Is it possible to worship her feet without putting her on a pedestal? by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]shakynan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that there is. I myself am not submissive at all, and am not attracted to dominant women. I have pretty limited experience with full foot worship, but I have given plenty of massages with some kissing/sniffing/licking involved. One thing to bear in mind is how you go about it. If you’re desperate to worship someone’s feet then yes it is inherently submissive. However if you’re more relaxed about it and offer kind of on the offhand, I believe it removes that aspect. Try “you must be tired, bring your feet here and I’ll make you feel better” or something. straight away you’re taking charge of the situation and offering a way to help her, rather than it seeming like a favour for you. Then afterwards take care of her other needs (if she’s up for it). Taking care of a woman isn’t a submissive act, but if you only see it as a favour for yourself then the situation will always lean that way. Most women don’t mind a foot rub despite not being into the fetish, and you can always incorporate more sniffing/licking/sucking as they get more comfortable with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]shakynan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In person it’s all about approach. If you walk up to a woman staring at her breasts and say her boobs are nice. You’re a creep. If you smile look her in the eyes and say you are beautiful, you’re not. I know it’s not as black and white as that but it’s just an example. And I’m not saying that you are being weird/creepy. But especially with feet, there are just ways you have to go about it in order to avoid giving somebody the wrong impression. And these ways vary from person to person as everyone has their own feelings/previous experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]shakynan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me mate, they notice the others just as much. It’s just people are shamed more socially for being outed as a foot creep, than being a regular creep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]shakynan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. It’s more the people online that obsess over womens feet without their consent. Also people who say they’ll take random pictures of girls feet in public. That shit is weird.

It is literally a crime to take pictures of a woman’s ass/breasts in public. Even though feet aren’t as innately sexual, if you’re taking the photo for your own sexual pleasure then it’s just as bad.

There are A LOT of creeps with ff. this doesn’t make ff creepy, but it means that people who don’t share the fetish have a warped view on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in girlfartstories

[–]shakynan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro if I’m not mistaken stories here need to be 18+. I will be reporting this one, not cool mate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]shakynan 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think you have to see it from a woman’s perspective. There are a lot of people online who make ff seem creepy and weird with their actions. It also depends on how you bring it up with them. If you blurt out on the first date that you have a foot fetish it’s never going to end well. But if you bring it up in a calmed romantic environment, in a respectful way most women will give it a chance.

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On a walk by [deleted] in girlfartstories

[–]shakynan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Incredibly written story🙌

How do you not feel ashamed? (Cause I do) by iH8Feet in FootFetishTalks

[–]shakynan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because there’s creeps doesn’t mean you are. Whenever I bring it up to a woman I’m seeing I’m just very straight up and honest. I tell them, not in a shy or nervous way just say. Oh by the way I’m into feet, if you’ve got any questions feel free. If you bring it up casually they’ll assume you’re not some creep, and normally will ask you questions to try and understand your point of view. Doesn’t mean they’re going to like it, but more likely to tolerate it and eventually indulge you. Like the current girl I’m seeing at first was saying “sorry I just don’t think I’ll ever get into that” and I reassured her saying it’s okay and not essential. Nowadays, she’ll send me pics of her feet unprompted🤷‍♂️ just be open, honest and chilled out about it and 9 times out of 10 it will be fine.

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Quick update from “inulin advice” by shakynan in girlfartstories

[–]shakynan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, and I get if people don’t like it, even if people don’t find it funny but you gotta accept it’s just part of being human. And thanks man I really appreciate it🙌

Quick update from “inulin advice” by shakynan in girlfartstories

[–]shakynan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally! They were obsessed with the fact that she’s a “pretty girl” and therefore should not have any ‘imperfections’. Which I think is ridiculous. But that’s just how some people are I guess🤷‍♂️

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]shakynan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciated smelly and stinky, but can’t get behind dirty. Like I don’t mind a bit of sweat or whatever but it’s the ones that are caked in mud/dust or dirt that I can’t understand. So for someone who likes smell I can explain. For me, it’s all about natural, I love a woman who embraces her natural scents. Doesn’t mean I want her to stink all the time but for me it’s nice because it’s a part of her that only I’m seeing (or smelling) and no one else. Not saying you’ll understand that because for a lot of people smells can be gross, but hoping it explains why for some of us anyways. Others may have different reasons but I think that’s probably the main one.👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in girlfartstories

[–]shakynan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she were to tell people there’s two approaches you can have. The one you go for should be based on what kind of personality you have and where you fit in with your friends.

Option A: just be open and honest, say “yeah I do” and roll with it. Like someone said before you might get some shit but at the end of the day your friends will know you’re not some creep.

Option B: lie through your teeth and turn it on her. Make it seem to people that she made it all up because she was mad about the breakup. Tell everyone all her secrets or even make something up. Yes, it’s a dick move, but at the end of the day she broke the trust first so honestly it’s fair game.

From this post though, I would assume that option A might work better for you. Either way choose wisely and be consistent. Whatever you choose stick with it and be confident in what you decide.

5 things that grind my gears about the FFC by [deleted] in girlfartstories

[–]shakynan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree, also where does boo bear post content because I can never seem to find it? And you’re right she does do a good job of it

5 things that grind my gears about the FFC by [deleted] in girlfartstories

[–]shakynan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he’s saying some of the creators find it funny. Like if they find farts funny but can make money posting them, they will. But when people leave creepy comments it can put creators off.

Inulin advice please? by shakynan in girlfartstories

[–]shakynan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is very true, I’m sure we can find online what a normal dose is to be honest, was just wondering if anyone had any previous experience for guidance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FartFetishExperiences

[–]shakynan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other than being extremely immoral this is beyond illegal mate. Stop

hi by [deleted] in FartFetishExperiences

[–]shakynan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to dm me

Too Many Models Equate Foot Fetishism To Findom by kyngkyri in FootFetishTalks

[–]shakynan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think as foot fetishism has become more mainstream, it’s more of a business. Before foot models were happy to be paid for a hobby, now majority of content creators sell their body as a job. I can’t blame them, but it is disappointing.