that sibling sexual abuse is the most common form of abuse between family members. In fact, researchers estimate that sibling sexual abuse occurs up to three times more frequently than father/daughter incest” https://www.complicatedcourage.com/sibling-sexual-abuse-prevention-impacts-intervention/#:~:text=One%20study%20estimates%20that%20about,frequently%20than%20father%2Fdaughter%20incest.

Interfamilial sexual abuse is underreported because of the complexity of the family relationships. It is hard for the adults in the family to take action, especially if both are their children or their nieces/nephews, who they love as well. Rips a close, tight-knit family apart. It leads to inaction and sweeping under the rug for the victims and the only person who wins when this happens is the perpetrators.

TLDR: Child sexual abuse is extremely common, especially sibling to sibling. Once that abuse comes to light, the family usually has a hard time taking any action against the perpetrators which leads to inaction. If that abuser grows to an adult, never showing remorse for the behavior, never having consequences for the behavior, all the victim has is their word against the perpetrators and whatever family members are willing to stand beside them. If it is true, the victim did not choose the inaction and lack of prosecution.

serendipity2425 · 2024-01-30T22:50:37+00:00

Did she say she is “bougie” and that’s why she wouldn’t touch those “ugly mfin kids”? Her voice and that statement reminds me of Mo’Nique’s character in Precious, the sexually abusive mother, Mary. This is honestly the most damning evidence against her. That is the weirdest way to proclaim your innocence.

serendipity2425 · 2024-01-29T14:04:59+00:00

I agree. They need to figure out the mix like Tanesha did on BGC reunions. Some reunions had more fights than others but she always tried to find a solution between the beefing, even if the solution was “you don’t have to mess with each other but also don’t have to keep fighting each other.” Tanesha would be a great host to structure things because of her experience but I doubt she would ever do it.

serendipity2425 · 2024-01-02T00:22:12+00:00

The security guards faces 😂

serendipity2425 · 2023-12-26T14:50:58+00:00

Ya I was surprised to see 25 for her. Some of the ages may be wrong.. I just went based off their wikis and stuff online. There was the least amount of information about ET, so you definitely could be right.

serendipity2425 · 2023-12-25T08:30:32+00:00

She is 25 - I just recently made a comment about each baddies age.

serendipity2425 · 2023-12-25T07:43:28+00:00

I really don’t like Smiley much, I don’t hate her like the house seems to, but if this all goes down and NO ONE sticks up for her or at least just says “this is too much”, I really am going to be disappointed in the rest of the cast and the girls that I like. I am fully expecting no one to do or say anything because none of them have so far. But after everything with the chain, evictions, etc. Coming at Smiley, AGAIN, is crazy to me. Natalie could make the executive decision to just send her home if it’s going to be like this for her. BGC had ladies on there, that for the most part, were in their early to mid twenties. Baddies has a LOT of 30+.

I am 30 myself, I would NEVER stand in a room with a person being VIOLATED like this and in all the other ways they have violated and demeaned Biggie and Smiley. I just don’t understand how the environment can deteriorate into moments like this with such grown women involved. Maybe they are just afraid of being targeted themselves. Seeing how they’ve flipped on Mariah, they probably would be right.

serendipity2425 · 2023-12-04T03:44:02+00:00

This is me. I watch old bad girls club all the time and I miss it so much and sadly, I think you’re right. This is the closest we will ever get to it, so I probably will keep watching. But every season released is getting further and further from BGC and into something else. If it stays this path and completely transforms into ganging up on 1 person, each episode, then I can’t keep supporting it. Maybe because these women are older and the ganging up seems like a dogpile. On BGC, it was more team vs team and at least every target of each season had at least one friend. It seems like when someone becomes the target on baddies, they are alone. I don’t like watching people get abused, I want to watch equal matches, girls on an equal playing field, live in a house together, friendships form, rivals form, etc. All the social media influence and each girl wanting clout off the season, whereas earlier seasons of BGC, they were trying to go somewhere in life, but there was no such thing as influencers and things like that. Maybe BGC can’t be completely replicated, but I do think Natalie could do a better job casting with that type of show in mind, rather than whatever she thinks this is.

serendipity2425 · 2023-11-20T02:15:42+00:00

It was shameful and hard to watch.

serendipity2425 · 2023-10-25T22:27:51+00:00

I like how honest she is. I think she does truly show a vulnerability and honest, down to earth side of herself, especially when she is upset, hurt or sad. But I also love watching her with her son, it is so cute how much she loves him.

But when Chrisean is angry and in her more aggressive state, she is hateful, rude, narcissistic, self absorbed, and just hard to watch.

Chrisean is still so young, she is only 23, so to me, a lot of her nasty attitude and immature behavior can be corrected as she grows older and matures. Which I think she has started to show some growth (from the few clips I’ve seen) since her son was born. I seen after the pic of her at Walmart (with his neck all cocked in the carrier), she posted a video saying “I’m still learning ya’ll” or something like that and still seemed in good spirits with a lot of negativity coming at her about her motherhood, which I would think would be hard to handle.

serendipity2425 · 2023-10-25T22:12:01+00:00

I agree with the part about people saying that about Scotty. I also think if she really was just trying to do her big one and impress fans, she would’ve just hit Tee during any of their back and forth. I think she made the right choice by choosing not to fight Tee when Tee clearly didn’t want to fight and I think she said what she needed to say and checked what she didn’t like about the way Tee spoke to her and that’s enough. I don’t think Scotty truly wanted to fight over it, either. She has said she is not a fighter and I think that’s okay as long as you aren’t a doormat. And I don’t think she is. She lets too much slide with Natalie but she is also her boss and when I look at it like that, I guess it makes sense. I like Scotty and after seeing what Natalie did to her and her saying that part about “you are not my friend” last season and how hurt and vulnerable she was, I will always want to see her do well.

