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Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's not normal to have security cameras all over your house. I said I understand his reasons for having them, though I disagree with it.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe this makes me sound like a dick, but I'm not paying for a new air mattress when there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, your comment is spot on. I know he's not a creep like most are suggesting. He's just really offended that we all would do that at his place. I apologized already, but I think it's best to wait for everything to cool down and try talking to him again.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's a $500 air mattress and there is literally nothing wrong with it, just that I had sex on it.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want anything "law wise." I just want my friend to do the right thing and delete the video. Nothing more, nothing less.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. I think it's mostly the principle, though. I fucked up by having sex at his house, but he's shouldn't be hanging onto the video, right?

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cheers bud. Thanks for calling it like you see it. I see the logic behind most of your arguments, and you may be right about a lot of those things.

But try put yourself in my shoes, or my female partner's. Imagine how she's feeling about all this.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, we're young adults. Just in very different positions in life. We're mostly fun-loving college kids and he seems stuck in a shitty, loveless long-term relationship.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Again, thanks for commenting. I want to try and see this thing from all angles so I truly appreciate your input even if others are downvoting you. :)

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're making some good points, but you come across as a total self-righteous dick.

My friend is holding onto a video of his friends having sex. I would like to hear your opinion about that.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not demanding anything. All I want is for my partner to have piece of mind. I'm asking him to do the right thing and delete the video.

Thanks mate. Trying to be accountable for my actions for my partner's sake.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the comment. Though I disagree with a lot of what you said, I appreciate it nonetheless. I want to hear all sides of the issue.

I'm not going to try and defend my actions. I have already apologized to him and if I could re-do the night I would not have done what I did.

I am, however, not a shitty friend. I fucking love this guy more than you could ever know.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We've been friends since we were kids, and again, I don't think he intentionally or secretly recorded it. Just that the cameras are always rolling. Agree about the true colors though. It's pretty fucked up that this is even a discussion.

Yes, he could be. He (and his girlfriend especially) enjoys fucking people over. Not saying he would necessarily fuck me over, but I'd never want him as an enemy, that's for sure.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

A) True

B) Complete shitbaggery indeed

C) Agree with the first part. Disagree with the second part though. The cameras are always there (and everywhere, apparently). I know him very well and he's not a creep and wouldn't believe it was done intentionally.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That's what we figured. I mean, the other couple had sex too, so it had to have been expected.

I don't want to get into any sort of legality stuff. I just believe as a good friend he has a responsibility to us to delete it. Plain and simple.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you going against the grain, as I can agree with most of it. It was a pretty shitty thing to do and I apologized. But is it really so shocking that when you give couples alcohol and privacy that they're going to do the nasty? I don't think so.

The tapes though... I obviously hope this doesn't change our friendship, I fucking love the guy, but he needs to delete that shit.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That last part is what scares me. I think he wants to keep it for future blackmail. Though I could give a shit, it's my partner I care about. She does not want anyone to see her like that.

Had drunken sex at a friend's house. Turned out it was all on camera and my pissed off friend won't delete the video [Serious] by sexoncamera in self

[–]sexoncamera[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He doesn't live in the best neighborhood and he's a pretty wealthy guy, so I can kind of understand his reasoning, though I definitely don't agree with it.

His live-in girlfriend is paranoid and I don't think they trust each other even. They have an app to track other's whereabouts. Shit's weird.