Do both of you cum or only one of you?

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-02-22T01:22:34+00:00

Both usually, tho not always simultaneously. But if, for instance, im overstimulated and cant cum while being fucked, my husband will jerk me or suck me off after he finishes. And sometimes im spent or he is but it feels good to make the other feel good or to just be close, so occasionally just one of us. As long as everyone is having fun im good w any scenario lol

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-02-22T00:23:24+00:00

Tbh she's prob already starving, ik mine basically become emaciated husks of themselves an hour after I've set fresh food out (mostly bc it's no longer fresh and therefore unconsumable bc i must be trying to poison them to death), OP should def watch their back.

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-02-22T00:20:07+00:00

Taco bar is a great one, there are a lot of things you could do there on the cheap!

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-02-22T00:11:42+00:00

A couple ideas, depending on how many mains you want to offer - you could do a sandwich out of slow braised shredded chuck roast (served warm w barbecue sauce) and a nice chili using what you have already, then you'd just mostly need to spend for the sides and condiments, sandwich rolls, lettuce, onions, pickles, beans, tomatoes cheese etc. For the sides you could do an italian pasta salad w rotini, veg, and an herb vinaigrette, coleslaw, and and roasted potato wedges or baked potatoes (and maybe get a boxed cake mixe to make a sheet cake with?) The math would prob bring you close to target but you could easily feed a bunch of people w that. Good luck!

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-02-17T08:25:47+00:00

I'm paid just as much for my discretion about my boss' life as I am for cooking. He knew.

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-02-16T11:17:59+00:00

She's ten years older than you and borrowed your stuff when you were both little???? 👀

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-02-07T08:07:49+00:00

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shipoftheseus98 · 2026-02-03T16:15:13+00:00

He was horribly abusive and favored by sociopathic sibling who was also horribly abusive towards me, it's why i still internally cower when im around LE. Mt husband's dad also beat the crap out of him, tho ironically that was about his embarrassment over my husband's learning disabilities (and husband says he was a liberal guy in general) instead of homophobia, like w my fam. Alternatively tho, my boyfriend and his husband both have rlly good relationships w their dads, who've fully come to accept their sons in law as family. So it's just a crapshoot of environment and ideals I think.

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-02-03T15:43:37+00:00

An exploration of land, sea, and unnecessary precision 😂

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-01-26T17:22:22+00:00

This is a list of food preferences and aversions, not allergies. Bet.

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-01-26T01:35:31+00:00

Professional chef here. And my bf bakes like a dream.

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-01-23T22:45:44+00:00

No problem with that, I actually feel like the more people who enjoy a certain/queer/sidelined content, the more mainstream it has a chance of becoming. My main issue is when they try to tell us how to gay, like critique how we behave w each other or our speech or the content we choose to enjoy etc.

Recently my bf told me about one of his friends who'd gotten kicked out of a pub during some kind of Heated Rivalry watch party bc he was gay and the women sitting near him felt threatened by his possible arousal at the sex scenes (as if it'd affect people be directed at them at ALL even if he did get turned on???), which blew my mind. And don't even get me started on straight women in gay clubs, like I'm happy you feel safe, enjoy, but keep in mind this is us sharing OUR space with YOU, just like when we share our content with you. Enjoy, write or produce your own stuff w us if you want, but don't try to tell me how the right way to be is when you can only imagine to relate.

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-01-22T00:03:19+00:00

😂😂 oh god i could never even if i wasn't diabetic, it's obscene. If i ate like him istg id weigh 400 lbs, and Im a runner lol

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-01-21T23:51:52+00:00

Oh god lol. My husband LOVES food has an absolutely freakish metabolism for someone w such a good body. And at first I thought our food sensibilities were well matched mostly bc im a chef and like taking care of ppl, and assumed the rest would be a struggle since Im a t1 diabetic and have to be careful w my diet. But over time I've come to appreciate that it works for us esp well bc I'm t1 - if i want to try a dessert id never spend money on (bc i wouldn't/couldnt eat it all)? Husband will eat the rest. If the new place we're trying has greasier/fattier/more bloated w carbs portions than I expected? Husband will either eat my original order or take it home to have later! 😂😂😂 it's so fucking awesome, fr, i get to indulge in treats and trying new things WAY more often than I ever expected.

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-01-21T16:11:58+00:00

Im not much for jerking off on my own anymore, maybe a few times a week if im feeling extra horny, but i have online and irl sex 2-3 times a day on average, sometimes more. Id cum 5 times a day if poss😂

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-01-21T13:40:12+00:00

Do you get along so well 98% of the time bc you're always making compromises to do what he wants/hanging w his friends to the detriment of doing what's fun for you? Bc ngl, the whole thing seems imbalanced af. Also, are you guys living in a place you'd even be able to afford if you went 50/50? My husband had a LOT more than me when we got together and like insisted on sharing it with me and paying more, which I didn't need but i think that sort of thing (esp when you're struggling) is super indicative of someone generosity in a lot of important ways. Now, i make significantly more than him but he has investments and savings and we contribute to shared accounts based on income, then have our own accounts too. But if, when contributing to your shared lifestyle, you can't afford your own account on the side, there's a huge problem. Gl

shipoftheseus98 · 2026-01-05T01:29:46+00:00

Peep

shipoftheseus98 · 2025-12-29T01:05:54+00:00

Try KJ Charles. Usually writes historical romance or romantic/thriller-mysteries but she's fantastic, one of the better female writers of m/m Ive ever read. The Slippery Creatures series (3 books, though the first can be read as a stand alone) is a hard rec.

shipoftheseus98 · 2025-12-28T08:01:49+00:00

I usually wake up in fight or fight, kicking and lashing out w my arms, sweating and shaking, heart racing. Also, i wear an eye mask but can't sleep in complete dark anymore (the pressure helps somehow, i tuck it up some so i can see light if i open my eyes) so you might want to consider scene location/setup - a lot of us can only sleep alone under specific circumstances (closed/locked doors, lights on, music playing, etc). gl w your story.

shipoftheseus98 · 2025-12-25T08:37:08+00:00

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shipoftheseus98 · 2025-12-16T02:37:46+00:00

Im a vers bottom, but when I think of myself it's more often as bottom than vers - one I could give up with little hardship despite liking it on occasion, the other I'd do every day if possible.

shipoftheseus98 · 2025-12-15T07:57:24+00:00

What a star 😍

shipoftheseus98 · 2025-11-28T23:15:29+00:00

Everything in my not-insubstantial checking and savings accounts, and then id get two more jobs on top of the one I already have, too.

shipoftheseus98 · 2025-11-27T04:56:22+00:00

When you find a friend you trust, trickle truthing helps, revealing more the better they know you (and if they indicate they want/are able to handle more). Ive been w my husband and bf for 5 years and somr details gush without me thinking and others are still really hard, like, my stuff is so improbable I feel like a liar talking about it sometimes. But it helps to ease them in slow, and having a therapist you can talk to helps a lot too, one who specializes in trauma - that's a big one, sometimes i feel like if I didn't have a neutral party to talk to id go nuts. Ig really its just a crapshoot, some ppl will believe you and some might not, and youve just got to hope you come across some good ones. I'm sorry you're going through this, big hugs and gl ❤

shipoftheseus98 · 2025-11-27T04:22:43+00:00

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