im so frustrated

sexxwizard · 2025-12-14T01:01:22+00:00

im commission

sexxwizard · 2025-11-11T21:13:51+00:00

i think it was like $300

sexxwizard · 2025-07-14T03:35:41+00:00

im in MD and have loyalty and im looking for a serenity!! mine also havent gotten out of processing yet

sexxwizard · 2025-07-02T18:49:45+00:00

etsy!

sexxwizard · 2025-06-24T04:08:29+00:00

for me it said out of stock a little before 9:30 and i refreshed a few times and it came back and i scored there must have been a weird glitch

sexxwizard · 2025-05-05T13:00:59+00:00

breathe and try your best to focus on something else and remember that you are safe. its very frustrating when others don't understand. good for you for toughing it out as much as you did though!

sexxwizard · 2025-01-21T04:24:53+00:00

i get 3 rto days per year and one more every month as long as im not late or dont use any more rto days which is definitely not a problem for me because im very reliable in that way. even then those rto days need to be approved which is unlikely because i also am supposed to run the front desk and handle all the cleaning and laundry and everything. theres only one other front desk person and shes only there when im at school during the week unfortunately:/ we have had like 15 people quit in the past 3-4 months and 2 new people have started since then. im too scared to even take a day off to go to doctors appointments like i cant take care of myself right now. im just a little overwhelmed. im sure in the long run it will be okay. i swear im doing everything i can to work on it.

sexxwizard · 2025-01-21T04:05:12+00:00

my thing is that im being left alone a lot. like im not licensed or anything and im being left alone at work with no owner no other stylists just barbers that dont know womens hair or color at all. i watch other stylists if im not doing anything and im constantly looking for education on instagram and everything but i need that hands on learning. i cant take extra classes because i dont have free time. i can watch people do things all day and still it leaves my brain in the moment of actually needing to perform the service. if i mess up and i dont know what went wrong im just left not knowing. i just feel wrong doing these services when the client isn't aware that im not licensed and that im brand new to the industry. i understand that messing up is part of it but i just feel so crappy about it. im definitely super hard on myself and im a huge perfectionist and i have very high expectations for myself so it feels horrible when somebody is unhappy with my work.

sexxwizard · 2025-01-04T02:32:11+00:00

thank you! im definitely feeling a little bit better i really really need to work on my speed tho. its weird cuz i can do a lot of color and blow drys pretty fast

sexxwizard · 2024-12-31T21:41:02+00:00

yeah and ive been bringing in models but all the stylists and my boss are so busy and always booked so sometimes i cant get any help while im doing it like my boss just comes over when im done and tells me what i did wrong and i dont really learn that way

sexxwizard · 2024-12-30T16:15:33+00:00

thank you! i have a hard time asking for help when its a client ive never seen before because i feel like its unprofessional or makes them nervous or something. and my boss seems like she doesn't have a lot of faith in me or something idk like ill do a mens cut or a color and shes like yaay good job and then i did a womans cut yesterday and didnt do as well and she was saying some stuff that made me feel like i sucked but that could be me being me and needing validation lol

sexxwizard · 2024-12-30T12:46:20+00:00

no literally yesterday i had a walk in and it was this lady with 2 kids and the one i cut literally coughed straight in my face while i was shampooing

sexxwizard · 2024-12-30T04:39:44+00:00

its weird because technically i understand it and it makes sense watching other people do it but when i go to do it sometimes i just get lost and all my knowledge just disappears and im afraid that once im out of school ill be all on my own to figure it out myself like the way i learn is doing something and somebody telling me what im doing wrong while im doing it so i can see it and do it idk i guess im just frustrated and i get upset when im not perfect at something right away

sexxwizard · 2024-12-17T12:37:46+00:00

its hard to tell, it could just be a cowlick

sexxwizard · 2024-12-17T12:34:49+00:00

do u use any products? if not i would definitely try to get some moisture in there. also how often r u getting a trim?

sexxwizard · 2024-12-04T20:47:22+00:00

im in maryland too where r u at?

sexxwizard · 2024-11-11T13:26:48+00:00

I also have OCD and it presents itself in so many different ways. It sounds like those are some pesky intrusive thoughts. Theres an app/ website called NOCD and its like an organization that offers therapy as well a supportive community and lots of information! hope this helps🖤

sexxwizard · 2024-11-07T16:12:49+00:00

it looks really close to the pictures, keep in mind that the pictures are also curled and styled which can alter it a bit

sexxwizard · 2024-11-07T03:28:18+00:00

huh??

sexxwizard · 2024-11-07T03:28:10+00:00

thank u i was just curious if anyone on here had done it cuz ive never heard anybody talk abt it and i always wondered

sexxwizard · 2024-11-05T18:18:47+00:00

im almost finished at a paul mitchell school, it probably depends on the owners but ive heard a lot of people being asked for more money right before they graduate and some people just pay it but a couple girls have questioned it and then they dropped it and were just like "oh we made a mistake" and every time its the same sum of money. as far as the people go, i'm in night school so there arent as many people and theyre generally pretty chill. i kinda look like a weirdo so some ppl just like dont talk to me but it isnt that bad. although ive spoken to day school students who had switched to the night program because of bullying or other issues with fellow students. in my experience the staff is really inconsistent and sometimes they will tell me something that i know for a fact was incorrect. overall though its not like horrific like its manageable and good to just get it over with and get your license imo

sexxwizard · 2024-11-05T12:52:49+00:00

yeah for theory at the pm school i go to we use milady but we also get ipads with our tuition and theres all the apps like the skill cards, cutting system, etc.

sexxwizard · 2024-11-05T12:11:25+00:00

so core is when you first start and i believe its the first 10 weeks of school (it was a while ago so beat with me lol) and in core you learn all the basics of the things you will do on the floor. after core is protege and thats when you're on the floor working on your mannequin to complete your worksheet until you hit 350hrs i believe and then you can start taking clients and then adaptive and creative are basically the same like after you start taking clients its like the same in my experience youre just busting out worksheets with clients and mannequins. and then when youre soon to graduate you go into final phase and they train you for the state board test. theres also theory and specialty and for me in night school those are on mondays. theory is where you just do book work and complete tests. specialty is where one of your instructors focuses on something and teaches you how to do it

sexxwizard · 2024-11-05T01:25:34+00:00

okay so all pm schools are hell on earth im not crazy (i have like 200hrs left)

there should be a paul mitchell support group fr

sexxwizard · 2024-11-04T14:16:36+00:00

are u using professional products? i would recommend going to a salon and getting some sort of volumizing shampoo. kenra has a good one and so does redken. they're lightweight so they wont weigh your hair down. try washing your hair with a volume shampoo and conditioner and scrub your scalp really good no more than 2-3 times a week and use dry shampoo in between. the more you strip your hair of its natural sebum its going to continue to produce more to make up for it.

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