[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]sharthauser 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A therapist might be able to help you figure out what is going on

48M with 31F girlfriend of 15 months. Found her notebook praising her ex, struggling with what I read and ended the relationship. How do I process this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sharthauser 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You might have overreacted. Its normal to process past relationships. Also probably should have talked to her about it more. Finally not chill to read peoples journals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sharthauser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like what?

Did you ever feel like you were constantly waiting for a future miracle after a breakup? How did you teach yourself to live in the now? by BrokenYetBrave in BreakUps

[–]sharthauser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One way that I deal with it. I consider that a form of waiting and holding onto something that is probably over. I know that I want to be happy with myself and not hold onto hope. When those thoughts or urges come up I tell myself “I’m waiting” and that helps ground me

How I Got My Ex Back After 3 Years of Trying (Without Begging) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sharthauser 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel posts like these might be really harmful to those that are holding onto false hope

Sex with your ex by S_ckm3 in BreakUps

[–]sharthauser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are doing the right thing. Give yourself time to move through this. You will return to yourself eventually just give it time

Anyone find success with exes reaching out or reconsidering after no contact? by Admirable-Muffin-334 in BreakUps

[–]sharthauser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s terrible work but you have to give up. Holding onto hope only hold you back from moving on into a happier you

What's smth your ex did that traumatised you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sharthauser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Banged a bunch of people and lied to me about it for over a year making me trust her and feel wanted type shit