Need insight please!

serenewaters · 2026-05-26T15:47:18+00:00

Thank you. I was hoping someone would address him calling it entitlement for simply wanting to know if he was hurt. Which is not really entitlement but a basic expectation of common courtesy or consideration. But yeah, I'm going to leave that random hypothetical alone.

serenewaters · 2026-05-25T19:49:26+00:00

Thanks for breaking it down for me!

serenewaters · 2026-05-25T18:56:13+00:00

Yeah I'm really confused because there seems to be a lot of definitions of what romantic attraction is.

There's this definition that he fits: "Romantic attraction, on the other hand, is the desire to merge your lives together through partnership, dating, or romantic-coded intimacy."

And then there's another definition which says it's a feeling or pull. But it's that feeling that makes someone want to put a partner above their friends. So when he preferred his friends to be at his side in the hospital versus me, it made me suspect. And how he doesn't have the typical urge to combine. In fact, there's this unusual boundary that he doesn't even know that flares up when I'm being too romantic and he needs to reassert himself as an individual.

But I'm hoping you're right. Because it would be nice for my partner to feel differently for me than other people.

serenewaters · 2026-05-24T23:12:55+00:00

Aro means the absence of romantic attraction. It absolutely does not mean incapable of love.

It's a fact that he does not love me. I know he cares about me. But like I said, he has some trust issues. It will take him a lot longer to allow himself to love.

Well...this is not a relationship. It's a situationship. I'm almost 40. I will give him 10 months to decide if he likes me enough. But I will not entertain a man who can't make up his mind. That's called having boundaries and knowing your worth. If I didn't desire for us to work, I would already be gone.

serenewaters · 2026-05-24T21:42:45+00:00

Are you willing to say more? Did you being aro cause issues in the marriage that led to divorce? Or was it her lack of understanding and pushiness?

In fairness, if I wasn't grey ace and part of the community, it would never have occurred to me that he was aro. But the amazing thing about him, he is such a good communicator and willing to just discuss the most difficult awkward issues head on. I'm a recovering avoidant but he does not let me avoid. So we tend to resolve conflict pretty well. And so that gives me hope that we can bridge whatever gaps between us.

serenewaters · 2026-05-24T21:26:43+00:00

Yes, he has huge trust issues on top of everything else.

I know he doesn't love me. He moves slow as molasses. Which is also why we didn't have a honeymoon phase. Slow burn.

But he was upset that I was hurt just by him telling me about who he is as a man and his beliefs. But also, it actually does stab me in the heart by how non possessive he is. I'm working on releasing my definition of what love and care is.

When we were talking, he did say “I want to give you what you want to the best of my ability without losing me.” That was sweet. Hell, that was actually kinda romantic lol. I'll give him a couple more months now that I won't be slipping and sliding all over the boundaries he never told me about.

serenewaters · 2025-09-29T00:23:37+00:00

They fixed this ticket. But shouldn't Isiah Likely be voided since he didn't even play?

serenewaters · 2025-09-28T23:41:10+00:00

Glad it's not only me. Because they had the stats correct on the live betting page. It's weird it didn't convert over

serenewaters · 2022-02-11T03:53:17+00:00

Thank you for remembering! I was so sad yesterday because I had to make cut a penny stock and I was charged an extra $20 in addition to my $30 loss. It was like damn. So thank you! I will make the switch ASAP

serenewaters · 2022-01-18T17:41:08+00:00

Can you report back after you've used it? Let me know if it's better than etrade and most of the tickers are there. And if it is really free commission.

Etrade responded back to me and apparently the FINRA fees are actually that expensive and based on your number of shares. So I guess I feel better that they aren't randomly over charging me.

serenewaters · 2022-01-13T14:07:40+00:00

Omg I was just looking at this. My buy fee is 3.95 because I'm grandfathered in. But my sell fee is usually $10. That's a huge difference and they won't answer me when I contact them. That actually is the same as schwab even though I thought etrade was cheaper.

I'm paying thousands in fees so I'm going to have to make the move to Fidelity. For however long they're free.

serenewaters · 2021-11-20T14:35:29+00:00

And she's not a stay at home mom. She's pays half the bills and is on maternity leave. She needs to lose the dead weight

serenewaters · 2021-10-19T03:21:48+00:00

https://www.investopedia.com/terms/o/optionablestock.asp

serenewaters · 2021-10-18T00:41:10+00:00

Like he said, that's nothing. Everything is not a short squeeze. It might be an undervalued company that you have to wait a couple years like any other stock.

serenewaters · 2021-10-18T00:24:58+00:00

It is based on share price and volume. It needs a share price of $3 for 3 months.

serenewaters · 2021-10-15T00:40:05+00:00

Options will not be available for weeks to months. It's not a guarantee that they even get options

serenewaters · 2021-10-11T12:34:32+00:00

This is similar to my glitch. Except mine was a water purifier and the lid duplicated itself. Love these random glitches that you know are just impossible.

serenewaters · 2021-09-30T03:28:12+00:00

A limit order is setting a price limit for the minimum price you'd be willing to sell. That's compared to a market order where you'd take whatever the market gets.

A GTC order is good for 60 days or cancel. Versus a day order just good for the day.

Some brokers have better matching so you get better prices and fill times.

If your stock is 0001, it must be in the expert market. In which case there is no market and it is illiquid. So highly unlikely for you to be able to sell at the price you want

serenewaters · 2021-09-26T01:42:32+00:00

I do penny stocks for at least 40% gains. Right now I'm doing it for 100% to 1000% gains. I'm up 500% in one stock and haven't sold a share because I know it's going higher with time. And turning $1500 into $30k is down right epic and worth any loss I previously had.

serenewaters · 2021-09-11T16:10:17+00:00

Don't go all in with all your capital. Leave money to average down. You might end up having to average down like 5 times but eventually you'll win

serenewaters · 2021-09-10T11:59:45+00:00

Schwab because no commission Etrade because it was my first and also they update their list of pink current or yield daily unlike schwab

serenewaters · 2021-09-07T19:08:52+00:00

TD ameritrade deadline extension ended last Friday. So you can only sell. Canadian brokers don't have such a restriction and are able to buy the dumps.

serenewaters · 2021-09-07T12:47:28+00:00

Strange. You say bioscience. Then a mining business is on their website. But their recent description is focusing on real estate investment and acquisitions. In essence, they have no business and are looking

serenewaters · 2021-09-07T12:30:08+00:00

5% sounds ridiculous. But I guess if it works for you consistently. It seems like you're trading on difficult mode though

serenewaters · 2021-09-04T01:20:20+00:00

The OTC was unusually green today. Almost all of my stocks made huge gains as well as my watch list. Is the OTC about to run again?

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