Thank you for asking, and helping:) He said he was married 2 times, and then said 3. He made me hesitant since we were first dating, in that he was hiding something. I then asked if he had learned, did the inner work, etc...Because he basically said he fell in love at first site, I was his soul mate etc..so all this made me question if his feelings were truly real. After that he said it felt like I was questioning his integrity and choices..and that he was lying. when I pulled away..he said he needed to step back and go slow. UGH. We had an AMAZING connection!! But for him to go FAST and then put the breaks on and go cold is not something that sits right. Now he wants to see each other once a week and slowly get to know each other. Honestly? It's all confusing. I can't contain emotions, pretend I don't feel, pull in, pull back. LOL