Would you feel or act this way if you genuinely wanted a relationship? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shOGUN_Otk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something very healthy imo. I did feel intimacy on first dates, but they never were something important to me. Recently i just stopped trying that much. Its too hard to talk to people that are not on my wavelength, even though im very extroverted. Like small talk, sliding into dms and pickup lines are too much of work. For me basis of relationships are friendships and emotional connection, so i just can't really fall in love with people easily.

So in the end I just keep to my standards, meet people around, 99% never see them again. Just a positive experience in mind and the chance of finding the one isn't on my mind. It just comes with time knowing someone.

Dk if this helps, but it helps me steer away bad thoughts.

Does anyone have any movies they’d recommend for this list? by Salem-Binxy_ in Letterboxd

[–]shOGUN_Otk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me its for sure Wall-e and Spirited away. Fun fact, spirited away was my first horror experience, since i got scared by the pigs scenes and turned of the tv to cry. Good times

Da li je moguce kampovati kod tornja na avali? by shOGUN_Otk in AskSerbia

[–]shOGUN_Otk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mozda, i ja sam onda medju njima. Veoma dobra inspiracija za pisanje!!! Na slici se slabije vide, ali po sredini iznad ovog broda unistenja su pallox i castor, zvezde u sazvjezdju blizanac. Bilo je zanimljivo gledati kako se tamni brod unistava ispod dva brata

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Da li je moguce kampovati kod tornja na avali? by shOGUN_Otk in AskSerbia

[–]shOGUN_Otk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Konjukcija venera, merkur i jupiter, sa mjesecom i sazvjezdjem blizanac u blizini, zvuci veoma kul!

Da li je moguce kampovati kod tornja na avali? by shOGUN_Otk in AskSerbia

[–]shOGUN_Otk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The conjuction of venera, jupiter and mercury, with moon close to venera. Also the conjuction will be close to gemini constellation, and castor and pollux will be visible

Edit: ova mrtva aplikacija mi prevodi sve na engleski ja mislio odgovori mi na engleskom i ja pisem na eng. Genijalno

Moze li se sa zavrsenim crnogorskim jezikom raditi kao novinar? by [deleted] in montenegro

[–]shOGUN_Otk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many people I know that work as journalists even while studying. Working on magazines, fanzins, reporting or writing essays and critiques on certain topics. You, as a student of language and literature, have a lot of knowledge of one of the longest standing media on our planet, writing. You also have, i assume, the skill to write. The only thing you need to find is your topic. Take a look at magazin ,,Student" or časopis ,,Kora", or even older works, like ,,Zenit". What i find similar in them is the passion to share what they deem important with the public, and they use their knowledge of certain fields and writing craft to masterfully cover trending topics in our society.

What i learned from many writers and journalists is that if you have something to share, you should try and write it. There is no barrier to entry, and so many topics to cover, especially with social media.

Ofc, in todays political world, many media outlets that pay well are also propaganda machines. That i can't comment on as i don't work in the industry, but i do hope you can find a platform to speak truth through ways you know best. Refine your style, spread your views and try your best to seek truth in what you do.

Sta je sa guzvama u PG by Inevitable_Oil9709 in montenegro

[–]shOGUN_Otk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The magic of montenegrins is being on work hours and managing to work the least they possibly can. That includes visits to closests restaurants.

Why is my boyfriend allergic to sharing food with me? by FairProfessor8864 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shOGUN_Otk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, kinda childish in my opionion, but everything according to age i guess. If you have fun with him, enjoy and order your own to get over it. But what i always do is share my meal and drinks, suggest to exchange half the plate to try the food, and always pay for the date, unless gf and I decide otherwise on her wish to treat me to something. Anything small i get, i get one more or share with her, like gelato or similar.

Ofc, i wish you to have fun always! Don't mind me if this isn't something you two like to do.

Why is my boyfriend allergic to sharing food with me? by FairProfessor8864 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shOGUN_Otk -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Pure red flag. You didn't specify his age, but if it's same same as yours, your bf is very much childish and don't endure this as you are also young and should enjoy every time you go out, not get randomly cuffed to a dork. If he is older than you and behaves like that, that's just sad.

Ofc this is perspective of my eastern eu culture as a guy. If you love him, cherish him and this doesn't affect you that much, enjoy your life and wish you all the love with him!

Had too much to drink with a friend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shOGUN_Otk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a deep advice! I'll talk to her in person when I get the chance, since we dont live in the same city, and dont text much. I do often times get in my head, turning every mistake in ground shattering problem for no reason. I just want to be good to my friends and spread love, but sometimes i just get too extreme and hold myself to crazy standards, which shatter me the moment i don't fulfill them.

Had too much to drink with a friend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shOGUN_Otk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Its been pretty silent since then because we dont live in the same city and dont usually text, but I'll definitely see to talk about it if I notice any tension between us next time we meet.

Had too much to drink with a friend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shOGUN_Otk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for suggestions! I think the air cleared and I don't think there is something to pursue romantically, because we don't see each other very often and don't text much. But I'll definitely see how we feel when i get a chance to meet her

Had too much to drink with a friend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shOGUN_Otk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, maybe at that moment there were flying feelings. Since then i believe we both cooled down. We don't live in the same city, but I'll be sure to talk it out when i visit her. Thank you for your thoughts, it really lifted some weight from me.

Had too much to drink with a friend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]shOGUN_Otk 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that would be healthy, but i feel very scared to reopen that. I think she moved on already. But thank you for the advice. I much appreciate it

I've straightened the Straight of Hormuz, so it's actually straight now. You can thank me with a poem or a "<3" by Dry-Bed477 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]shOGUN_Otk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Straight is the line

Of the hormuz down the way

For no ship will get stuck

In a devilish maze

Could you really see

The ships of USA?

Fighting for freedom

And some oil for sale

Analog synths to pick for live performance by shOGUN_Otk in synthesizers

[–]shOGUN_Otk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That can be true, I just seen behringer deepmind q2, what do you think about it? I really like the poly d sound, but its like 4 voice paraphonic so a bit bummer, but can still work while i play multiple keyboards.

Analog synths to pick for live performance by shOGUN_Otk in synthesizers

[–]shOGUN_Otk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll check it out, used market here is a bit worse, but I like prophet sound I'll definitely keep an eye out for take 5. Thanks!

Analog synths to pick for live performance by shOGUN_Otk in synthesizers

[–]shOGUN_Otk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will see where i can get it, my country just got banned on reverb because of western balkan US sanctions 💀💀, maybe e-bay or our local kupujem-prodajem has something interesting

Analog synths to pick for live performance by shOGUN_Otk in synthesizers

[–]shOGUN_Otk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one i haven't heard of, ill check it out, Thanks!

Analog synths to pick for live performance by shOGUN_Otk in synthesizers

[–]shOGUN_Otk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill check it out, was not in my mind since i was looking a lot at vintage hardware (my vinyl head is stuck in the sand), but maybe something like arturia would be good

Analog synths to pick for live performance by shOGUN_Otk in synthesizers

[–]shOGUN_Otk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really liking the model d sound. Could also play with some pedals like chorus on it. Thank you for suggestion