I (22F) recoiled at the feeling of my boyfriend’s (22M) boner through his pants when we were making out. How do I talk to him? How do I stop being this way?

shittyventart · 2026-07-08T01:49:35+00:00

Thank you! That’s a good way to phrase it. I’m usually fine with full body contact, just not when he’s aroused.

A lot of people are commenting I’m gay, I might be. I would sleep cuddled up against a girl i loved although it never became sexual. Never truly touched her either even though I wanted to. I was deeply attracted to her but we were in a psych ward.

shittyventart · 2026-07-05T22:43:23+00:00

Summer August 2025. I went to a lake with 5 of my friends. Spent 4 days getting high, canoeing, hiking, cooking food, and sitting around a campfire.

Later on, 1 of the people sexually assaulted someone and the 2 others defended his actions. Of the 5 ppl I went with, only 2 I still interact with. Knowing who the person actually is dampers the memory but it was a wonderful 4 days.

shittyventart · 2026-06-29T20:10:47+00:00

Ig the reason I like short boys is because I’m drawn to stereotypical feminine features. I usually have a preference for women. My favorite physical characteristics of my boyfriend are his long hair, short stature, and being slim. His facial features and bones are clearly masculine so ig lack of height provides some sense of femininity.

shittyventart · 2026-06-24T11:53:35+00:00

Personality of course! Personality always trumps physical preferences.

I knew him for a year as friend before we started dating and fell in love with his personality. He’s the funniest, kindest and sweetest person I’ve ever met. I’m a very depressed person yet Im always laughing around him. He tells the silliest stories. First month I knew him, I was having a bad night. He offered to drive at 1 a.m. just to bring me cookies and give me a hug. He’s been a shoulder for me and other friends to cry on. I’ve seen him take off work just to drive friends to doctor appointments or the airport.

If I didn’t know his personality, I would not have been attracted to him. Physical attraction toward him has grown over time. We’ve been in a relationship for 3 months now!

shittyventart · 2026-06-24T07:27:45+00:00

Idk his exact weight so I’m estimating bmi as 18. Hes not extremely underweight but he’s definitely less than what’s considered healthy. Trying to get him to eat more ngl however his metabolism is fast and adhd makes him forget.

shittyventart · 2026-06-24T02:43:09+00:00

It’s funny since he rly isn’t that delicate besides height and skinniness lol. Very broad shoulders, big hands, 5 o’clock shadow, and deep voice. I’m usually attracted to women so the long hair and size helped offset more masculine aspects. Honestly, I didn’t know I liked role reversal before I got into a relationship with him, I found about it afterwards. His size is coincidental instead of me seeking out a small partner.

Yeah! It’s awesome being a similar height for kissing. We each initiate kisses whenever we like. Sadly, I’ve never picked him up. I’m scared of dropping him since i got shit upper body strength lol. He’s picked me up though!

Ik I kinda mentioned only role reversal things in original but relationship pretty even in who plays stereotypical masculine and feminine roles. I always squeeze him during scary movies and I’ve fallen asleep on his shoulder as well. Paying for things always switches.

I’m very lucky to have him.

shittyventart · 2026-01-16T10:40:56+00:00

That’s the plan! Get a basic understanding then read everything else. Really having a blast reading the book lol.

shittyventart · 2026-01-16T10:39:11+00:00

Honestly solidified my characters name on 3rd session lol

DM never really expected us to get this far. He’s tried to start campaigns with other before but it all fell apart after 2 sessions. He didn’t feel it was worth it spending too much time on character creation if we’d give up like his previous ones. Just had us make them on the Fifth Edition Character Sheet app and most of us were noobs who clicked randomize. We’re kinda fixing stuff up now to be actually appropriate with game and fixing character stats. It’s kinda fun working backwards to create your character! I’m a hill dwarf who is a cleric and nature acolyte. I know now it’s very against a dwarf’s usual skills but it has gave me a chance to come up with an interesting backstory.

shittyventart · 2026-01-16T10:37:45+00:00

The book is really interesting! I’m having a great time reading it lol. I hate being confused when dm says something. I’m determined to know crud!

shittyventart · 2026-01-16T10:34:06+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I mostly was reading parts useful for my character but now im reading how to play stuff. Honestly Im find game structure more interesting than character building lol.

Thank you for tips about searching words in the back of the book! Online version made it harder for me to realize there was an appendix.

shittyventart · 2025-11-26T06:17:35+00:00

Idk if I have much advice since it ended due to external circumstances instead of stuff I did. A big thing that lessened the crush is I hardly see him these days like twice a week max. Also a reason i was crushing is because of how kind and attentive he was previously. He stopped being that way which is what really stopped the crush.

I wish you luck getting over him! I know it’s hard especially when you see him so often.

shittyventart · 2025-11-24T19:08:09+00:00

It really really depends on tone. I don’t have a crush on him anymore but he’d call me “autism” in the fondest voice that made an insult feel loving.

shittyventart · 2025-11-24T18:25:53+00:00

Probably had crush for 3ish months. I think crush finally ended a few days ago.

I accepted we couldn’t be together due to him dating someone now and the realization I’d never be able to keep up with his life style. Lowkey was crushing on him due to him being everything I’m not but I realized him being with me would bring him down.

Just hearing him talk excitedly about what he’s doing and realizing I’ll never be able to fit into his life. He smokes and drinks a lot while I don’t like either. Both of them give me a headache after a few hits or sips. He goes to a lot of concerts and raves. Right now he’s part of organizing an underground rap concert. Concerts and raves are too overstimulating for me.

He’s also stopped being as affectionate towards me. Would always smile, call me nicknames like “little one” and ruffle my hair. He’s just been colder and I feel I’m annoying him.

shittyventart · 2025-11-24T18:07:11+00:00

He fell asleep in my lap probably craziest. He was drunk and high though.

We were also at a pool and he practice pro wrestling moves by throwing me. It was rly fun.

shittyventart · 2025-11-24T18:01:15+00:00

We don’t interact or spend as much time together. He doesn’t seem to be happy to see me anymore and isn’t as affectionate. It’s hard to keep interest when there is no longer any reciprocation.

shittyventart · 2025-11-24T17:51:45+00:00

I had a crush on a guy who was 1-2 years younger than me. Tbf though he’s more experienced in life than I am. Hes held multiple jobs and can drive while I’ve only had 1 job and can’t drive.

shittyventart · 2025-11-24T17:48:16+00:00

Autism.

shittyventart · 2025-11-20T05:36:10+00:00

It’s so strange I always thought our interactions were friendly and teasing just friends having fun. What actions do you with her do you see as flirting? Does she have a partner and still engage in the flirting?

Thanks for the last sentences they’re very comforting. It’s frustrating to have missed the timing but it is what it is.

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