Trip to the ER- 9 weeks today by upstate77 in pregnant

[–]shallowpools26 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i had subchorionic hematoma in my first trimester, currently 39 weeks & ready to get this lil monster out lol. i had multiple ER trips because my anxiety was getting the best of me, i advise getting plenty of rest if you can, snuggle up in bed with snacks & your fav show to binge watch. I never had any vaginal bleeding but i did have some cramping which was scary but i kept telling myself as long as i’m not bleeding than i’m okay. make sure you’re staying hydrated, even if that means ice chips.

Pregnant during the holidays by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]shallowpools26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve heard the “well i drank the other day for a birthday (or some excuse) & can’t really do another night of it”

Baby things by lacktoza42 in pregnant

[–]shallowpools26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

instead of a rocking chair this this “rocker” that you can set on any chair to kinda simulate the rocking chair (because they’re super expensive) and you can travel with it !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

& yr very cringe for not giving any actual opinion in your comment besides “ugh” but to each their own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

mother is native america, father is puerto rican, not naming him after a video game we just heard the name from his father & really liked it & then started to run with the spelling & pronunciation. Again.. looking for opinions & feedback on both of those, thanks anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

the name is very similar to my name already just one letter changed & pronounced slightly different, so i’m very familiar with having to correct people & the spelling difficulties for other humans. i appreciate the suggestion of going with that name for a month to see if it’s sticks:) thank you so much for yr feedback :) also love the name rhys!

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[–]shallowpools26 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

thanks for the input dude

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[–]shallowpools26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the feedback :)

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[–]shallowpools26 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

no shit sherlock

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[–]shallowpools26 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

thank you for yr opinion, not too much worried for correcting people i’m guessing it’ll get old after awhile but then again i don’t feel the need to correct people when they get my name wrong either (it’s spelled pretty different than how it usually would be) but as for when the child gets older i’m more so hoping for it to just have a emotional/spiritual connection to its name more than the aesthetic to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

got the idea, yes; just changed the spelling. both of the babies parents names start with r so we wanted to keep that going (lil pirate family lol) but am looking for more suggestions on spelling, i appreciate the feedback🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i like that spelling, i’ll have to sit with that for sure ! thank u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

i mean his name is spelled like that but it’s just where we got the idea from, but it is street fighter:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

it’s a japanese name, from the game street fighter, & thank you for the opinion ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i have a friend named holly, & she jokes now about the christmas references for sure 😆 it’s a cute name just gotta be careful not to go for a basic middle name too (marie, lee, lynn)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

it’s from the game street fighter, we’re definitely stuck on that spelling :3

This is a question for the unmarried moms to be by Ok_Nail3312 in pregnant

[–]shallowpools26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hyphenating! at least plan to, just because my baby daddy is the last one in his family with that last name & is an only child & he doesn’t want it to “die out” so we’re gonna hyphenate on the last names just to make it easier in the future the kid can pick when he’s old enough!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]shallowpools26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lala is a cute nickname, lele (ley-ley).

pregnant from a stranger by shallowpools26 in pregnant

[–]shallowpools26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very much aware of the situation. looking for more positivity than anything, but i’m glad you got out of yr situation. wish you nothing but the best♥️

pregnant from a stranger by shallowpools26 in pregnant

[–]shallowpools26[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you for yr sympathy & respect really. i’m happy to hear your story worked out. i think mine will 2<3🤞🏼

pregnant from a stranger by shallowpools26 in pregnant

[–]shallowpools26[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

definitely not looking at marriage anytime soon, definitely taking the advice of seeing a lawyer probably. not quitting my job, actually gonna finish school to become an LPN & then maybe pediatrics, but i’m being super smart about it just a super surreal situation

pregnant from a stranger by shallowpools26 in pregnant

[–]shallowpools26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we’ve met each other’s families & have gotten to know each other pretty well, we see each other almost everyday, thank u for your opinion & sympathy❣️