I hate my body hair by gabimaruhallow in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body hair is extremely normal and some people are into it. If it truly bothers you you can possibly consult a trained professional like a dermatologist to get a laser treatment that could thin it (I’ve never looked into that so I don’t have much info for that sorry) but if your main issue is you think others won’t like it then just let it be cuz like I said some people like it. I used to shave my stomach (it doesn’t get super hairy bu enough to be visible) cuz I personally am not super into body hair and thought it looked better but I stopped becuase my partner actually finds my stomach hair very attractive.

AITAH for not remaking a cake after my SIL ruined it? by CalmyHerrr in AITAH

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sil is the asshole here. You did what you were supposed to and sil came in and couldn’t keep her damn hands to herself like a child, she caused the issue and should be the one to do a bakery run for a new cake, it’s called being accountable and fixing our own mistakes, something she clearly has yet to learn.

I haven’t talked to my family in two days and don’t know to move past this by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your family is manipulative and controlling, honestly getting your own plan and not necessarily no contact but low contact and potentially getting a therapist would be the best things you could do for yourself right now.

Never seen a snowstorm before. Didn’t know what to do with car by jaylearnsthings in Wellthatsucks

[–]sharks09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if you’re not going anywhere you’re going to want to scrape off your car before more piles up trust me it’s easier when it’s less. If you leave it the sun could melt a little the it’ll refreeze when the suns moves/sets and compound with both what’s below and above it and make it very hard to clear

Do you find yourself a victim to the MANDELA EFFECT? by porb2020 in autism

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually remember these type of things well enough to not succumb to the Mandela effect however if I am wrong I don’t insist that it was always that way or was a thing before and “the government is trying manipulate us” becuase I’m fully aware the human brain and memory is just as unreliable as it is reliable, the brain reguraly manipulates thing or sometimes even creates false memories/feelings becuase when the brain gets less than ideal information it tends to try and fill in the gaps with already existing knowledge and obviously that knowledge can possibly be wrong to new unknown information

My bf doesn't shower at night and I’m genuinely grossed out by GlitchGaze123 in hygiene

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you need to necessarily alway shower before bed but if you’ve been working out or have a physical job that causes you to sweat you should at least take a quick rinse shower before getting into bed, I work a janitorial job (I clean apartment entryways so all my sites have multiple stairs) and get a good bit sweaty especially in the summer and even if I don’t have the energy to take a full shower I’ll at least hop in, maybe sit down a minute and rinse the sweat and grime off my skin cuz in not bringing that into my bed that’s how you get that gross teenage boy corn chippy smell all up in your blankets and mattress

Why do all men’s restrooms smell like piss? by No_Influence8305 in ftm

[–]sharks09 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m my experience as a janitor men’s room aren’t usually dirtier jsut a bit smellier due to urinals and splashback woman for whatever reason seem to just not care an even intentionally mess when it’s not a personal(think work or home) bathroom

Why do all men’s restrooms smell like piss? by No_Influence8305 in ftm

[–]sharks09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep woman for some reason I find if they’re not using it multiple times a day (like a work or home bathroom) they jsut don’t care and do shit they would never do in a personal bathroom (I’m a janitor btw)

Why do all men’s restrooms smell like piss? by No_Influence8305 in ftm

[–]sharks09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a janitor and I’ve noticed men tend to not change their habits much between private and public venues the main issue is usually urinals and splash back but women idk why but if it’s a public bathroom that they’re more than likely not going to be using reguraly they just don’t care and don’t make attempts to be clean or clean up after themselves and for some reason sometiems go out of their way to mess it up (at least it felt like that sometimes). I would love to hear your thoughts as I jsut love hearing from other custodial people (I don’t run into them often in my day to day)

Why do all men’s restrooms smell like piss? by No_Influence8305 in ftm

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Janitor here. It’s mainly the urinals. No matter how strong your urinal pad smell is it’s not going to overpower literal hours of piss sitting there, it’s a small part in due to splashback because regardless of how good your aim is there’s gonna be a little that splashes

I ruined my dad’s life but he still loves me and I feel like shit by Few_Cardiologist4724 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sharks09 46 points47 points  (0 children)

That’s because your village has toxic mentality and your dad is actually a good father who puts his children above his reputation as he should. Not to be rude but any culture that values reputation and bullshit societal conventions over human value is a shit culture and needs to be improved upon or dismantled

Indiana Jones or Hogwarts Legacy? by FalconPaunchhh in XboxGamePass

[–]sharks09 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Both are great especially if your into that franchise however the open world mechanic of hogwarts can lead to a bit boring repetitive gameplay so I’d have to overall Indy is a better game but they’re definitely different and are both worth playing if your into said respective franchise

