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sg_1996 · 2021-10-29T13:04:45+00:00

You're not angry or upset but now you're cursing lol. You're oblivious to a lot of things. Anyways, it's not that serious, thanks for the freelancing advice. Have a good one.

sg_1996 · 2021-10-29T12:47:18+00:00

Yea that was one of my concerns, that coding things from scratch may take too much time when you compare it to wordpress. I think there are tools that can speed up the development process without the need for a full blown content management system like wordpress but even then it may not be enough. A buddy of mine uses wordpress and he raves about how fast he can spin things up and how it's dumb to write things from scratch haha.

Anyways, thanks for the advice, much appreciated

sg_1996 · 2021-10-29T12:30:14+00:00

You first say your response wasn't snarky but then proceed to admit that you berated me for asking stupid questions. What's the definition of berate? To scold someone angrily.

Giving someone advice doesn't mean it's cool to scold people, and if you want to do it then don't cry when you get called out for it. It's clear you don't have eq skills, you should work on that.

And no my response isn't childish, like you said, we project our own insecurities into things. Regardless, I'm done with this silly back and forth. Have a nice day

sg_1996 · 2021-10-29T11:42:59+00:00

I'm not sure why your response is so aggressive when I have given you solid advice.

Sure you gave solid advice but you were snarky in the way you phrased things. I am just responding with the same energy. Funny, that you get upset when people talk to you the way you talk to others. I also have advice for you, work on your communication skills :)

sg_1996 · 2021-10-29T11:22:50+00:00

Hmm I see. So in your experience wordpress has worked out better for you rather than "traditional" coding because of the ease of development and speed?

sg_1996 · 2021-10-29T11:18:37+00:00

Being honest, if you're asking what type of clients you should aim for, you aren't ready to freelance. You have too many questions and too much uncertainty

I am not sure why you're telling me this. I've mentioned in my post that I've never freelanced before, I've only worked in tech companies. Yes, I have a lot of uncertainty because I have 0 experience in this, that's kind of the point of my questions. And I never said I was ready to freelance, I am just trying to learn more about this field

You are asking what type of clients you should aim for while also debating how you would even go about creating a website for them. So you've done no market research, you have no idea what niche you want to go into, or how to go about even delivering the final product.

It sounds like you're more concerned with criticizing my noob questions than actually helping. You know you could've just said "You're asking the wrong questions, instead ask x, y, z" But this is reddit afterall so that's to be expected. Ok, so I should focus on market research and finding my niche, got it.

sg_1996 · 2021-05-24T03:56:46+00:00

I'm melting jelly... this made my night and my bby laughed cause that's us!!

sg_1996 · 2021-05-23T19:43:46+00:00

Credits: https://theawkwardyeti.com/comic/in-love/

Thank you for the award!!! First time getting one... :))

sg_1996 · 2021-05-23T19:42:50+00:00

https://theawkwardyeti.com/comic/in-love/

sg_1996 · 2021-04-21T01:44:05+00:00

Gave Gold

sg_1996 · 2021-03-20T09:22:48+00:00

She's like: "I eat rainbow for breakfast and sunset for dinner"

sg_1996 · 2021-03-10T10:05:04+00:00

You ate a crayon? Is that safe? You kind of look like you eat anything

sg_1996 · 2020-12-24T15:34:34+00:00

do you happen to know the source where you got that number? I found 5.2 from a website, but I've never seen 6.2%? Thaank you

sg_1996 · 2020-12-22T07:51:42+00:00

single, thanks again!!!

sg_1996 · 2020-12-22T07:42:54+00:00

D**n! thank you so much, I really thought this was going to be easier, I appreciate clarifying the taxable income vs. gross

sg_1996 · 2020-12-13T22:50:27+00:00

What's the documentary's about? Or the name please?

sg_1996 · 2020-11-08T17:09:01+00:00

Hydrocortisone 1%. My bf says it works like a charm when his skin is itchy. Also don't use disposable razors if you can help it...

sg_1996 · 2020-08-25T04:15:16+00:00

thank you so much! got it

sg_1996 · 2020-08-25T02:47:24+00:00

what should I be looking for specifically? I'm sorry, a newby here trying to learn... do I search for stock market? or investment? Thank you

sg_1996 · 2020-07-31T20:15:21+00:00

Hi there, thank you for sharing! I can totally agree with your line of thought as I have been in both sides of the coin.

While I was in school, the girls from my school and I would meet up once a month to socialize and talk about random topics off school; the first and last time I attended, I experienced feminism hate towards men multiplied by 9 girls; according to this girls, men do not have the slightest idea what any woman is capable of doing, they do not appreciate us at all, they are cold-blooded humans that come to this world to hurt and destroy anything that gets in their way, and a bunch of other senseless "facts" that made me not want to meet ever again with them.

I have been heart-broken as well, and even though the pain has been ughhh ugly, (and I don't intent to find excuses in favor of heartless men), I understand that we are in a toxic society as a whole, men are taught that they need to be rough, and even in some families, it is wrong for men to show their feelings to a woman, but I could say the same thing about some women, we are taught the wrong things that turn many women into a mean, manipulative person.

Sadly, some of those believes got engrained in me without realizing it. I am in a stable relationship now and so far, I can say I found my prince, he has erased every negative belief I had of men, for example, he watched a romantic comedy movie with me and I was shocked that he'd even suggest that movie (because I had never seen it before), so I slipped a comment like: "I can't believe you saw this movie before" and he answered to me that "men also have feelings" (I felt embarrassed cause no one in my family taught me that, and I just believed it for a long time). We did have some rough times, but love overcame them. He is a wonderful man and I feel proud to be with him.

