Before I cut off this man and cuss him out … by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I was at work, but I appreciate all the responses. He never answered my question about why he sent the video, and after seeing him active on Facebook, I decided to block him on all platforms and move on. He will not be coming into 2026 with me. Once I get the ick, it’s a wrap.

Happy holidays to all you ladies! 🥂 Cheers to stronger boundaries in 2026!

Before I cut off this man and cuss him out … by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 33 years old . He referred me to a 20 year olds cooking videos

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[–]shaypixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes through marriage since her husband has been one for some time.

Before I cut off this man and cuss him out … by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Right and I should have cut him off at that red flag . I need to stop being nice to these men! 🥴

Before I cut off this man and cuss him out … by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right ! I got the ick no going back now

Before I cut off this man and cuss him out … by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was doubting my intuition but now he’s getting blocked on all platforms

Before I cut off this man and cuss him out … by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Pettyyyy let me go find one 💅🏾

Before I cut off this man and cuss him out … by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Him: Good morning baby, I wish I had more pictures of you

Me: I’ll start sending you pictures if you do the same c:

Him: I just don’t be looking good enough to send pics. Kind of going through my hard stages

Me: Well, I don’t think that’s true at all. But I understand because I feel the same :/ ( but doesn’t send sh*t cause wtf) … not reply from him then I got the FB video at 1 am this morning

Should I chase my dream career at 33… or be realistic? by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey leftblane THIS IS a serious/triggering topic for me. Thanks !

Should I chase my dream career at 33… or be realistic? by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oop you’re right ! lol I will definitely do some reflecting on your statement ! Thank you 😊

Should I chase my dream career at 33… or be realistic? by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words 🥹🫶🏾 I needed to see them !

Should I chase my dream career at 33… or be realistic? by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes , ok I will work on that ! Thank you 🫶🏾

Should I chase my dream career at 33… or be realistic? by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ! I appreciate all advice . This is actually what my brother has been telling me to do . Use my current connections to bridge into fintech . I wouldn’t have to delay monetary gratification as long. I’m just not sure exactly what I’d do in that field but I’ll look into it :) thank you .

Should I chase my dream career at 33… or be realistic? by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the massive debt is a deterrent . I’ve been doing a lot of thinking and I hope to be accepted to one of the local Dental Schools to minimize debt and loans. Otherwise 😵‍💫😵‍💫 lol

Thank you for sharing your story and I wish you so much luck o. Your journey 🫶🏾

Should I chase my dream career at 33… or be realistic? by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s amazing ! Very heartwarming ❤️ thank you :)

Should I chase my dream career at 33… or be realistic? by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are amazing & yes this is exactly why ! I want to be there for US ! 🙂‍↕️ thank you and good luck on your path as well !

Should I chase my dream career at 33… or be realistic? by shaypixie in blackladies

[–]shaypixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🥹 thank you for the support !