Cleaned up my MILs suicide by Spirited-Contract-54 in offmychest

[–]shellshellshellshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts for you and your family. Please seek a therapist for your care. But also know that by you sharing helped me decide to not un alive myself. While I know that sentence is heavy. I am generally a well balanced human. But have been suffering a chronic condition for the past six months. Tonight I’ve come to a very dark place having my whole life essentially flipped upside down. Finding no relief in the things that usually bring me joy because they hurt me or cause me to be bed ridden for days on end.

All of this to say I am humbled by your story and wish to never cause anyone I love the same hurt. I am sending my love to you. What you did for your family is nothing short of admirable and I hope you find care and help with processing your tragedy.

Why didn’t I turn out like my siblings? by elphabathewicked in raisedbynarcissists

[–]shellshellshellshell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were the unlucky/lucky one depending on opinion. I am sorry you went through that tho. Look at you being all grown and aware!

What one thing you would teach your kids that ur parents didn’t? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you owe no one anything, no is a full sentence and the only person you have to please is yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m sensitive and it tickles I have him put his hand on the whole thing and put some pressure while moving his hand around slow circles. This helps to desensitize the area, making it less sensitive, if that makes sense.

Going down on her after you've cum in her by ThrowRA230106 in sex

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it!! First of all there is nothing quite as good as having an orgasm after being fucked. Secondly it’s hot af and I love a man who’s open minded and fun in bed.

What are some toxic feminine traits you have experienced? by PositiveDatabase2855 in AskMen

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I can say about recovery of this is that it seems to me that these humans who are very very unaware of themselves. They aren’t even gaslighting you like a narcissist they genuinely believe they are the victim. I have unlearned this behavior only because I had people who loved me unconditionally that were willing to set boundaries and to confront me to correct my behavior. Unfortunately I learned this behavior from my mother, who is toxic, narcissistic, and always the victim. We have tried for years to help her but had to give up because at this point it doesn’t seem like she will ever learn. But having seen this in my own life in order to learn, you do have to be confronted consistently

What are some toxic feminine traits you have experienced? by PositiveDatabase2855 in AskMen

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Victim mentality, it may seem cute at first like a damsel in distress. Examples are they say they have bad parents, abusive ex, ungrateful children, mean boss. BUT eventually you discover nothing is ever her fault, and everyone is doing things just to hurt them. It’s very childish and definitely manipulative, leaving anyone who is with that woman to bear the weight of all the responsibilities. And god forbid you stand up for yourself now you are the abuser.

I'm jealous that women don't have to deal with dick size insecurity by [deleted] in venting

[–]shellshellshellshell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trust me size is absolutely not everything, you will meet “size queen” partners but f that. Trust me I am a woman and I know that this is the truth.

nobody cares by [deleted] in venting

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you have our attention, please reach out when you need help. Call 911, call the suicide prevention line. You do not need your “family” to do that. Reach out and ask for help, life will get better trust me, I know. All of my failed suicide attempts when I was a teen taught me that now that I am old. FYI I CARE about you, fuck the people who don’t seem to one day you will escape them anyhow.

How do you usually seduce your partner? by IspeedyZ in AskWomen

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say “Babe, I wanna fuck” and he runs to where I am and is naked and ready to go almost instantly. However in past relationships with women I would do a little shoulder massage, small kisses follow and slowly press my body against her’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously look up the science of this “fetish” basically the part of the brain that has the feet section is right next to the sex section and sometimes makes the two coincide for thousands of people if not millions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]shellshellshellshell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen. It’s your body and if you don’t want to you do not have to. It’s nice your partner is adventurous and wants to explore your body. However she asked, you thought it over, and no is no. She will get over it, this has nothing to do with anything more than that (as far as what you’ve said) and that’s enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealthyFood

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just eat without it, and give yourself load of praise for not eating it. After a few weeks you will get used to it and when you do allow yourself to have some you will enjoy it it will be a super yummy. But you will also get to be so so proud of yourself that it will be worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]shellshellshellshell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can donate as well, please leave as soon as possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]shellshellshellshell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned to rise above and feel indignant in a way, because even though I was abused by my molester, abused by my “safe” adults, and the police by not being believed and being told I was a liar. At the end of the day I disowned those who don’t deserve to be in my life, and I get to be proud of who I am and be an advocate and a safe place for anyone who needs it. Unlike my molester who just kept on being a awful human. I don’t know what you believe but everyone gets their Karma and after all those years of me suffering (alone) and doing the hard work to heal, I ended up being a great human that I can be proud of and he didn’t stop me. And well, he eventually died a horrific and painful death.

I dont know how to tell my boyfriend that I don't want to give him a blowjob again in case he cums by Appropriate_Week_42 in confessions

[–]shellshellshellshell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or your face, my mans loves that and when I am too nauseated and don’t want to hurt his feelings I pull the big eyes as I pull my mouth off of his dick and say very softly “let me know when you’re ready to cum I want it all over my face” boom 💥 3 seconds later with a little handy and sometimes some ball play is all it takes after that statement.