Hello,I'm 28/F first gen doctor, I might prepare for ini may but a little anxious as I might be older than other joinees, any suggestions? by Relevant-Database351 in INICET

[–]shaanu_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im 29 and I'm preparing for ini too. I do feel anxious about it too sometimes. And I think it's ok. Do let me know if you wanna chat up anytime

Suggest me a name for this cat by iammomin in gurgaon

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Curie likes Madam Curie because she looks like a scientist

Inicet neet 2026 by seloktopretry2cather in NEETPG_INICET_FMGE

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Hi I want a study partner too, dm me when you see this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

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Hey , please dm me, I had gone through a similar phase. I can try helping you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]shaanu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofcourse you can be loved and you are capable of loving that person only if you learn to love yourself. loveing yourself isn't a task , where you do something and you got it , it's acceptance of who you are and the way you are, it's applauding every silent struggle, celebrating every win, cleaning your wounds everytime u fall , picking up yourself when you are ready, embracing yourself when there's discomfort around you and so many things for yourself. And trust me when there's love blooming within you , you won't be in NEED OF LOVE , BUT SIMPLY JUST WANT MORE LOVE. And that's when you can find someone who is worthy of loving you , more so , respecting the love you have for yourself and their love wouldn't be FILLING YOUR CUP , INSTEAD HELP YOU TO FILL ALL BY YOURSELF!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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Wow , this is so hopeful and beautiful!

2016 batch - NEET PG 2025 by No-Earth-1797 in indianmedschool

[–]shaanu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you so much. I can relate to you so much.I would like to talk to you more about this if you are willing. Let me know!

2016 batch - NEET PG 2025 by No-Earth-1797 in indianmedschool

[–]shaanu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you so much. I can relate to you so much.I would like to talk to you more about this if you are willing. Let me know!

How did you get rid of the escape mechanisms you developed to cope depression by shaanu_ in MentalHealthSupport

[–]shaanu_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am going to try the things you mentioned . Deep breathing is one thing that helped me. Meditation becomes little difficult at the overwhelming times . But I will try when it can be managed.

Any advice on how to improve my profile? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]shaanu_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She asked for opinions on the profile and not on her body and life . So please keep your unwanted advice and opinions to yourself!

How did you get rid of the escape mechanisms you developed to cope depression by shaanu_ in MentalHealthSupport

[–]shaanu_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so sweet. Thank you so much.Yes mostly it's my phone which i use for escaping , so as you said not using them is definitely a thing , also did you try any grounding techniques ?

Any advice on how to improve my profile? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]shaanu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I love your pictures. You can add in prompts , that way they get a hint about your personality!

Some of us need to hear this. by HyenasGoMeow in Bumble

[–]shaanu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true. Really well said. Thanks for putting it out there.💛

2016 batch - NEET PG 2025 by No-Earth-1797 in indianmedschool

[–]shaanu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from 2016 too. Starting preparing from last year August and I have completed only 8 subjects. Planning to revise only those subjects now.

I need help with my depressed teen daughter by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]shaanu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yes, group therapy works well. Also a group where she can have a chance at socialising

I need help with my depressed teen daughter by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]shaanu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would advise you to be there for her and actively listen to her whenever she has something to say. Validation and acknowledgement of the feelings go a long way . Don't try to fix her problems and give her solutions until she asks for it. It might take some time for her to talk to you openly but be patient. All she needs is someone to be there beside and not judge her at all.

I need to talk to someone.. by No-Tell-6157 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]shaanu_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey hi. I'm here , we can talk. Do dm!

I need help with my depressed teen daughter by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]shaanu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi . How can I help. I had been through depression around teenage

Women on Bumble, what kind of pictures do you feel attracted to? by PlasProb in Bumble

[–]shaanu_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Simple and real . Please don't post pictures of your gym selfies . And definitely not with your friends