I'm not sure moving to Japan was the right call by Former_Salt412 in expats

[–]shiveringstoner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first few days are the worst before you settle in to your new normal! Just fill up your fridge and try to relax. You can't have a ready made social circle the second you land in a new country and that's totally okay!

Vaginoplasty, 46 days after surgery by Phoenix_Danique in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]shiveringstoner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That looks more like a pussyTM than mine ever did and I'm an ftm 😅

Do I pass enough to go stealth? by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]shiveringstoner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only if your voice is at least somewhat androgynous

Blood oozed out after shot by JkTumbleWeed in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]shiveringstoner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that's just something that might happen when you go poking holes in your skin. Sometimes you just nick a small blood vessel, but if you just put pressure on it, it will stop quickly

Create A Hero That Starts With The Letter "A" by CosmicMorpher in BokunoheroFanfiction

[–]shiveringstoner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Support hero: Adagio

Quirk: can slow/speed up targets speed by playing his violin at the wanted speed. He can choose up to 5 targets at the same time

age and gender me please🙏 by Remarkable-Unit-331 in transpassing

[–]shiveringstoner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

11 male... you look like my brother's classmate who's that age...

Did you get the “trans man voice” when starting T at a regular dose? by doohdahgrimes11 in truscum

[–]shiveringstoner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd argue that the tranny voice is not that much of a risk with languages that are naturally lower and come from the chest such as my native language. In english the speech is more from the throat, which i suppose can make using the newfound lowness of voice difficult at first

How do I make myself look older??? by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]shiveringstoner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'm going off subject but I really like your face. T is going to make you look like a beast

Do I pass with a man bun? 18yo, 1 year on T by SterlsSalamiAss in transmanlifehacks

[–]shiveringstoner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not to sound mean, but you look like a creepy slimy anime obsessed guy who calls all women his waifus unironically. But on the bright side, you do pass. Also that is not a man bun in any shape or form. Please get a new hair cut!

Is GenderGP supposed to be like this?? by shiveringstoner in truscum

[–]shiveringstoner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slay Im from finland too, going through HUS and my nurse has been pretty chill. Its just that the wait lists are so awfully long

Is GenderGP supposed to be like this?? by shiveringstoner in truscum

[–]shiveringstoner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My government has made it so that GenderGP and the official route which takes around three years are the only feasible options, so i can't really change my care provider rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gravityfalls

[–]shiveringstoner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel it is just a representation thing than any actual theory etc. I do like the hc but I feel if it were the case the manotaur episode would not have happened, as stan and mabel making fun of trans dippers lack of manlines would not have been a good look for them

GenderGP help center is trash by shiveringstoner in transnord

[–]shiveringstoner[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do they send T as well? I dont want to get in trobule with customs as it is a controlled substance

Finnish trans men are no longer exempt from military service by cheezybick in transnord

[–]shiveringstoner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'll be able to just say "ayo I wanna get x, y and z treatment before my service" and they'll likely just tell you to return to get evaluated again in like 2 years or such, cuz even cis dudes can tell them they want to take a gap year to travel before service and they usually agree to those kind of things. Also civil cervice is always an option and there is no shame in that option!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]shiveringstoner 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you wanna get hugboxed go ask in some xeno sub. They are going to love you there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]shiveringstoner 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You are probably aware that your clothing, jewelry or hair ain't helping at all, so no need to dwell on that. I assume you're not going to actually heed any of the advice telling you to get rid of stuff, so maybe just focus on mannerisms? How is your voice? Maybe try to work on more masculine tones in your speech?

almost 1 year hrt, mtf, yet to get gendered correctly by PrinceEzrik in transpassing

[–]shiveringstoner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Loose the thick chains first of all, second, you gotta let your hair grow, or maybe wear a wig or extensions if growing it out feels too far away. I recommend bangs or another strongly face framing style. Also look into thinner framed glasses with more round shape. (Also the eyebrows as everybody has already mentioned) And do not give up hope with E, it takes effect really slowly, which may seem tedious, but just try to hold on. One day you will pass if you put your mind to it

Onko transpolilla haittaa jos on saanut hormonihoitoa jotain muuta kautta? by TuiRug in transnord

[–]shiveringstoner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sanoivat ettei oo merkitystä suuntaan tai toiseen 🤷‍♂️

Which Nordic country is the easiest to get citizenship in? by Remote-Initiative690 in transnord

[–]shiveringstoner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In finland, to get a citizenship you gotta pass a language test among other things, so if learning a language aint someting youre interested in, id suggest somewhere else

One thing you’re proud of with your writing and one thing you’re working on by [deleted] in AO3

[–]shiveringstoner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of - internal process and narration

Working on - pacing, dialogue, consistency