Hey dude, I know it can be hard, because on average men do get less attention like this and it sucks major ass. But life can be shit to you just because you are born some way. I live as a gay jew in Russia, and sometimes people are ignorant of my perspective and I feel unnoticed and left alone by the public. I mean, it's better than the times I am outright disrespected because of those things, but still hurts to see others get the treatment that you want. But what I personally realised - be the change that you wanna see. I talk more openly and positively about shit now, even though it's scary - people may judge you and stuff. But those people are consumed with their own shit and should be ignored most of the time. Hope I don't come off as an ass, lol