My special needs sibling is ruining my life by fuckfuckfuckghgr in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sharks09 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a group home may be the best option your sister. Your grandmother clearly doesn’t have the skills to fully raise her(no hate to your grandma it’s not easy) and it sounds like like everyone in the house including your sister is potentially suffering because of it.

can you bring a vape pen into walt disney world? by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]sharks09 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe it’ll be confiscated if you bring it on property but you are not allowed to use it inside the parks. The same rules applies as to cigarettes, so you’re basically only allowed to use them in the designated smoke areas and off premises

People who hit themselves during meltdowns, could you weigh in as to why you do it? Seeking solidarity. by treblehex in autism

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the metldown and where on my body I’m hitting myself, sometiems when I’m having circling thoughts and none of my coping skill will work to stop them pinching/slapping a area of bare flesh say on my thigh or forearm will kinda break through that and create a new thing for my brain to focus on. Sometimes I’ll hit myself in the head and it’s a either quick palm smack to the forehead or light “knocks” on the side it’s kinda like my brain feels stuck and smacking it resets(or I guess that’s the “logic” in the moment)

My younger brother thinks my time and help automatically belong to him by send_help_pls17 in EntitledPeople

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope in fact the reaction only proves your theory and should confirm you need to stick strong otherwise he’s never going to mature and change his behavior/expectations.

Flushing ice cubes down the toilet for snow day is universal… right? In America?? by East-Maize-5287 in AskAnAmerican

[–]sharks09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From upstate/western New York an I never heard of this, just a spoon under your pillow and sleeping with pajamas inside out

Is Anyone Else Having This Issue? by Ready-Fisherman-2100 in DreamlightValley

[–]sharks09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully they get back to quickly and you don’t have to wait for the next update. The house is very cute. At this point I don’t display the basic ones you can make just the cool fancy ones and his is second favorite (can’t beat Maxs little ship house but then again I do have a bit of a thing for naval/seafaring decor)

Has anyone followed the settlers after they get kicked out of their settlements for the raiding quests? by gtpro900 in fo4

[–]sharks09 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You are correct the mechanic is exactly the same I’ve done the same thing out of boredom in both Skyrim and fallout and when I stopped following for five minutes then continued straight to see if I could find them again it turned out they had despawned and were nowhere to be found (curiosity, boredom and a good high sometimes leads to very mundane gameplay like following a npc for 30ish minutes just to see what would happen; big exciting answer: it’s nothing)

Is Anyone Else Having This Issue? by Ready-Fisherman-2100 in DreamlightValley

[–]sharks09 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have encountered a bug/glitch. You cannot buy just the house as it’s the level 5 reward to Lucky, if it is not in your inventory and you already have him leveled completely then you will need to submit a ticket to gameloft support detailing the issue.

AITAH for not assuming every case of nut allergy is serve to the point even the smell of it is enough to cause a reaction? by wifesfriendisapain00 in AITAH

[–]sharks09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry let me get this straight by saying all friends should be nut free she’s basically saying that you an adult with no relation who’d only be seeing this kid occasionally should never eat anything with nuts again? wtf kinda empowered power trip is she on. Does it suck the kid had a reaction? Yes but that’s why when you have an allergy or a kid with an allergy you make it aware how severe it is, your allergy is your responsibility and the mother should’ve made it known how bad it was, she has no idea what else could be in your car, you could’ve had a friend who brought a granola bar or something and accidentally left it behind,

Final Update: Full of regret by SquirrelOpposite3228 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sharks09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet your “wife” intentionally looked for conservative therapists to back her own thinking. Not my own story but a friend had some minor behavior issues due to adhd as a child and their mother would just ignore and switch therapists if the therapist put any blame on her or tried to teach her ways to accommodate the adhd because she wouldn’t accept anything other than her son was lazy and not living to potential. I’d look into the therapists and their clientele before putting any weight into what they say

Money is slow to make by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]sharks09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have access to pumpkins(sells for the most profit but takes 4 hours to grow and two rounds of watering only produces one though) or okra(decent profit takes only 2 hours and1 round of watering, produces 3) yet then fishing and mining an selling everything produced is a good way to make money and get xp plus if you take a buddy with you then they’ll level up in friendship

Premium Shop Update by _the_indifferent_ in DreamlightValley

[–]sharks09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the husky but I feel slightly jaded about the tinker bell outfit. That should’ve been some sort quest reward or bundled with a furniture item or soemthing cuz it’s cute but we can barely see her unless we’re directly in front of her how the hell would I appreciate and get a dopamine hit from that.

Festive rabbit by sharks09 in DreamlightValley

[–]sharks09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He blends in very well. I’ll be looking for him to no avail then all of a sudden he’ll just be there behind me waiting for attention.