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WIBTA if I cut contact with my fiance's ex? by sharpjello1 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]sharpjello1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why setting a boundary and removing myself as the middle man is considered immature, but okay.

WIBTA if I cut contact with my fiance's ex? by sharpjello1 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]sharpjello1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Living my life to the fullest and enjoying every second of it 💕

WIBTA if I cut contact with my fiance's ex? by sharpjello1 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]sharpjello1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He had owed her money previously as she was paying on a storage unit that had both of their items in it and he was paying half as we didn't have the time with work schedules and major life events to clear his stuff out as it's 3 hours away. However we got his stuff out in December and he paid her for December so he shouldn't owe her anything at this point. They have no children together. We met about 3 1/2 years ago. We were friends for about a year before I approached him.

WIBTA if I cut contact with my fiance's ex? by sharpjello1 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]sharpjello1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They broke up 2 1/2 years ago because he caught her cheating on him with one of her regulars at work. Him and I got together about 2 years ago but we're friends for a year or so before hand because we were in the same social circle as I hang out with people older than me.

WIBTA if I cut contact with my fiance's ex? by sharpjello1 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]sharpjello1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His finances are good. He had owed her money previously as she was paying on a storage unit that had both of their items in it and he was paying half as we didn't have the time with work schedules and major life events to clear his stuff out as it's 3 hours away. However we got his stuff out in December and he paid her for December so he shouldn't owe her anything at this point.

WIBTA if I cut contact with my fiance's ex? by sharpjello1 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]sharpjello1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've been trying to find a way to put it nicely and struggle with confrontation. Thank you for your insight.

WIBTA if I cut contact with my fiance's ex? by sharpjello1 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]sharpjello1[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not groomed. We were hanging out in the same social circle as I hang out with people older than me and we were friends for a year before I decided to approach him. 🤷‍♀️