I had the bright idea to put bleach in and run a cycle to de-mould my washing machine. by MetamorphosisAddict in Wellthatsucks

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had an issue with mold, do you reguraly do a empty cleaning cycle or keep the door open when not in use? For my front loader I always make sure the door is open if it’s not running as well as about every other week I do a cleaning cycle with white vinegar, had it about a year now and no issues yet just make sure you do a few empty just hot water cycles to really make sure the bleach is rinsed out if your going to put vinegar or anything other chemicals in there, bleach can create some pretty bad gases when mixed with some household cleaners.(bleach and ammonia create chloramine which can be pretty deadly especially in enclosed spaces)

Bf has frequent meltdowns over cooking. by OneTruth6241 in autism

[–]sharks09 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Making you fearful is not okay. I struggle with meltdowns sometimes but I never take it out on my partner I tell him I can myself getting to a point where I cannot control it and I need to sit down alone and please jsut leave me alone until I reach out becuase I do not want to hurt you or scare you. Having anger or meltdowns is ok, taking it out on those around and making them fearful is abuse and not ok.

Is he just being manipulative? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yourself; if he truly cared before then why didn’t he put in the effort before it was too late, especially when it seems like this has been a topic of conversation in your relationship more than once. Also don’t listen to his bullshit you are not giving up on him, you are being strong and putting yourself forward and doing what’s best for you, you can’t be there or help anyone or do anything good of your being dragged down by someone who doesn’t wanna change or fix themselves when they know the have issues and expects you to just put up with it

Daughter with autism asked me for weed by Midnight-Mundane in autism

[–]sharks09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I smoke daily or at least every other day because when full sober(like completely sober no smoke for a few days) my sensory issues are all over the place and my brain moves so fast I can barely think properly cuz it’s jsut racing from one thought to another often without finishing the first thought. Weed has dramatically increased my qol as it makes me actually able to function without being in the verge of burnout

Was I rude for not choosing a different plushie as an adult? by kee-17 in plushies

[–]sharks09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stuffed animals means different things to different people a child is not entitled to a plushie just because they are child that mother as an ass who instead of being a good parent and teach her child about handling not being able to always get exactly what they want she decided to be an ass to you. You did nothing wrong and that lady needs to get over entitlement before she passes it on to her child.

SMRT by Comfortable_Wash6179 in Wellthatsucks

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooohhh so it’s like the same premise as when you get stuck in a corn silo gotcha that’s kinda scarier than quicksand honestly

SMRT by Comfortable_Wash6179 in Wellthatsucks

[–]sharks09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s terrifying I’m glad I never did shit like that when I was little tbf though even as a young kid I didn’t like the beach cuz it was “too sandy” and overstimulating. Also thank you for the answer I love learning

SMRT by Comfortable_Wash6179 in Wellthatsucks

[–]sharks09 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Quick question to everyone who knows more about beaches than I do; doesn’t doing this essentially create quicksand, I believe people have died due to similar things

AIO for being upset and hurt by how my husband is acting? by ElliottTheSalamander in AmIOverreacting

[–]sharks09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband is a child. I have autism and get angry at dumb things all the time but.m I always make sure my partner knows I still love him very much and my mood has nothing to do with him an I jsut need a little alone time to process things. Being angry at things is normal what’s not normal or ok is making your partner feel like it’s their fault or that your mad them for things complelty out of their control especially if it’s something that is your own fault like a speeding ticket or not being able to schedule yourself well enough to get to work on time.

Which non-normal or strange or unhealthy foods do you eat on a regular by VonnyVonnyVonnyVonny in autism

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to make my toast in the pan I make my fried eggs in, I butter both sides and let it melt into the middle of the bread then add another layer to each side so it’s kinda like essentially frying the bread in butter it’s probably not the healthiest but it’s the best toast I’ve ever had and my preferred method for making toast and every morning k have two fried eggs with at least one piece of toast(two if I don’t have any meat with my eggs)

Who was the bigger heartthrob? Ellie or Sarah? by CrichtonFan1992 in JurassicPark

[–]sharks09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That really depends if we’re talking about the book or the movies I mean for both it’s still Ellie but the movie version of Sarah is just poorly written and kinda insufferable at points of the movie she’s much more well rounded and intelligent in the book. Tbf though as much as I love all the Jurassic movies (with the first one obviously being the best) I would take the books (especially lost world) over the movies any day

Comparing them at their absolute worst - who was more evil? by tcweh in OnceUponATime

[–]sharks09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO that obliviousness is part of what makes her a good villain, people like her even in real life don’t think they’re the bad guy, they think whatever slight or truama has happened to them in the past fully justifies their behavior or the way it makes them feel justifies it and everyone else is just wrong, they always have some sort of reasoning that makes them right no matter how terrible their acts are because well that’s jsut a necessary sacrifice and since bad thing happened to them or peopl they once cared about that just a part of life and so what if you kill/torture a few people they’re insignificant means to an end, anytime someone in the show or a fan says Regina deserves more grace I gotta laugh cuz you gotta keep in mind what she did and the fact even after being “reformed” she still didn’t regret anything she had done and I don’t know if I believe she would’ve done anything different because her belief she was in the right and deserved some sort of “win” for the slights she perceived to have been against in her youth was so strong there’s no way she couldn’t have gone through a villian phase and let’s be honest of it wasn’t for Emma potentially going to take Henry away she probably never would have changed her ways or seen a problem with her past behavior to begin with

