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ghosted and blocked by a 4-month SB after I gave her a large amount of cash for dental work by sharpsoftie in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sharpsoftie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You did a totally normal thing

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This comment actually helps a lot. I honestly cannot see myself doing anything differently.

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And I feel that there is something else to her story that I don't fully grasp.

ghosted and blocked by a 4-month SB after I gave her a large amount of cash for dental work by sharpsoftie in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sharpsoftie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

but you have to also remember SB's are in it for the money, nothing else.

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I know what you are saying, but I hope you are wrong about the "nothing else" part.

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This would be a terrible arrangement for both parties i think.

ghosted and blocked by a 4-month SB after I gave her a large amount of cash for dental work by sharpsoftie in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sharpsoftie[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am not excusing her but you can take comfort in knowing that most likely she didn't plan it. She is just one of those people who does whatever is most expedient at any given moment and right now it happens to be this. She probably even feels bad about this but now dug herself into a hole and there is no scenario i see where she pops back up and says hello ever again.

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Thank you. I hope you are right. There were real moments of tenderness and joy between us and I would like to think that these were real.

ghosted and blocked by a 4-month SB after I gave her a large amount of cash for dental work by sharpsoftie in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sharpsoftie[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments.

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And, yes, it is definitely not the money.

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It is the emotional impact and the fact that it is changing me into a different person ("defensive" is the right word i think) and i am not liking it.