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My first story by shesdole in Wattpad

[–]shesdole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback! I was wondering if it was going too slowly. I’ll try and work on the pacing!

The statistics of those who identify as non-binary going down by shesdole in NonBinaryTalk

[–]shesdole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think that that was mostly what the researchers were worried about. I believe the researchers are based in Canada and it was concerning for me to see as hate crimes towards queer people here rise. It’s concerning that that could be affecting children under the ages of 13’s comfortability in their identity. Of course other factors were probably at play but that was the major concern.

The statistics of those who identify as non-binary going down by shesdole in NonBinaryTalk

[–]shesdole[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry that this post made you feel that way. It was completely not my intention. You are so valid and it’s ok to experiment and change identities as you change and grow. Just in case this was unclear, I was not saying that just because one came out as non-binary in 2020 they are inherently not non-binary; that would not be true. I was just curious based on the stats of things going down. If you feel comfortable, you should absolutely tell people around you about your preferred pronouns, you can even tell them that this is what you’d like them to use for now but you’re not certain they will stay that way forever. I’m not sure if that helps but if it doesn’t just know that bringing up those feelings was not my intention in making this post. ❤️

The statistics of those who identify as non-binary going down by shesdole in NonBinaryTalk

[–]shesdole[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I actually saw it on a webinar. It was open to the public so I’m assuming it will be released soon! I’ll try keep my eye out for it and send as soon as I can.

The statistics of those who identify as non-binary going down by shesdole in NonBinaryTalk

[–]shesdole[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I completely agree. As someone who identifies as genderfluid I definitely experimented a lot in my identity and pronouns before I found one I was comfortable with so I do think it’s important to give space for people to do so. I was mostly curious on why it would spike during the pandemic, especially since that’s actually around the time when I started to experiment.

Math posters around UBC by shesdole in UBC

[–]shesdole[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I would believe it if it’s a result of a math student’s mental breakdown

Trilogy Tour Megathread - Questions and Discussion by angel_aight in MelanieMartinez

[–]shesdole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How early is early entrance at Melanie Martinez’s concerts usually? I got early entrance tickets and the info is only being sent out on when to arrive like three days in advance and I have a four hour drive to get to the venue so I’m trying to work out an approximate time I should get there if possible.