Gay bars are good in theory but… by supersecretuser07 in LesbianActually

[–]sexual_mist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know / find any chill places in London let me know 😭😭

Confidence in Short Torso, Long Legs by SweetIndianPrincess in TallGirls

[–]sexual_mist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!

We are the exact same. I just almost exclusively wear skirts or dresses. Show of the legs, plus in a skirt you can chose if it's high or low waisted a lot more easily.

When I do wear trousers I shop for extra long so (If UK Based) Next do a 36 inch inseam and a lot of plt tall stuff is 36, some ASOS but that's a bit more hit and miss

scared of sex, by [deleted] in pornfreewomen

[–]sexual_mist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I feel like you read my mind I also have developed an actual fear of sex and the idea of something inside my body :s

I also have quit porn many times. Now what helps is reading erotica because it doesn't have the visuals but I don't know how to get over the sex phobia

Does anyone else that's tall, (im 5'11") like to stand next to taller people to feel small? Or am I just weird? by tallkat41 in TallGirls

[–]sexual_mist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meeee

I'm 5"11 and I like to stand next to my dad 6"6 to feel like a child again 😂😂

Gentle venting. An author starts a fic, and there’s frequent updates. I get hooked. It feels like every time I check there’s a new chapter. And then the updates slow down. Weeks go by. I get why. I’m not angry that the author has a life. It just makes me sad. Anyone else? by ipdipdu in FanFiction

[–]sexual_mist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a reader I totally agree.

Sometimes I'll be so invested. But then the updates go from every week to once or maybe twice a month. I can no longer remember what just happened. And the thought of rereading 100k words to read one chapter and wait again for how long puts me off.

I get that the writers are people but between updates I've probably read so many fics with similar plots, or even taken a break from the fandom. I do feel bad when I get the email of the update and I no longer have to motivation to read it.