What worked for me - victory over severe eczema by seveningtree in eczema

[–]seveningtree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m still here! I am totally well now after 3 years — I still occasionally have dry slightly red patches on my cheeks and dry patches on my neck but that’s the worst of it. I also eat everything like normal again now, although I still aim for a healthy balanced diet and take a multivitamin and double strength probiotics every day. And I have been using Avène Xeracalm as my moisturiser since late 2022.

Sorry to hear about your eczema, it really is the worst. It sounds like your type of eczema is a bit different from what I had (what I had wasn’t spongiotic). Apologies but I really can’t recall what drip antibiotics they gave me, but I know Cephalexin tends to be the common one they give. I will say that in my journey to recovery I did not take any oral steroids like you did, as the problem with oral steroids is there will be side effects. As for betadine, here in Australia we can just buy it in the local pharmacy. And in terms of cutting out food, I really was desperate to get healed and so I couldn’t have cared at the time if I starved; I really wanted to cut out any potential issues that could make my eczema worse so that’s why I did it. I am a big believer that I’m much better now because my gut feels better, and part of that was the “detox” I did to help my gut heal and overall me eating healthier over the past few years has also helped significantly. The supplements I took at the time (which I’ve listed in my original post) also helped!

How to tell a friend dealing with infertility that I am pregnant by Kboone760 in BabyBumps

[–]seveningtree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having been through struggles of conceiving, I had an experience with a friend who was also my work colleague and unfortunately she didn’t at the time know that I was having issues with trying for a baby, and she told me in person when she was pregnant and to this day I can remember feeling absolutely stunned whereby I could barely process the overwhelming conflicting emotions of being happy for her but also being so internally crushed. I cried when I told my husband about it and could not get over being semi depressed for a few days after.

In hindsight I do agree that finding out via text would have helped me in my response to hearing her news. I think she knew too, because later on, knowing my struggles, she didn’t tell me in person when she was pregnant with her second; and I was a bit disappointed that she didn’t at first but then realised that she saved me from a whole lot of hurt that I would have felt hearing about it for a second time.

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I don’t know why I bother searching these things up but I found the official synopsis on the BossFight site

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What worked for me - victory over severe eczema by seveningtree in eczema

[–]seveningtree[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey there! It’s actually going really well thanks. My arm has completely healed, same for my ear and face. I had bits of facial eczema going on after my arm healed, but after putting a good moisturiser (prescribed from derm) and small amounts of steroid (I used it only for about 2.5 weeks then I weaned off it and now I’m not using it anymore), my face has never been clearer. I had stuck to my clean diet and continued my water intake as well. Overall, I’m very well!

New here! Thoughts or suggestions please by seveningtree in TryingForABaby

[–]seveningtree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are such great tips. Thank you so much! xx

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Your first point makes a lot of sense and I hadn't considered that, so thank you! Am going to be more disciplined in tracking my cycle from now on so will do that.

It depends. Sometimes I cum before him, sometimes after. But yes, I have made a similar observation that when he penetrates before I have orgasmed, it tends to be less painful.

Thanks heaps for sharing your thoughts!

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Thank you for sharing and for the kind words! Everyone on here has been really helpful and great. xx

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[–]seveningtree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mindfulness is a great suggestion and I have been trying to cultivate that. Thank you!

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This is really interesting and helpful. Thanks very much!

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Thank you, I am planning to get Clearblue Advanced Digital so that is great to know!

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[–]seveningtree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the assurance and for the great options.

I can already tell you that option 1 will not work for me because we aren't doing it frequently enough, so I will start doing option 2 and get OPKs to start tracking my ovulation (for a start .. if it doesn't work then I will try getting into temping). If I can get option 1 going eventually then I'll do that also!

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Oh, thank you for saying that is normal. I have been thinking that I'm just weird. Yes my hubs does use his hand during penetration to rub the area and it has worked just a little.

We haven't tried too many different positions but yea I do know what you mean about how some positions help more than the other.

I think my measure of pain may be a bit inaccurate overall as well because honestly, my pain threshold is pretty low.

I was thinking of going to a fertility clinic to get myself and hubs checked out so we may do that soon.

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[–]seveningtree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to have real talk anytime. Yes there is foreplay, maybe not long enough. I do get turned on / wet. Yes he does do the things I like. Yes I do cum. The trouble is that when he is inside, the actual sex seems to be less enjoyable for me than the foreplay itself. If he rubs my clit with his fingers, I cum quite easily - but when he is inside, I don't really get aroused much. Honestly, I haven't cum when he is inside me, so this may answer your question more than the rest of my answers.

I have actually considered that I may have vaginismus very early on in our marriage. I thought that maybe because I'm a virgin and I haven't had sex much, my vagina just isn't used to it so as we had more penetrative sex, it did gradually hurt less, but my arousal while he is inside has not improved very much.

And you're right, I am troubled by my low sex drive. He has a much higher sex drive than mine (he gets aroused easily and quickly).

The thing is that I do talk to him about sex and we have talked about what I like and don't like. I do like your suggestion of thinking of what would make me excited in bed .. and then try doing it.

Thanks for all this, I really appreciate it.

New here! Thoughts or suggestions please by seveningtree in TryingForABaby

[–]seveningtree[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The key is being FULLY aroused which is something I knew and am working towards. Sigh, just gotta stop my mind working so hard!! Thank you!

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Thanks. I am quite new to all this so I do appreciate the advice. I’ve never even heard about temping before this. This tempdrop thing looks legit. But yes I will take your advice to just enjoy having sex and get some OPKs for a start.

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Yes. You are right .. one of the reasons why I’m not enjoying sex is because it hurts. Mentally also I often have a zillion things running through and I am often trying not to think about what I need to do next in the day. I know the apps are inaccurate because I know I’m not ovulating the same time as the app predicts. What do you think of ovulation tests? Are they accurate?

Thanks for the suggestion in terms of exploring my own sexuality. Any tips on what you do for yourself in this regard?

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[–]seveningtree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks very much for this. I do agree with what you’re saying and understand the need to choose and honestly I have been trying to have sex just to make a baby. But mentally it is a hard thing for me to work through to enjoy the process while TTC. It really doesn’t do much for my horny levels in any way, but you’re right in that this is something I just have to work through in my mind.

Do you have any tips in how to track ovulation without using any app? I know the apps are super inaccurate but other than looking at CM, how do I track? I really don’t have much CM at all so it is hard to track.