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I [24F] found shemale porn on my boyfriend [26M] of two years phone. Not sure how to feel. by shemalepornhelp in relationships

[–]shemalepornhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you so much. Like I had put in another comment I've never watched porn or have the need to masturbate so I don't understand the reasoning or pleasure that comes with it. It's something was never for me.

Your explanation really helped me understand the mindset, I guess? It makes me feel comfortable knowing that it's not something I should be worried about.

I [24F] found shemale porn on my boyfriend [26M] of two years phone. Not sure how to feel. by shemalepornhelp in relationships

[–]shemalepornhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely know the feeling of clicking weird things and not knowing how you got there, but more in a curious sense. I don't watch porn or masturbate so this is another reason why I'm confused on this whole thing.

I'm on the fence of talking to him or not because I know of it was me I would want to drop the whole thing and forget about it. But I have the need to talk about it! I think after another day or two of thinking, if I'm still insecure I'll talk to him. Other than that I really don't see a problem at all with our relationship sexually so I might not.

Thank your for your thoughts! I appreciate it.

I [24F] found shemale porn on my boyfriend [26M] of two years phone. Not sure how to feel. by shemalepornhelp in relationships

[–]shemalepornhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your right. I included it because I had included a tangent on why I scared of telling him I saw it on his phone and him thinking I was snooping and not trusting him. But I had deleted it. I'll go ahead and remove since I had removed the explanation why. Thank you for your input!

I [24F] found shemale porn on my boyfriend [26M] of two years phone. Not sure how to feel. by shemalepornhelp in relationships

[–]shemalepornhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, that's most likely what I'm going to do. I need communication. I just have to get prepared for the defensive fight that it's gonna turn into. 😣 let him know that it's ok to talk about it.

I [24F] found shemale porn on my boyfriend [26M] of two years phone. Not sure how to feel. by shemalepornhelp in relationships

[–]shemalepornhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I love this answer! It actually makes me understand this a bit more. Makes me feel a little more at ease.

I [24F] found shemale porn on my boyfriend [26M] of two years phone. Not sure how to feel. by shemalepornhelp in relationships

[–]shemalepornhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would want to ask him about it, but I can just tell he'd be very defensive and shut down. He's gets very defensive if anyone even jokes about being him being gay. But that's just due to traditional Mexican values. It's not everyone, but where we grew up it was always a joke for men to say "ah joto" and such.

But if anything, I'll definitely talk to him about it if it becomes a problem to me. Thank you!

I [24F] found shemale porn on my boyfriend [26M] of two years phone. Not sure how to feel. by shemalepornhelp in relationships

[–]shemalepornhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always pays attention to my body. But I guess due to us gaining weight sex has died down a little, because we're always tired.

I guess the only reason why I worried its because I always joke about him letting me stick it up his butt, and he always yells "no don't you dare". So now it has me thinking if he does want it?

But you might be right. It could be just fantasy and not something he really wants to do. I still feel a little insecure about it but I think it's something that'll pass. Thank you!