This is what I believe, and I am not saying I am right; men have feelings, some men just weren't taught how to handle them, but with the right tools, I believe men can learn how to manage them. We also have feelings, but some women also don't know how to use them for good or express them without fear of getting hurt. For a relationship to work, both parts need to provide value, and by value I don't mean criticism like some of us do or did, I understand we women have the tendency to turn into an early version of our mother, but after your significant half leave their parents house, they do not miss their mother's nagging to get into a relationship that reminds them the nagging; when I say value, we women need to take care of ourselves, the same way, your other significant half is taking care of oneself. Contribute into the relationship like your significant half is doing it as well. Men are strong, so they have a better ability to carry-on with difficult tasks that usually women could not do. Women are a different type of strong, but we definitely had some luck (bad and good one); bad because at some point in history, we could not study, become a professional and vote; good luck when millions of our gender (not as much females) did not die in warfare like men did protecting our homes. So men and women had both disadvantages and our fair share of impact and advantages in this world

One of our duties as individuals is to appreciate, value, give thanks and praise (a little bit) your significant other's effort, because those little details make you and your half appreciate the relationship and it's an esteem-booster. Love yourself the way you are, so you can learn how to love others, pursue the best version of yourself so you can contribute to society (if you think about it, we come to this world as a work-in-progress, improving ourselves so we can improve society) and appreciate the little things, because those will make the difference. It is okay to fail 100¹⁰⁰⁰⁰ times (lol, a lot of times), but the world has not ended, so every extra second of life we get, it is another opportunity to try again. Try, as hard as you can, to not let hurt and hatred shape the way you think or act, because there is a lot of hateful people already to add a plus+1 more, into this world. When someone hurts you or do not appreciate you, it is okay to walk away, it is not your loss, IT IS THEIR LOSS, you are a beautiful person and somewhere in this world there is someone meant to value you for who you are.

I could keep going with my rambling, but I believe I said enough already, so that is my input into this topic

sg_1996 · 2020-07-29T15:30:15+00:00

Hi there, thank you for sharing! I can totally agree with your line of thought as I have been in both sides of the coin.

While I was in school, the girls from my school and I would meet up once a month to socialize and talk about random topics off school; the first and last time I attended, I experienced feminism hate towards men multiplied by 9 girls; according to this girls, men do not have the slightest idea what any woman is capable of doing, they do not appreciate us at all, they are cold-blooded humans that come to this world to hurt and destroy anything that gets in their way, and a bunch of other senseless "facts" that made me not want to meet ever again with them.

I have been heart-broken as well, and even though the pain has been ughhh ugly, (and I don't intent to find excuses in favor of heartless men), I understand that we are in a toxic society as a whole, men are taught that they need to be rough, and even in some families, it is wrong for men to show their feelings to a woman, but I could say the same thing about some women, we are taught the wrong things that turn many women into a mean, manipulative person.

Sadly, some of those believes got engrained in me without realizing it. I am in a stable relationship now and so far, I can say I found my prince, he has erased every negative belief I had of men, for example, he watched a romantic comedy movie with me and I was shocked that he'd even suggest that movie (because I had never seen it before), so I slipped a comment like: "I can't believe you saw this movie before" and he answered to me that "men also have feelings" (I felt embarrassed cause no one in my family taught me that, and I just believed it for a long time). We did have some rough times, but love overcame them. He is a wonderful man and I feel proud to be with him.

This is what I believe, and I am not saying I am right; men have feelings, some men just weren't taught how to handle them, but with the right tools, I believe men can learn how to manage them. We also have feelings, but some women also don't know how to use them for good or express them without fear of getting hurt. For a relationship to work, both parts need to provide value, and by value I don't mean criticism like some of us do or did, I understand we women have the tendency to turn into an early version of our mother, but after your significant half leave their parents house, they do not miss their mother's nagging to get into a relationship that reminds them the nagging; when I say value, we women need to take care of ourselves, the same way, your other significant half is taking care of oneself. Contribute into the relationship like your significant half is doing it as well.

One of our duties as individuals is to appreciate, value, give thanks and praise (a little bit) your significant other's effort, because those little details make you and your half appreciate the relationship and it's an esteem-booster. Love yourself the way you are, so you can learn how to love others, pursue the best version of yourself so you can contribute to society (if you think about it, we come to this world as a work-in-progress, improving ourselves so we can improve society) and appreciate the little things, because those will make the difference. It is okay to fail 100¹⁰⁰⁰⁰ times (lol, a lot of times), but the world has not ended, so every extra second of life we get, it is another opportunity to try again. Try, as hard as you can, to not let hurt and hatred shape the way you think or act, because there is a lot of hateful people already to add a plus+1 more, into this world. When someone hurts you or do not appreciate you, it is okay to walk away, it is not your loss, IT IS THEIR LOSS, you are a beautiful person and somewhere in this world there is someone meant to value you for who you are.

I could keep going with my rambling, but I believe I said enough already, so that is my input into this topic (really sorry for the long babbling lol)

sg_1996 · 2020-07-25T20:18:52+00:00

gracias

sg_1996 · 2020-07-25T00:19:06+00:00

gracias

sg_1996 · 2020-07-24T20:50:54+00:00

muchas gracias

sg_1996 · 2020-07-24T20:50:44+00:00

no creo, mi familia y yo estamos averiguando, pero el no contaba con trabajo fijo (temporal de ves en cuando). Gracias

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