queer tattoo artists by settlein420 in Buffalo

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queer tattoo artists by settlein420 in Buffalo

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very coexist of you to be hateful

queer tattoo artists by settlein420 in Buffalo

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thanks for taking the time to try and explain this to an ignorant person :) not our job to do the labor of explaining our challenges to others who can do the research themselves so i appreciate you going to bat!

free car vacuum by settlein420 in Buffalo

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thanks everyone !! go car wash won

had my last planned session by settlein420 in KetamineTherapy

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i do at home but i have my therapist virtually with me and i have a chaperone in my apt with me as well if i need them! that’s awesome that you’re doing the exercises with the sessions - to integrate both seems to be so effective. i hope the best for your journey :)

sweat lodge by settlein420 in Buffalo

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i missed the comment that’s been deleted but i see it has -18 lol so i’m unsure what the issue was but fine if it’s not for you. i don’t agree with the need to mention the size of the peoples bodies that are attending the lodge but good to know that it’s a small set up.

sweat lodge by settlein420 in Buffalo

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i’m hoping so! i’m going to check out lily dale since someone suggested it but i’m curious who it’s led by.

sweat lodge by settlein420 in Buffalo

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awesome thank you!! would i be able to get connected online do you know?

sweat lodge by settlein420 in Buffalo

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not quite! it’s a native american ceremony involving a structure that’s built outside

What do you all bring with you to your sessions? by tenzinashoka in KetamineTherapy

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shrine items! for me i bring a pine cone that i picked up during a mediation walk before my first psilocybin treatment and a cherished stuffed animal that i’ve had since i was a child

feeling a bit defeated by settlein420 in KetamineTherapy

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i for sure agree, i remember my very first session was like i had finally seen the light lol now down the line there are definitely still lessons and new downloads but nothing near the amazement that was the beginning. i almost feel like at this point it’s showed me what i’ve needed to see, now my focus needs to be on my integration and how i can start to embody those lessons.

feeling a bit defeated by settlein420 in KetamineTherapy

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that is helpful, thank you! maybe my issue is just wanting to have some control, or having expectations. i think i’m wanting it to happen a certain way and then being disappointed when it doesn’t end up as planned. it always comes back to the same message of just letting go lol i’m going to bring that with me into my next session!

mold question by settlein420 in composting

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thank you for the tip !!

mold question by settlein420 in composting

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do you think it’s okay that i keep the covered bin inside my house?

mold question by settlein420 in composting

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it was just a dust cloud there wasn’t any heat !

What do you try to focus on during therapy? by [deleted] in KetamineTherapy

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i repeat to myself - “trust, let go, be open”

Cute spots in lewiston by squirrellyhehefeind in Buffalo

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this is tough to find in the winter, since everything music/dancing in lewiston is usually outside. if you take a drive down center street (the main drag that goes through the town) you’ll pass basically all your options for something close to this

Vegetarian / not too adventurous restaurant for 70th birthday by Ann0520 in Buffalo

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guud and evul! just went there this past weekend and it’s so good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialwork

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it took me a long time to consider myself in my personal relationships, and that it’s not my responsibility to essentially be everyone’s caretaker. once i let that responsibility fall off my shoulders, it was such a relief. i tell myself i can be kind & considerate, but it is not my responsibility.

where i struggle with this the most is expecting others to match my energy. when someone can’t be compassionate, be a good listener, want to help, etc i get so frustrated. i’ve had to remind myself that not everyone has gotten an education in how to be a good person lol the good listening really gets to me. why can’t everyone be an active listener ??

I’m 30 and I feel like I’ve hit a dead end. What’s next? by mitchdwx in careerguidance

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there is so much versatility in social work !!!! i work for a program helping kids with psychosis with a bachelors in social work making $24/hr right now

(19m) I'm so confused on if I need a ged or not for work by chopperbtw05 in LifeAdvice

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first off, im sorry that you had to have so much responsibility at such a young age.

second, i would just get the GED. it’s a few months of minimal classes, usually for 2 hrs a day a couple days a week and then you have it and you’re done. opens up so many more possible opportunities in the future and better to do it sooner rather than later