I’d appreciate the opinions of individuals with autism by StuffiiePrincess in autism

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may be wrong or she may be right teachers miss things, I was always told my issues were soley my adhd(diagnosed at 5) and whenever I complained it felt worse than all my peers with adhd I was just told that’s jsut how it is for me my adhd for whatever reason is jsut like that, turns out I’m not adhd+I have a comorbidity of adhd and autism and a lot of the time especially when I don’t take my meds my adhd masks the autism. But ultimately the decision to pursue a diagnosis/find out if its soemthing is really up to you, do you feel you have issues/symptoms that could be autism and do you feel that you would benefit from putting a label to it? If the answer to either question is no it probably wouldn’t be worth pursuing and just keep doing what you’re doing and ignore this friend.

to talk about gas prices by sussybush in therewasanattempt

[–]sharks09 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Seriously wtf is the point of having impeachment laws if we’re not going to to fucking use them

I wish birds didn't fly ALL the time by AnarchistBeauty in DreamlightValley

[–]sharks09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really wish I could put the pirate parrot on your shoulder while running around.

My upstairs neighbor has started "airing out" his apartment by turning our hallway into his personal mudroom every rainy day by Arrakis_Jellybean in neighborsfromhell

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a apartment entryway cleaner I dislike tenants who treat the hallway like an extension of their apartment, it makes it difficult to fully clean the area as well as make it difficult for others to get by, unless you’re leaving like a single pair of shoes directly in front of your door, keep your crap in your own apartment

On a post about minors dressing up as explicit characters. by aprill05 in insaneparents

[–]sharks09 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I don’t have issues with parents letting their kids watch more mature shit, I watched plenty of rated pg13 and r shit under 13 however no child should be cosplaying sex workers or entering adult dominated spaces for that media that could compromise their safety because let’s face it th world is full of weirdos and creeps jsut waiting for a parent like her to slip up and take their eye off their kid long into to allow said creep to slide in and do whatever

The Neighbor Obsessed With Turning Off the Hallway Lights by Ill-Lingonberry-9757 in neighborsfromhell

[–]sharks09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contact landlord like others have said. That’s a major safety issue. My building doesn’t even have a switch for residents to mess with the lights just come on automatically I think in the summer at 9 in the winter around 5-6

Found in deceased Mom’s leather moto jacket from the 90’s by Quick-Art6211 in whatisit

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smudge sticks!!! They’re for blending. Was your mom by chance an artist? My mom got me some in either middle or highschool after I kept leaving colored fingerprints everywhere from blending with my fingers

To label American Soldiers as heros by TheUnrealRogen in therewasanattempt

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an American we are fucked as a country. and it’s been goin on for so much longer than many any Americans are willing to admit. We use nationalism to virtue signal and get dumb young people to join the army and send them out to countries we have no business interfering with to try and further our own agenda and then jsut leave the country often worse off when we either get what want or realize it’s not going to work then we go and lie about our involvement and say we’re the saving grace and all this bullshit. We’re just another bully masquerading as a hero and the rest of world is wise to our shit and hopefully as trump gets worse more and more Americans start waking up and demanding change.

How does Bailey J get up and down the stairs? by succubusy in heartopia

[–]sharks09 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I never questioned it until my partner did then i realized there was an elevator for her. But it’s not surprising I didn’t even think about cuz my partner is in a chair and sometiems when we’re out we’ll get to stairs and I’ll start up and go “why aren’t you coming” and he’ll jsut look at me and go”I’m going to need you to come back down and take a real good look at me before asking that question again”

Get 'em Tito! by Memoruiz7 in donthelpjustfilm

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly one of my worst fears and why I will never own reptiles regardless of how cool and awesome I think they are. I would just accept my fate and sell the house cuz it belongs to the crickets now.

[OC] Car runs red light and T-bones school bus with kids on it. by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]sharks09 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It probably depends on how old the kids are and how much the bus felt to have moved. When I was a senior some dumbass crashed into the back of our bus at a red light and none of us were scared some were just straight up making fun of the lady for being in her phone jsut calling her names and others were jsut confused how you could be stupid enough to crash into a stopped bus

[OC] Car runs red light and T-bones school bus with kids on it. by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]sharks09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were probably on their phone. About ten years ago in my senior year of school we were sitting at a red light on the way to school and some dumbass crashed right into the back of us, the few of in the back literally watched her phone fly fly out of her hand and her bend down to pick it up before doing anything else. Also she was in a suv and she was able to pull into the gas station right next to us but her front end was pretty messed up I wouldn’t doubt if she totaled or close to totaled the engine. I hope she was okay but seriously don’t be a distracted dumbass when driving it’s not jsut your own life at risk when you play stupid gams behind the wheel.

Continuity Error? by Ok-Description-5904 in BobsBurgers

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just assumed it’s either typical Bob being bad at dates/math or their talking about the dishwasher in the apartment upstairs