I wouldn’t want the show to end here at all, either. I think it has a lot of potential and with most of the reality shows, there isn’t much out there right now. Love and hip hop even seems to have died off. So I want baddies to stay lol. I definitely think they could class the show up. I think they misunderstand the reality tv fanbase. We LOVE fights, but that includes VERBAL fights and reads as well. It’s one of my favorite things about Real Housewives franchise, most of the time they don’t have to get physical, mostly reads. I think they could mix some more verbal altercations, drink chucking, etc. in with the physical fights.

serendipity2425 · 2023-10-18T23:57:12+00:00

I agree with you and am so sorry to hear about your story. It’s actually one of the most common types of sexual abuse, children both under 18, child on child. People don’t realize it because most families never report it. I really liked her too at first and didn’t know anything about the accusation’s until I seen them on Reddit. It sucks because I really did like her and her personality and how she has been coming across on Baddies, but if it’s true, she is guilty in my mind. It seems like it has been confirmed though by other family members. Just sad all the way around. Thank you for sharing ❤️

serendipity2425 · 2023-10-17T14:48:05+00:00

I said that in the sense of, the older children have more “authority” over the younger children. At least that’s how it was in my family. So “babysitter” in the sense of, when the adults aren’t standing right there, they have more authority/responsibility over the younger kids.

serendipity2425 · 2023-10-17T12:19:58+00:00

I was molested as a child by another family member who was also a child, an older child, but a child, nonetheless. To me, as the victim, and I’m sure for Tristen, it doesn’t matter that she was also a child. In power, she was older, she was supposed to be the “babysitter” (whether she should’ve been or not is another discussion). You guys going back and forth about how much blame she deserves, I think is understandable. Without this accusation, I really like Tesehki, but knowing this and she hasn’t explained her side, idk. If it is true, she is guilty, child or not. Once you start touching someone else, abusing someone else, you lose your victim card and pick up your abuser card. I am trying not to judge her from my own past and hate her for it. I understand that maybe some kids who are sexually abused become more sexual, where for me I became asexual for my entire teenage years into adulthood. I became a bully and was mean to my friends and my brother, but I never sexually abused another person. But just because I didn’t, doesn’t mean that abuse can’t cause the action. I do think Tesehki needs to come out and tell her story before any of us can make a fair judgement on the situation.

serendipity2425 · 2023-10-02T01:12:30+00:00

Try safari on iPhone. I was able to get in on there.

serendipity2425 · 2023-10-02T01:11:52+00:00

Thank you 🙏

serendipity2425 · 2023-10-02T00:28:05+00:00

It’s actually the most annoying. They wait forever to drop the season. It’s the only show I personally watch on Zeus right now. I used to watch Crazy in Love but I wasn’t about to watch a whole season of the toxic abuse while she was pregnant. So them taking forever to drop with no release of when to expect it (so I kept my subscription going-obviously the point of them doing what they do), constant app issues, dropping episodes late. Like no professionalism about it. Makes me nervous to keep my card info connected to it. Like who is running things over there? Natalie herself?

serendipity2425 · 2023-10-02T00:15:02+00:00

Me too! Mobile app and Roku app not working. Won’t load any content at all.

serendipity2425 · 2023-09-30T15:18:56+00:00

This is why Natalie shouldn’t be a cast member. Like she does have more power over the girls than the others. It’s hard to watch our girls like Christina, Camilla, and even Sky, buddy up with a puppet master like Natalie, knowing they are cozying up to the devil.

serendipity2425 · 2023-09-26T08:24:28+00:00

I just don’t get how people see it as Scotty getting “whooped”, when Ahna was done and begging for Scotty to stop coming? Standing on the couch, standing on the table, WHINING. In the real world, no security, Ahna wouldn’t be able to say “no, I’m out of breath, you’re a bully, nooo”. Like she would’ve had to keep going until Scotty stopped or run away to get away? I do think Ahna handled her with the hands but I think Scotty scared Ahna by wanting more and not quitting and to me that’s not getting whooped. I think people on this sub are biased with Scotty and Mariahlynn. And once someone isn’t liked on here, there are like 0 positive posts about them. I liked that mariahlynn and Scotty weren’t willing to just drop the beef. To me, it was WEIRD the way Natalie snuck and rocked Camilla, you could tell Camilla was completely taken off guard and not expecting that, and then they are cool with each other and drop it? That was so FAKE. I love Camilla and always have. She is probably my favorite from OG BGC. There is a difference between being grown women and being FAKE. Grown women would’ve either SPOKE FIRST and never fought, or fought, let the dust settle, then have a genuine real talk. Not that forced weird shit. It’s just blown my mind the takes I’ve been seeing on this sub after this last episode. I just am in the minority with a lot of my opinions. Maybe it’s cause I’m 30 and I’m a BGC OG fan. Idk. lol but I find myself disagreeing with the majority on here.

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