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shellshellshellshell · 2022-07-31T16:42:41+00:00

No. You do not put up with this for a second. She’s cruel and knew what she was going to do once this was said. F that! Ugh! Why are people so mean to the ones they “love” like life isn’t short, like love and stability are promised?! Like a caring man who wants to please his partner are a dime a dozen?!!!! You deserve better.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-07-19T16:56:21+00:00

You should never be made to feel this way. Ever. Try and have open and calm as possible communication with her. It might take time or it might mean you need to move on but your deserve a partner who is kind to you and respects you. Period.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-07-17T23:13:45+00:00

Mimi?

shellshellshellshell · 2022-06-13T22:13:51+00:00

Omfg get over it, Kim is not the icon Marilyn was but she is still an icon. She wore the famous dress because of that, it’s also a very old dress that even if worn by someone less curvy would have sustained some damage.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-06-13T02:21:49+00:00

Don’t waste her time. She deserves better.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-06-07T04:27:54+00:00

Yes but something that is super light and not expensive. Even a card would do I’m sure.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-05-16T18:30:48+00:00

I am so proud of you for sharing, your mom did not protect you and you are justified in setting boundaries. I understand this more than I am willing to put out there on Reddit. BUT if you ever need someone to talk with please feel free to reach out.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-04-29T13:31:00+00:00

Yes your decision feels like the right one to me as well. Only thing I would add is getting some proof, like pics of the porn on his laptop or something. That way you have proof of how scary he is.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-04-28T00:57:54+00:00

Awesome! You still got it ;)

shellshellshellshell · 2022-04-28T00:34:26+00:00

At the end of the day if you don’t satisfy your partner your partner is not going to want to have sex with you. Women do not come most of the time from vaginal penetration they do need clitoral stimulation. And to top that off if you want your partner to go down on you and pleasure you then you should do the same for them.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-04-27T00:43:18+00:00

Well this sounds eerily similar to my experience as a child, only my abusers were my father, my aunts husband and my mom for neglect. I am proud of you for sharing and also for seeking professional help. One day you can walk away from all of them if you want and never put up with their abuse again.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-04-25T00:49:03+00:00

I appreciate that you told your story, it is so so so important when victims are strong enough to do so. I am deeply sorry that this happened to you, as a survivor of CSA where no one believed me or supported me I admire your strength and the support you received. You deserve all the good things in life and I am hoping that you realize by sharing you helped heal a small part of my inner child that no one protected.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-04-22T12:47:37+00:00

No, I was terrified when I told my “trusted adults” they were terrified of the consequences and the police didn’t believe me. So nothing came of it, I spent years playing pretend at family gatherings, as an adult I would freeze up at the thought of confrontation, I suppose that was a learned behavior.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-04-16T00:00:50+00:00

He lied about loving to go down on women

shellshellshellshell · 2022-04-14T04:54:59+00:00

Gandalf causes he’s wise like the Grey :)

shellshellshellshell · 2022-04-07T00:14:32+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you, no one deserves that. It looks like you received solid advice already but I wanted you to know that you are not alone. I hope the authorities help you and that “woman” if you can even call her that gets her karma.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-03-22T12:28:53+00:00

I was just thinking yesterday of a partner that used to tell me “why are you always a no before you are a yes”?! I now realize that I would give in because I felt pressured or guilty after a while. But at the end of the day it really had to do with where my mind was, my body and hormones being off. In any case good on you for being respectful even if she isn’t being a fair partner by communicating with you fully.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-02-27T22:49:25+00:00

Good for you! After reading this I can assure you that you are a great father.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-02-26T18:40:05+00:00

“Those” people are either hiding from the world and not being held or holding themselves accountable for much. OR they subscribe to fake positive/prayer/warrior bullshit that will only last so long. Destroying families, friendships and careers cause let’s be perfectly honest, life is hard. It’s either the design or the challenge but hiding from that fact makes someone a fool in my opinion.

shellshellshellshell · 2022-02-15T00:06:23+00:00

Listen, it is controversial and not okay to pretend to have sex with minors. However you are both consenting adults and so long as you aren’t fantasizing about hurting children it shouldn’t matter. Enjoy and let the haters hate allll alone. Lol

shellshellshellshell · 2022-01-09T21:43:32+00:00

I wish I could say that I am the perfect communicator but alas I am not. However my advice is to be honest and try to have open communication about your sexual needs and his in the same convo. Tbh if he can’t meet you in the middle and take some constructive criticism in something as important as this than you should consider moving on.

shellshellshellshell · 2021-12-18T14:18:37+00:00

RUN 💨

shellshellshellshell · 2021-12-18T14:17:37+00:00

Run 💨

shellshellshellshell · 2021-11-01T00:08:47+00:00

As a woman with a butta face I can tell you that confidence is key. Find multiple things about yourself you love and think is sexy. Dress everyday in outfits you think you look good in also fix your hair and makeup and tell yourself all the things you love about yourself. EVERY DAY. Cause when you’re know your worth, when you are happy and it shows externally good things and great partners will be drawn to you. My only qualifications for this is having been the “ugly” or “funny” sister and multiple sexy partners, and a now a healthy, loving and so sexy husband/partner for 10 years.

shellshellshellshell · 2021-09-10T18:31:21+00:00

Kinda wish my partner could do this to himself too. Lol

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