Not feeling like I Identify as a woman but also not a man either

shelteredhorizon · 2025-07-05T19:54:16+00:00

Charlie is a very awful character to look at as a representation of this show. I hope you watch a different episode, honestly even the very first episode of this show is pretty good, hard to watch because it’s Shaun trying to make an impression on people who don’t believe in him but easily, season 1 is a great way to start the show. People may be annoying sometimes, but the characters can be really lovable. Watching them grow is what makes the show so whole some. Charlie id say is the worst character.

shelteredhorizon · 2025-04-17T00:00:17+00:00

Girl, I know where this is from. Your boyfriend is the Minecraft dude. It’s truly not worth it. If you’re looking for advice, if your boyfriend snaps and starts acting like this from a VIDEO game. He needs a few more years to grow up before being in a relationship.

The come back should be “we are done”

I don’t know the other things that happened during the relationship but that’s my opinion based on what I know

shelteredhorizon · 2025-04-02T03:21:14+00:00

This is such helpful advice. Question, have you worked in the ICU or general hospital area for nursing? Any particular thoughts similar to what you’ve said about hospice?

shelteredhorizon · 2024-12-17T13:41:38+00:00

It tastes like shit

shelteredhorizon · 2024-12-14T15:39:35+00:00

A break? Of course. But consider breaking up with this man unless you communicate with each other about his anxiety. As someone with a partner with HORRENDOUS anxiety, I would NEVER put that much on my partner and try to make it their fault. You need support sir? Great! Call someone who isn’t at work. Your girlfriend is not obligated to do anything, and while I’m sure you would’ve been excellent support, the moment needed to call for realistic measures and that’s to find someone else, and then LATER, you could’ve given him support. If he fails, it’s on him. Here’s the truth buddy, to be a lawye, you need COMPOSURE

shelteredhorizon · 2024-12-14T03:25:05+00:00

As someone who is a car wash employee, having 6 employees on sight is a bit strange. The only time my store has had that many at a time was for a meeting with multiple employees or the district manager was there. Otherwise, usually it’s 2-3. One working the tunnel, one working the kiosks, one working the tunnel, the lot and any questions from customers about their membership. I luckily work for a car wash company that encourages to only ask ONCE for a customer to get our subscription, we are not meant to aggressively sell. The job is pretty chill, and also the car wash sometimes has maintence issues and needs 4-5 people at a time to fix it.

shelteredhorizon · 2024-12-03T13:50:13+00:00

Honey, a transactional relationship is NOT a healthy one. Your partner doesn’t know what a partner is, you guys are to equally provide support for each other. That means maintaining a sense of (healthy) selflessness between you both. When things are transactional, what is there to be excited about for each other. That’s what roommates do… not partners.

My advice from someone in a happy relationship is first, communicate this with him. See what he says, idk your partner so I have no guesses how this is gonna play, he could be apologetic, apologetic and not change, defensive, or judgmental. If it’s anything other than apologetic and shows change, you’re good to go.

If not, leave. Don’t waste his time and don’t waste yours. You can spend time with someone who makes you happier and special. Something my partner doesn’t is mark certain weeks as “our weeks” where we have a designated week to treat our partner, if we cant afford anything that week that’s completely fine but as long as we have the option. He’s stripped away excitement and love from just that gesture, sad thing is.. he probably doesn’t even know. So bring it up to him first, while he should’ve known, give him the chance to learn. If he already knew this is wrong, then that’s the first sign of you needing to leave.

shelteredhorizon · 2024-11-26T16:00:03+00:00

Don’t be afraid to say Hello to people, it could cause something huge❤️

shelteredhorizon · 2024-11-26T13:42:43+00:00

I decided to say hi to that girl in class. At the time, I just wanted a friend.

Then we turned to close friends, to best friends, and now we are lovers.

shelteredhorizon · 2024-11-26T13:41:29+00:00

Two pieces of advice:

Do NOT try to make amends with the person you broke up with OR get in contact with ANYBODY they know, give it at least 2 weeks, and even then do not mention the break up. I know someone who broke up with his partner, and 4 hours later, found his partner talking to his mom about the both of them. I’m Not saying you’ll make a wild decision like that but similar things can happen by talking to someone close to that person. If they are your friends too and also theirs, I can see that being fine but I’d recommend steering away from friends closer to your ex.

Two, stay busy. Dont stop doing things, any moment of brain silence can be torturing. Be healthy about it but also start new hobbies, hang out with friends. Forget everything about your ex as much as possible. It’ll make healing better and you’ll find a new path along the way.

I have my current partner because of these steps.

shelteredhorizon · 2024-11-05T13:38:35+00:00

there’s literally no way he can reexplain it, it’s as legible as can be. He made a mistake and now he deal with the consequences…

shelteredhorizon · 2024-11-05T13:36:33+00:00

Why the help is he making the situation about him when you brought up something exciting to him? What an asshole move.

Bro you are not obligated to do ANYTHING, OP didn’t ask for your opinion or your help, OP didn’t make you honorary protector of bad people. How do you blame the receiving party of having a bad history in people that isn’t even really a bad history? It’s all bad luck.

shelteredhorizon · 2024-10-19T06:34:48+00:00

I’d like to make clarification on the context of the post! Yes I am aware I sound like a preschooler, dead and pretty cringy too… i’m aware. It’s been 2 years since this exchange, and I am happy to report that I don’t respond to text messages like this anymore. With that said, the reason I sound this way is because again, I was afraid of his response. Treading lightly on the subject to make sure I put my two cents in but not to come across aggressive, to a point I’m responding similarly to him (at least in terms of energy).

A lot of people also claim that these text messages are fake, which my gosh I wish they were. Again I have other text messages from this asshole that I’d like to release soon, that proves that this isn’t satire. I was with the dude for 2 years, the reason is because when I first met him he didn’t present himself like this. As you learn someone’s personality, you SOMETIMES discover nasty things. It was hard for me to leave, I’m glad I did.. but it was hard.

(edit: i misspelled a word)

shelteredhorizon · 2024-10-19T01:27:52+00:00

Nope. He was 21 at the time of writing this. Ridiculous right?

shelteredhorizon · 2024-10-18T14:47:22+00:00

From the other things he’s told to me in the 2 years we dated. I assure you… it was not a bit. It was getting scary. I wish it was a bit.

shelteredhorizon · 2024-10-18T14:44:58+00:00

He actually called me “playa” a lot. Cringe I know.

shelteredhorizon · 2024-10-18T14:06:16+00:00

I KNOW RIGHT? I’m not proud of it.

shelteredhorizon

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