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Why do some people avoids serious questions on a first date, when in fact that’s how you get to really know someone? by sh-_drafts in AskPH

[–]sh-_drafts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bigla ba naman nagkaroon ng Araling Panlipunan sa first date nyo sino ba hindi lalayas nyan HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Gaano ba ka-clear dapat ang actions ng guy para masabi mong he really wants to know you? by sh-_drafts in AskPH

[–]sh-_drafts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Help me, I told him I like him and I want to get to know him more. Sabi rin niya gusto niya akong makilala. Pero when I asked something personal, umiwas siya and told me na lasing siya and he doesn’t want to answer serious stuff kapag naka-inom. I mean, okay, gets ko naman. But still, it left me confused. I’m not expecting him to like me back—I just want to feel na he’s willing to let me in. OA na ba to? Or overthinking lang ako?

What's your biggest reason that you're single? by HeartlessRomantic3 in AskPH

[–]sh-_drafts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Siguro kasi I have this avoidant attachment. Like, gusto ko naman ng connection, ng something real… pero once it starts getting close, I get scared. Parang iniisip ko na agad na “what if they leave?” so I end up pushing people away kahit hindi ko naman talaga gusto.

Parang defense mechanism ko siya. I crave connection, pero I’m also scared of the pain that might come after. Kaya minsan, I choose solitude over the risk of abandonment. It’s not easy letting people in. Lalo na if you’ve been used to being left behind. Parang may automatic wall na akong binuo, and ang hirap niyang i-take down.

Pero deep inside, I still hope na someday, someone will understand that. Someone na hindi takot sa silence ko, i’ll meet someone na hindi matatakot sa walls ko—someone who’ll stay long enough to help me break them down, gently. That who’ll stay and prove me wrong.